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The Ultra Practical Workbook for Overcoming Avoidant Attachment is your hands-on guide to rewiring how you connect—without the jargon, shame, or vague advice. Whether you’ve been called “emotionally unavailable,” struggle to stay present when things get real, or love someone who seems guarded, this workbook offers a clear path to secure, fulfilling relationships.

You feel drained. Confused. Unseen. They never yelled. They never hit you. But somehow, you lost yourself. They made you doubt your memory. Your emotions. Your instincts. And even now, after everything, you still question whether it was really abuse—because it didn’t look like what people usually call abuse. But deep down, you know: something was deeply wrong. This is what covert narcissistic abuse does. It’s invisible, manipulative, and designed to make you feel like the problem. You gave more, stayed longer, tried harder—hoping things would change. But they never did.

Are you highly independent but secretly long for deeper connection? Do you find yourself shutting down during emotional conversations? Avoidantly Detached is your guide to understanding avoidant attachment—and transforming the habits that keep you at a distance from the connection you crave. Drawing from research and lived experience, this book offers a step-by-step approach to avoidant attachment recovery in a way that honors your autonomy.

Too often, we bring our own assumptions and agendas to our conversations with others. It is common to feel that we already know the ‘right’ way of thinking about something, so, when people disagree or promote conflicting ideas, we might not be really interested in listening to them. We may dial down our level of concentration or tune out altogether. The unspoken assumption is, why should we invest in hearing their perspective when we already know they are wrong?