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In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy is joined by Esh from the Esh Your Heart Out podcast for a deep dive into the complex dynamics between love, friendships, and personal growth. We explore why people often lose friends when entering a new relationship, backed by studied research and real-life experiences.

But that’s not all – we also dig into sex phobias, breaking down what they are, why they happen, and how they can be addressed. Plus, Esh and Billy discuss the benefits of embracing singlehood and how taking time for yourself can lead to personal empowerment and growth.

It’s all about finding balance between love, friendships, and self-love, so grab your notebooks and join us in class for this insightful, fun, and risqué conversation!

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In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy’s kicking it with Esh from the Esh Your Heart Out podcast to talk about something we’ve all felt at some point – losing friends when you get into a new relationship. We’re breaking it down with the real research that shows why this happens and what’s really going on when your friendship circle starts shrinking.

But wait, we’re not stopping there. We also get into sex phobias – yup, they’re real, and we’re unpacking what they are, why they happen, and how you can work through ‘em. Plus, we’re diving into why being single isn’t a bad thing, and how owning your singlehood can level you up in ways you didn’t even know.

So grab your pens, class is in session – let’s talk about love, friendships, sex, and the power of doing your own damn thing.

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Is it chemistry or compatibility that really matters in love? 🤔 In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy and Wolf break down why we keep falling for the wrong ones and whether that instant spark is actually a red flag. 👀💔

We also get into:
🔥 Billy’s latest ghosting situation—was he wrong or justified? 👻
🔥 Spicy Valentine’s Day tips to make this year one for the books 😈💘
🔥 The difference between a "roster" according to Billy vs. Wolf—who’s got it right? 👀

This one is messy, unfiltered, and guaranteed to make you rethink your dating strategy. Tap in! 🎧

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Are you constantly dating the wrong people? Do you struggle with trust issues or feel like you’re always the one putting in all the effort? 🫠 In this episode, I sit down with Mac the Therapist, a relationship expert who’s breaking down attachment styles, insecurities, and why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners.

🎙️ We’re covering:
✅ The real reason you have trust issues (it’s deeper than you think!)
✅ Are you anxious, avoidant, or secure? Understanding your attachment style
✅ Why you keep falling for emotionally unavailable people
✅ How to build trust and stop sabotaging your relationships
✅ Practical tips to feel secure in love again

If you’re tired of toxic cycles, trust issues, and ghosting, this episode will change how you approach love forever. 💡

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🚀 Don’t forget to share this episode with a friend who needs to hear this!

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Class is officially in session, and today we’re diving deep into the world of foreplay, exploring your sexuality, and building sexual compatibility! Joining us is the incredible Jody, a certified sexologist and host of the podcast Her Nut Matters. Jody brings her expert knowledge and no-holds-barred approach to teach us everything we didn’t learn in Sex Ed.

We’re breaking down why foreplay is more than just an “extra credit” activity, how to explore your desires while single, and the signs that you and your partner are sexually compatible. From real-life examples to practical tips, this episode is the ultimate study guide for improving your sex life and embracing your sexuality.

Tune in for a fun, risqué, and insightful conversation that’ll have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about intimacy. Don’t miss this chance to level up your “sex education”!

Homework Assignment: Listen, take notes, and figure out what’s missing from your sexual curriculum!

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Class is in session, and today, we’re diving into one of the juiciest lessons yet! Your host, @Billy.thebadguy, is joined by the captivating and oh-so-knowledgeable Sir Marvelous to break down the Psychology of BDSM—because let’s face it, kink is way more than just handcuffs and safe words.

In this episode, we’ll study:
📚 Building Sexual Anticipation: How to keep your partner on their toes (in and out of the bedroom).
📚 Getting Comfortable Asking for What You Want: From the bedroom to the boardroom, it’s time to speak up and own it.
📚 Rediscovering Pleasure and Rebuilding Confidence: Whether you’re starting fresh or spicing things up, we’ve got you covered.

And of course, the meat and potatoes—we’ll deep-dive into the Psychology of BDSM: Why trust, communication, and power dynamics are at the core of this connection. Spoiler alert: It’s about way more than just pain and pleasure—it’s a whole masterclass in intimacy.

Grab your notebooks and get ready to take notes because this lesson? It’s one you won’t want to skip!

🎧 Tune in now to Needs to Be Studied—where every class is a study in connection, confidence, and a whole lot of spice.

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Class is in session, and today we’re diving into Relationship 101 with podcast producer and DJ, @thankyoueddin! How long should you really stay in a situationship before making it official? Or is staying in the “gray zone” the secret to keeping things spicy? We’re breaking down timelines, red flags, and why some folks treat commitment like a group project they didn’t sign up for. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and some gems you didn’t know you needed!

🎧 Let’s study this messy thing called modern dating—because your situationship deserves a syllabus.

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In this episode of Needs to be Studied, your favorite delusional bestie, @Billy.thebadguy, is catching us all the way up! Billy spills the tea on his solo date night—what he did, what he learned, and the iconic artist he went to see in concert (you won’t believe who it was!). Plus, he breaks down the Beyoncé Bowl Christmas Halftime Show and drops his hilarious-yet-dead-serious theory about Queen Bey’s next move. 👑🎤

But that’s not all—Billy dives into how men will always find new and creative ways to embarrass you in public (ugh, why tho?!). Then, in a jaw-dropping game of We Listen and We Don’t Judge with an ex, he uncovers shocking news that’ll have you clutching your pearls. Finally, Billy lays out the new dating trends of 2025 you need to know to stay ahead in this messy dating pool.

Get ready for laughs, relatable moments, and a sprinkle of wisdom—it’s an episode you don’t want to miss! 🎧

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