In this episode, we talk to Sairan Aqwari who achieved the American dream by coming from Iraq to build a career in the United States as a successful engineer. It wasn’t an easy transition coming from the Middle East and building a life in the United States, but with dedication and hard work she was able to find here what she had always dreamed about—personal and professional success. Then, suddenly, in midlife, she realized that the messages she and other women were getting about reinventing themselves were negative. She says: “I was navigating feelings of stagnation, questioning whether I was truly living up to my full potential. It was daunting to imagine reinventing myself at a stage in life when many believe it’s too late.” Determined to quiet the negative voices and to help other women do the same, she began coaching women. Her goal is to help them define their passion, recognize their potential, and make an income in their new chapters. You will enjoy our lively conversation with practical tips on how to silence the naysayers, unlock your hidden talents, and begin again.

To learn more about Sairan:

https://www.instagram.com/sairanaqrawi/

It’s not something many of us feel comfortable talking about-sex. But let’s face it, most of us are doing sex wrong. We’ve been fed a bunch of images from movies and media that don’t pan out in the real world. According to recent studies, about 73 percent of women between 48 and 68 are still sexually active, but that number continues to decrease with age according to Harvard Medical School as about 50 percent of them are experiencing some type of sexual dysfunction. Some of this is physical—typically a woman’s libido decreases in menopause with a decrease in estrogen, and these physical changes can lead to painful intercourse. But barriers to sex and intimacy can also be psychological, and this is troubling because there is ample scientific evidence that having real intimacy in our lives is critical to our emotional well-being and longevity.

In this episode, my dear longtime friend Bella Brooks talks about her journey to becoming a newly minted Certified Sex Coach and Sexologist. She explains how she helps people find better connection, intimacy, and pleasure by improving sexual confidence and communication skills. Her goal is to help them redefine relationships and re-frame sexuality on their own terms. What’s missing in your sex life? What do you want to change? Bella has a lot of great wisdom to share on these topics.

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There are friends we have for a season in our lives, that we might not see again, but they have a profound impact on us and make us smile when we think of them. There are lifelong friends, people who knew you “when.” They know your history, your stories, and they love every version of you without judgment. Even if you don’t see them often, your bond remains strong forever. And then there are adult friends, friends that might not have been there from the start, but once you meet them, you can’t imagine your life without them. They walk with you through decades sharing experiences, confidences, and the daily ups and downs of life.

My original idea for this episode was to simply to explore the friendships between women and gay men. Why are these friendships so common, especially in midlife, and why are they so important to us as women, and to the men we share these friendships with?

But what I discovered in my conversation with longtime friends John Mitterling and Karen Livingston is something far deeper than a surface exploration of this topic. In our very raw interview, John vulnerably shares his painful journey to coming out to the world as a gay man and how Karen was by his side with compassion every step of the way, without judgment, to lift him up. Join me for this profound exploration of friendship and how it can enrich, and sometimes, even save our lives.

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Downsizing used to be something people did well after retirement when they “got old.” But the trend is changing. More people are choosing to leave the nest as soon as it becomes empty to start a new chapter, a simpler chapter free of home maintenance and one that comes with more time and flexibility. Some people want to travel, others want to be closer to their adult children. Whatever the reason, there are practical and logistical steps that are a necessary part of this process. In this episode, we speak to a veteran real estate agent about what she’s seeing and best practices to efficiently downsize. We also talk to a recent downsizer about the hurdles and the perks of simplifying your living situation.

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Glenwood Agency Real Estate |Superior Home Buying| Raleigh, NC - A Superior Way to Shop.

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Pamela DeLoatch's mother lied about her age. Pamela didn't learn about the ten-year discrepancy until after her mother died. Why did she do it? Pamela suspects that like many women of her generation she felt that getting older was a sign of weakness, a sign that you were no longer relevant, especially as a woman. But at 61, Pamela has embraced a new philosophy. She's proud of what she has accomplished in her lifetime and still has so much to offer to her community. Pamela had a career in corporate America, and after pivoting in her fifties, she is now a successful freelance writer. She's married with four grown children. Life wasn't always easy balancing work and family as they crisscrossed the country several times moving from North Carolina to Chicago and back again twice. But with age comes the wisdom to know that if you have survived something once, you can do it again, and again, and again. In this episode, Pamela and I break down the myths and stereotypes about aging and even dig into Brooke Shields' insightful new book: Brooke Shields Is Not Allowed To Get Old.

To learn more about Pamela:

https://www.instagram.com/pamela_deloatch/

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About 2 million women reach menopause every year; that’s about 6000 women per day. Scientifically, this means they stop having their periods for one year. The average age to begin menopause is 52, but it can occur anywhere from 45 to 58. And there’s a big lead up to the red carpet that a lot of women don’t even know about that carries its own set of symptoms called perimenopause. Here’s the real kicker, these seasons of a woman’s life can last for years. The list of symptoms is endless—hot flashes, trouble sleeping, irritability, weight gain. Yet, it seems like medical resources have historically not focused on the serious issues that women face during menopause. In this episode, we talk frankly about what happens to women during menopause and look at the medical solutions that are available to help them deal with this transition in a tangible and meaningful way. My guests include a women who shares her menopause journey with us and a Family Nurse Practitioner who specializes in women’s health.

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Welcome to the second season of AGELESS: Opening Doors with Amanda Lamb. This is a podcast for women, about women, featuring women. There's a new generation of women who are redifining midlife, what it means to find a new chapter based on a foundation of life experience and profound insight. The process is both daunting and a little bit thrilling. I listened to you, my audience. This season, I will be bringing you stories about some of the hottest topics that interest you. The shows will also include interviews with experts who break down myths and give you the facts, as well as advice you can use. Whether you are looking for inspiration, information, or motivation, there is something for you here. Join me for another wild ride this year as we unpack issues and talk to trailblazing women who are paving the way for the rest of us. Let's do this!

A staggering number of young adults are still living with their parents. A Pew Research study puts the number at 57% for people age 18 to 24, and about a third of people age 18 to 34 live at home. These numbers haven’t been this high in the United States since the 1940s. The number one reason young people cite for returning to the nest is their inability to survive financially on their own. This return home can topple the family dynamic. So, what is the best way to create boundaries—financial, emotional, and otherwise when it comes to living with adult children? Should there be rules? You must work or go to school, contribute to the household chores, and pay rent. It’s not as easy as it sounds to establish and stick to these boundaries. Pediatrician turned parenting coach, Dr. Hope Seidel, returns to the show for this episode to walk us through best practices for welcoming adult children home while keeping your sanity.

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Welcome to the second season of AGELESS: Opening Doors with Amanda Lamb. This is a podcast for women, about women, featuring women. There's a new generation of women who are redifining midlife, what it means to find a new chapter based on a foundation of life experience and profound insight. The process is both daunting and a little bit thrilling. I listened to you, my audience. This season, I will be bringing you stories about some of the hottest topics that interest you. The shows will also include interviews with experts who break down myths and give you the facts, as well as advice you can use. Whether you are looking for inspiration, information, or motivation, there is something for you here. Join me for another wild ride this year as we unpack issues and talk to trailblazing women who are paving the way for the rest of us. Let's do this!

For many people, divorce is like a death, especially in midlife when you thought you had a plan for your future, and suddenly, it falls apart. But there are ways to minimize the stress of divorce for you and your family. On today’s show, I consult with family law attorneys about how women can travel this difficult road with the most efficiency and peace. This is not only useful information for women going through a divorce, but it can help you as a friend or family member support your loved ones during what can be their darkest hour.

For more information on my guests:

Andrea Pettine:

Pettine Law Offices, LLC - Family Law, Mediation

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Elizabeth Stephenson:

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