Welcome to Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker. In this episode, Dr. Barker dives deep into a classic and still-relevant psychological concept: Transactional Analysis—and why understanding it might be the key to healthier, more productive relationships.

With over 25 years of experience as a psychologist, Dr. Barker unpacks how we subconsciously shift between three ego states—Parent, Adult, and Child—in nearly every interaction we have, especially in romantic or emotionally charged relationships.

You’ll learn:

• What Transactional Analysis is and why it still matters
• The difference between the Parent, Adult, and Child ego states
• How these states show up in arguments, communication breakdowns, and emotional triggers
• Why emotionally immature parenting can lead to emotional stuckness in adulthood
• How to break the cycle and move toward Adult-to-Adult communication
• How this theory overlaps with concepts like inner child work, DBT, and emotional regulation

💬 Ever feel like you're having the same argument over and over again?
💬 Are you trying to be rational, but your partner is reacting emotionally—or vice versa?
This episode gives you the psychological framework to understand why, and how to shift the dynamic.

📩 Got a question or topic suggestion? Drop a comment or send an email—Dr. Barker welcomes your input for future episodes.

BarkerHoldingSpace@gmail.com

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