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De-escalate Stress & Build Trust with One Simple Phrase
- 2025/02/14
- 再生時間： 17 分
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Have you ever felt truly seen? That moment when someone acknowledges your emotions without judgment? That’s the power of verbal attending – a simple yet transformative communication tool that can help us connect, de-escalate tense situations, and build trust.
In this episode, Andy dives deep into I notice statements and how they can turn conflict into understanding, frustration into calm, and disengagement into connection. Whether you're a caregiver, teacher, parent, or leader, this skill can help you support others while creating a more positive and open dialogue.
🎯 What You’ll Learn:~ ✅ What verbal attending is and why it’s so effective ✅ How neutral observations help de-escalate difficult situations ✅ The importance of curiosity over judgment in communication ✅ Real-life examples of I notice statements in action ✅ How this tool benefits individuals with trauma, neurodiversity, dementia, and emotional regulation difficulties📢 Episode Sponsor: Carers Card UK
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Key Messages from This Episode:1️⃣ Connection Starts with Observation – Simply noticing someone’s behaviour and acknowledging it in a neutral way can help them feel seen, valued, and understood. 2️⃣ Curiosity Over Assumption – Instead of labelling emotions or jumping to conclusions, using I notice statements allows for open, non-judgmental communication. 3️⃣ Small Gestures, Big Impact – Whether in caregiving, teaching, or leadership, verbal attending can de-escalate tense moments, build trust, and improve relationships.
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⏳ Key Timestamps (Chapters):⏰ 00:00 – Introduction: The Power of Feeling Seen 👀 ⏰ 02:30 – How I Notice Statements Build Connection 🫱🏽🫲🏼 ⏰ 06:15 – Using Verbal Attending to De-escalate Conflict 🔥➡️🕊️ ⏰ 10:45 – The Link Between Thoughts, Feelings & Behaviour 🔄 ⏰ 15:20 – How Neutral Observations Reduce Emotional Tension 🎭 ⏰ 19:55 – Why Curiosity is More Powerful than Assumption 🤔💡 ⏰ 24:30 – Practical Ways to Apply Verbal Attending in Daily Life 🏡🏢 ⏰ 29:10 – How Teachers & Caregivers Can Use This Skill in Action 🎒💖 ⏰ 33:45 – Helping Children & Adults Recognise Their Own Emotions 🧠❤️ ⏰ 38:20 – The Impact of Verbal Attending on Neurodiverse Individuals 🏳️🌈🧩 ⏰ 42:50 – Avoiding Judgments & Unhelpful Assumptions 🚫⚖️ ⏰ 47:15 – Building Trust & Connection Through Observation 🏗️🤝 ⏰ 51:50 – Recap: Key Takeaways for Using Verbal Attending 🎯 ⏰ 59:45 – Closing Thoughts & Where to Learn More 📚
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