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Delight Your Marriage

Delight Your Marriage

著者: Belah Rose | Christ-centered Author Coach & Marriage Intimacy Expert
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Husbands and wives were designed to be different. You want different things in marriage and intimacy on every level (emotional, spiritual, and physical). Whether you're a wife or a husband, whether you're suffering or pretty good... and you're looking for Bible-based insights and scriptural practical guidance on how to transform your marriage, you've found the right podcast! We have "transformation stories" that will inspire hope that putting into practice these principles, by God's grace, can truly change your intimacy completely. If you're looking to see how to transform your marriage sign up for a free Clarity Call, we can hear your story and work with you to determine if we are confident we can help you: https://www.delightyourmarriage.com/cc(c) Delight Your Marriage キリスト教 スピリチュアリティ 聖職・福音主義 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Announcing Extension! Save $500 Until THIS Friday 7/14/25
    2025/07/15

    Exciting news!

    We're extending a $500 savings on our coaching programs until this Friday.

    Due to the wonderful services and support our coaching clients receive and the fact that we have maintained our coaching programs for 4 years though our services, technology, and results have improved, we are having to increase our coaching prices.

    But before we do, we'd like to give you a chance to get in at the lowest opportunity it'll ever!

    This is your chance to transform your marriage with our proven system before prices increase.

    Sign up for a clarity call at delightym.com/cc and be part of the next transformation story.

    Don't miss out on this opportunity to invest in your relationship and witness the miracles happening every day. Act now and take the first step towards a thriving marriage!

    Until THIS Friday 7/14/25 sign up at: delightym.com/cc
    (Or if you know someone who needs this, send it to them!)

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  • 491-A Fine Marriage, Now an Extraordinary Marriage: Bart's Story
    2025/07/10
    A Fine Marriage, Now an Extraordinary Marriage: Bart's Story

    Bart is a Christian leader. He’s the head of a childcare agency working with traumatized children and teens. He’s been married for nearly 20 years and has four beautiful kids.

    And by his own admission?

    He was tired. Burned out. Irritable.
    Or, in his words—“crusty.”

    He wasn’t in crisis. His marriage wasn’t “on the rocks.”
    But it wasn’t thriving either.

    And Bart knew something had to change.

    Christian Leaders Get Tired, Too—But That Doesn’t Mean You Stay There

    One Saturday morning, Bart’s wife tried to be playful with him—and he snapped.

    He didn’t mean to. He was just worn out, juggling too many roles, feeling the pressure of leadership, family, and ministry. But his wife’s gentle confrontation was a turning point.

    She didn’t yell. She didn’t threaten.
    She just called it what it was.

    And Bart—rather than shutting down—responded with humility and self-reflection.
    Not because he had to…
    But because he wanted to grow.

    Why “Good Enough” Marriage Isn’t the Goal—Even for Ministry Leaders

    Bart described his marriage as “a 9 on a bad day.”
    No major fights. No betrayals. No one was threatening to leave.

    But deep down, he knew something wasn’t right.
    The joy was fading.
    The connection was inconsistent.
    And his presence at home was… thin.

    Too many leaders settle for “fine” because there isn’t obvious brokenness. But lack of crisis doesn’t mean abundance of health.

    How One Christian Husband Reconnected With His Wife (and Kids)

    Bart didn’t just learn new tools—he let God change his posture.

    He took a long, hard look at his own heart.
    He asked his wife, with full honesty, "Have I made intimacy feel transactional to you?"

    She said no. But Bart still made changes.
    He apologized for things from 20 years ago.
    He went to his kids, one by one, and asked for forgiveness for being emotionally absent.

    And the impact?
    Laughter returned.
    Confidence rose.
    Connection was rebuilt—at home, where it matters most.

    When You Lead at Work But Struggle at Home

    Bart’s job requires emotional intelligence, patience, and deep listening.
    He gives that to kids, to employees, to families in crisis.

    But when he got home?

    He was depleted.
    He admits, “I was giving my best to strangers—not to the people who mattered most.”

    The CIRQUE listening framework helped him shift.
    Not just in knowledge—but in behavior.
    He started seeing his wife again. Not as someone who was “doing fine,” but as someone he was called to serve and cherish.

    Intention Without Action Won’t Heal a Struggling Marriage

    One of the most striking moments in Bart’s story?
    The first time he walked around the car to open the door for his wife in years.

    She paused.
    Surprised.

    It had been that long.

    But it wasn’t about the door.
    It was about intentionality.
    About pursuit.
    About loving her like the daughter of the King she is.

    Christian Leaders: Your Marriage Doesn’t Have to Be Broken to Be Better

    Friend, maybe your marriage isn’t “bad.”
    Maybe no one knows how empty or tired you feel.
    Maybe your congregation thinks everything’s fine.

    But you know.

    You know you’re not showing up the way you want to.
    You know she deserves more.
    You know God is calling you deeper.

    Don’t wait for a crisis to choose transformation.
    Don’t wait for regret to become your motivation.

    Start now.
    Invest now.
    Lead your home like Jesus—by going first.

    With love,

    The Delight Your Marriage Team

    PS - Are you ready to take the leap? Schedule a free Clarity Call with one of our Clarity Advisors at delightym.com/cc

    PPS - Our prices are going up after July 15th! Schedule a free Clarity Call before then to save $500+ on your Coaching program.

    PPPS - Here is a quote from (another) recent graduate:
    Being in ministry together and having raised 5 children under the pressure-cooker stress of the mission field, much of our life and conversation related only to family, ministry or solving "issues”…[Now,] there have been so many [celebrations] it's hard to list the biggest! I celebrate the peace in my heart that has allowed me to be non-reactive and non-explosive in some very difficult and high-tension situations…I celebrate the new playful way that we are connecting in the bedroom…I celebrate that my wife is now telling my children that "Dad is different!"

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  • 490-Putting God First Will Change Your Marriage
    2025/07/04
    Putting God First Will Change Your Marriage If you're anything like me, you’ve found yourself caught in the swirl of responsibilities, relationships, expectations... and distractions. It’s so easy to let the noise of life drown out the voice of God. Even in marriage—especially in marriage—it’s easy to start placing our hope in the wrong thing. And when we do that, even the good things, like marriage, can become shaky ground. But what if the real anchor isn’t your spouse, or your role, or your routine—but your relationship with God? Why Putting God First Can Transform Your Marriage We live in a world of constant input. Notifications, streaming, social media, endless to-dos. And if we’re not intentional, those distractions steal our attention—and with it, our peace, our purpose, and our priorities. I've found that when I step away from it all—when I intentionally remove the distractions—I can finally hear God clearly again. Whether it's walking in nature without my phone or sitting in a quiet space with my journal, those moments of silence are sacred. They realign me. Because when God is clear, everything else becomes clear, too. “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” —Matthew 6:33 How Husbands Can Become Spiritual Leaders in the Home Husbands, you are called to lead your home—not because you have all the answers, but because God entrusted you with that role. Leadership doesn’t mean control. It means surrender. It means taking responsibility, laying down pride, and anchoring your identity in Christ—not in your wife’s response. If your stability is based on her reactions, your leadership will always be shaky. But when your eyes are on Jesus, you can lead with strength, consistency, and peace—even if the journey is slow. “The wise man built his house on the rock… and it did not fall.” —Matthew 7:24-25 (paraphrased) What Biblical Respect Looks Like for Christian Wives Wives, I get it. Maybe you feel like you’ve had to take the reins because your husband hasn’t. Maybe you feel stronger spiritually. Maybe you’re just more organized. But leadership is about role—not ability. And when we as wives step out of our God-given role, we accidentally make it harder for our husbands to rise into theirs. Respect doesn’t mean silence or enabling. It means honoring the role God has given him, even when it’s hard. And when you do? It makes your husband feel safe, trusted, and invited to lead. Should I Still Respect My Husband If I Don’t Trust Him? If your husband has let you down—or worse, betrayed your trust—you might wonder: “How do I respect a man who hasn’t earned it?” That’s real. But our motivation as believers isn’t based on someone else’s worthiness. It’s based on God’s worthiness. You can walk in wisdom, set boundaries, and still respect the role. Because when you show honor, you’re honoring God first. (Need more on this? Search our site for our podcast: “Respect an Untrustworthy Man”) Why Most Marriages Struggle Without Spiritual Rhythms If you’ve been running on empty, it may be time to return to spiritual rhythms. Daily time with God. Weekly check-ins with your heart. Monthly reflection. These aren’t just good habits—they’re lifelines. They give you clarity, patience, and power to live out your role with joy. Even if your personality makes this hard (mine does too!), it’s worth fighting for. Your family’s health depends on your spiritual nourishment. What “Helper” Really Means (And It’s Not What You Think) In Genesis 2, God calls Eve a “helper”—and the original Hebrew word ezer is used most often to describe God Himself as our rescuer, protector, and strength. Wives, this means your role is powerful, not passive. You have the God-given ability to uplift, empower, and even save your husband in ways no one else can. Not through control, but through encouragement, respect, and faith-filled love. When Leadership in Marriage Gets Out of Order The fall of man in Genesis didn’t start with an affair or abuse. It started with misplaced leadership. Adam was present. He knew the truth. But instead of leading, he followed. Instead of obeying God, he obeyed his wife. Men, this is your reminder: you are responsible. And women, if you want your husband to lead, you have to let go of the wheel. Restoring biblical order doesn’t mean a power struggle—it means peace, protection, and purpose. What to Do When You Feel Hopeless in Your Marriage You might be reading this with tears in your eyes. Maybe your marriage is hanging by a thread. Maybe you've tried everything, and nothing has worked. Maybe you’re ready to give up. Don’t. God sees you. He hasn’t forgotten you. And no matter how far things have gone, there is still hope. Even if your spouse doesn’t change right away. Even if it’s just you taking the first step. Seek God first. Love your ...
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