In this deeply personal episode, Robert and Kay Lee invite you into their real-time decision-making process as they consider a cross-country move from California to North Carolina. Fresh off a month-long stay in Lake Norman, they share candid reflections on the conversations, emotions, and logistical considerations that come with such a significant transition. From the practical realities of moving and renting to the emotional weight of leaving behind familiarity and friendships, this episode reveals how they approach big decisions as a married couple and entrepreneurial team.

Whether you're facing a business pivot, relocation, or other major life decision, you'll gain valuable insights on how to navigate change without unnecessary conflict. Robert and Kay Lee walk through the importance of “baby steps” in decision-making, how to test the waters before diving in, and how differing emotional responses between spouses can actually work together to bring clarity and peace. They also reflect on the value of community, intentionality, and leaning into God's guidance when the future feels uncertain.

This episode is not just about moving houses—it’s about building a life with intention, staying united through change, and creating space for wise, thoughtful decisions that serve both your marriage and business. Tune in for a behind-the-scenes look at how real-life married entrepreneurs process transition without growing apart.

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Key Takeaways:

• Big transitions—whether in life or business—are best navigated in small, intentional steps.

• Differing emotional responses between spouses are normal and can be leveraged for better communication and mutual understanding.

• Creating a plan B and “testing the waters” reduces anxiety and sets you up for more confident decision-making.

• Don’t rush into big changes—whether it’s a move, business shift, or investment—without first confirming peace and unity as a couple.

• Community, intentional planning, and faith-driven discernment are key to thriving in tandem through seasons of change.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background on the Move

02:52 Exploring Lake Norman and Decision-Making Process

06:09 Testing the Waters: A Month in Lake Norman

08:54 Building Relationships and Community Connections

12:13 Emotional Aspects of Major Life Transitions

15:03 Decision-Making Styles in Relationships

17:56 Taking Baby Steps in Major Changes

20:48 Conclusion and Final Thoughts