Want a Good Relationship? 3 Things to Do Before & After You’re In One | The Hidden Pages Podcast

Love is beautiful, messy, and sometimes downright confusing. Whether you're single and preparing for love or in a relationship and wanting to strengthen it, this episode of The Hidden Pages Podcast is for you.

I share three things you need to do before getting into a relationship and three things to maintain a strong, lasting partnership once you're in one. After 13 years together, 7 years of marriage, and raising a child, I’ve learned that love isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about choosing them every day and doing the inner work to build something real.

Join me as I share personal stories, relationship lessons, and insights on what truly makes a relationship thrive.

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🔖 Episode Highlights:

00:00 - Introduction: Why relationships take work
01:00 - My love story: 13 years, long distance, and major life changes
06:40 - 3 things to do before getting into a relationship
07:00 - Know who you are and what you want
08:45 - Heal your wounds (your partner isn’t responsible for them)
09:50 - Be okay with being alone first
10:30 - 3 things to do to maintain a relationship
11:00 - Choose your partner every day
12:40 - Communicate like you’re on the same team
14:30 - Keep laughing and having fun together
16:50 - Final thoughts: Love is about growth, not perfection

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