Faith Over Fear: Embracing Discomfort for Personal Growth

In episode 172 of Monday Mindset, titled 'Faith Over Fear,' Erin discusses the transformative power of facing fears and stepping into discomfort. Through personal anecdotes, such as installing Christmas lights despite a fear of heights and meeting a refugee family from Ukraine, the episode explores how faith and overcoming fear can lead to significant personal growth and success. She emphasizes the importance of adopting a sugar and flour-free lifestyle, not just for physical health, but also for mental, emotional, and spiritual clarity. Listeners are encouraged to lean on faith, community support, and the strength derived from God to push through their fears and achieve their goals.

00:00 Overcoming Fear: The Key to Your Dream Life

00:12 Introduction to Monday Mindset

01:52 Faith Over Fear: A Transformative Mindset

02:39 A Personal Story of Facing Fear

04:05 The Power of Courage and Faith

07:00 Spiritual Clarity Through Lifestyle Changes

08:00 Embracing Challenges with Faith

09:36 Conclusion: 20 Seconds of Courage

Book Summary: *Boundaries for Your Soul* by Alison Cook and Kimberly Miller

This book introduces a five-step process to help us understand and manage the different “parts” of ourselves — especially those emotions or behaviors we struggle with. By focusing on, befriending, inviting, unburdening, and integrating these parts, we can experience deeper peace, spiritual alignment, and inner unity. Key concepts include connecting our hurting parts with compassion, inviting Jesus to guide them, and transforming inner critics or protectors into allies.

Five Steps Overview:

1. **Focus** - Identify and locate the emotion or part within you.

2. **Befriend** - Approach this part with curiosity and compassion.

3. **Invite** - Open your spirit and invite God to guide this part.

4. **Unburden** - Release any pain or burdens this part has been carrying.

5. **Integrate** - Allow this part to adopt a new, supportive role in your internal “family.”

Key Concepts:

- **Spirit-Led Self**: Leading all parts with courage and love, in alignment with God.

- **Befriending the Enemy Within**: Understanding challenging parts instead of rejecting them.

- **Role Reassignment**: Allowing previously conflicted parts to work together harmoniously.

- **Compassion for the Exiled Parts**: Comforting parts that feel neglected or misunderstood.

Thought-Provoking Questions to practice Part's Work as we discussed in the call:

What’s an emotion you’re experiencing right now? Or a behavior that you’ve identified that you want to change?

1. Focus

• Where do you sense the feeling physically?

• Is there a thought or image that comes to mind when you focus on it?

• How far away from you is it?

• What is an early memory of this feeling?

2. Befriend

• How do you feel toward this part of your soul?

• If you feel anything other than curiosity or compassion toward this emotion, notice that part of you and ask it

to step back.

• Returning to the part of you that’s experiencing the original emotion: Can you extend compassion to this part?

• Is there more it wants you to know?

• What is this part good at?

3. Invite

• Would this part like to invite Jesus to be near?

• If not, what are its fears and concerns? Can it tell those things to Jesus?

• Ask Jesus if he wants to say or do anything, or to give you

a specific gift.

4. Unburden

• What burden has this part been carrying?

• Does it have any fears about giving up that burden?

• Now, how does this part want to release its burden?

• Does this part want anything in exchange, such as peace,

security, or the assurance of love?

5. Integrate

• Check in with any part of you that didn’t like your original

emotion.

• What is that part good at?
• What does she want you to know?
• What’s the ultimate goal of your highest self?

• What new roles do these two parts want to play in your internal family going forward?

• Are these 2 parts willing to be on the same team in helping you achieve that goal?

• Is there anything that Jesus wants to tell these parts to encourage or reassure them?

• Thank them and God for showing up for you today.

• After you’ve completed the Five Steps, set an intention to

check back in with these parts.

These questions should help you create a meaningful parts work session. Give it a try!

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Embracing Change: Transforming Your Life and Body

In this episode, registered nurse and health coach Erin Hart explores the powerful concept of past, present, and future selves, focusing on how these aspects shape the life you desire. Erin shares her personal journey of overcoming obesity through a sugar and flour free lifestyle, losing over 100 pounds and finding peace with food and her body. She discusses the importance of growth mindset, neuroplasticity, and healthy coping mechanisms. Erin provides practical exercises and motivational advice on how to start small, consistent changes today to become the future self you aspire to be, emphasizing that with faith and determination, change is possible.

00:00 Introduction: Can People Really Change?

00:18 Exploring Past, Present, and Future Selves

02:45 Erin Hart's Personal Transformation Journey

04:02 Lessons to My Younger Self

05:37 The Rule of Thirds and Embracing Challenges

07:32 Learning from the Past to Shape the Future

10:20 Practical Steps for Personal Growth

12:42 Conclusion: Embrace Your Future Self

To learn more and get a free 1:1 coaching call with Erin... go to www.healthyrealfood.com now.