What happens when a pastor’s kid becomes a father and realizes he’s repeating the same silent expectations he grew up under? In this powerful conversation, Joe Bachmeyer, founder of You Matter Dad, opens up about emotional awareness, healing from internal chaos, and what it really means to be present as a father.

🎙️ In this episode, Joe shares:

• How growing up as a “functional only-child” shaped his parenting
• The pressure of silent expectations placed on pastors' kids—and how that carried into his fatherhood
• His battle with emotional regulation, tone, and control
• Why curiosity is more powerful than control in parenting
• The three core values he’s intentionally instilling in his kids: gratefulness, helpfulness, and emotional presence
• The surprising healing that happens when dads “get all in” with what their kids love

This is a conversation for every dad who's trying to show up better—not perfectly—but with purpose.

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What happens when a father builds his home on generations of faith, a small family farm, and a vision for raising kids who are spiritually strong and practically wise?

In this episode, Chad—husband, father of five, and multi-generational Christian—shares how he’s building a countercultural home rooted in daily family devotions, intentional parenting, homeschooling, and entrepreneurial training. Chad walks through how his grandfather left a legacy of faith, how his family balances truth and grace in parenting, and why he’s training his kids to live life like responsible adults—by age 16.

He also dives into practical rhythms: how his family runs evening Bible time, how they plan their week, how his kids learn to run small businesses (like face painting and puppy breeding!), and why he views smartphones as a spiritual battlefield.

This is a must-listen for any father who wants to raise grounded, godly kids in a chaotic world.

Books for further reading mentioned in episode: The Family Economy by Rory Groves - https://amzn.to/4lvMYr6

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🎙️ Summary What if the key to raising faithful, resilient children is as simple—and as hard—as returning to reality? In this episode of Father and Friend, Father Peter Kavanaugh and Educator Benjamin Lyda explore how fathers can reclaim family, work, and worship as sacred acts.

🌱 Episode Overview In a culture of distraction, disconnection, and digital overload, this conversation dives deep into the pursuit of a meaningful family life. Father Peter shares how his family’s 40-acre Texas farm has become a classroom of virtue, work, and wonder—where imagination grows in the dirt and real education begins at the dinner table. Benjamin Lyda brings an educator’s insight into how fathers can form their children through leisure, liturgy, and shared life.

Together, they challenge the idea that parenting is about preparing kids for the “real world” and instead suggest that fathers should invite their children into reality through worship, suffering, beauty, and joy.

Books for further reading mentioned in episode:

The Family Economy by Rory Groves - https://amzn.to/4lvMYr6

Leisure: The Basis Of Culture By Josef Pieper - https://amzn.to/4kjgCPv

The Death Of Christian Culture by John Senior - https://amzn.to/3Gk9gxb

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Connect with Benjamin Lyda at https://scriptoriumwriting.com

📣 Call to Action - If this episode challenged or inspired you, please like, subscribe, and share it with a fellow father. Drop a comment about your own family rituals or efforts to reconnect with reality—we’d love to hear from you.

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In this powerful episode, Michael shares his journey from a childhood marked by foster care, instability, and loss to becoming a devoted father and pastor. Mike opens up about the negative examples that shaped his early understanding of fatherhood, the moments of peace he found in churches and libraries, and the mentors—both real and philosophical—who helped form his identity.

We explore how true provision goes beyond financial support to include emotional and spiritual presence, and how fathers can intentionally guide their children with love, wisdom, and purpose. Mike reflects on his early draw to faith, his evolving role as a dad, and the impact of simply showing up.

Whether you're a father, a son, or someone seeking meaning in the challenges of life, this conversation is a heartfelt call to lead with integrity, prioritize your home, and raise children who are grounded, joyful, and ready to lead themselves.

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In this conversation, Zach shares his journey from a troubled upbringing and addiction to a fulfilling family life centered around faith and intentional parenting. He discusses the impact of his father's actions on his life, his recovery journey, and the positive practices he has implemented in his family, such as prayer, attending church, and sharing meals together. Zach emphasizes the importance of selflessness and love in fatherhood, aiming to instill strong values in his children as they grow.

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In this conversation, Eric Gilbert, Christian Leadership & Mental Health Coach and founder of Courageous Calling, shares how high-achieving men can overcome anxiety, burnout, and fear-based living through faith, neuroscience, and bold action. With 15 years of experience and a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, Eric has guided hundreds of fathers who feel stuck, overwhelmed, and spiritually drained to a life of unwavering confidence rooted in faith. He shares insights from his own upbringing and the impact of his father on his parenting style. The discussion delves into the importance of understanding how to navigate stress, family, and work.

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✅ Take the Free Courage Quiz: https://havefaith.co/free-quiz-and-resource

🎯 Book a Faith Over Fear Discovery Call: https://courageouscallings.com/book-a-call

🔥 Learn more about the Faith Over Fear 10-Week Transformation Program: https://havefaith.co

"Most men don’t need more information. They need activation. This program helps you reset your nervous system, rebuild your confidence, and finally become the man God created you to be." — Eric Gilbert

Download Eric’s free devotional, A Christian Man’s Guide to Overcoming Anxiety God’s Way: https://havefaith.co/free-quiz-and-resource

00:00 Intro

04:39 Lessons from Dad: Emulating Positive Traits

08:54 Navigating Family Dynamics

12:08 Building a Positive Family Environment

16:12 Effective Communication with Children

18:44 Cherishing the Little Moments

25:10 Leaving a Lasting Legacy

26:09 Introduction to Faith Over Fear

27:08 The Structure of the Program

30:52 Effectiveness of the Program

32:46 Target Audience and Their Challenges

33:42 Empowerment and Purpose

33:47 Complimentary Resources and Closing Thoughts

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In this conversation, Tim Anderson and Devonte discuss the journey of fatherhood, the impact of personal experiences on parenting, and the importance of faith and prayer in family life. Devonte shares his transformative experiences, including the influence of his parents, the significance of intentional family time, and the continuous learning process in his role as a father. The discussion emphasizes the role of grace in personal development and the importance of maintaining a relationship with God throughout life's challenges.

00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood Journey

01:50 Impactful Life Events Shaping Fatherhood

04:46 The Power of Prayer in Family Life

14:42 Intentional Family Time and Activities

18:34 Navigating Changes in Relationships with Children

23:22 Continuous Growth and Learning in Fatherhood

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In this conversation, Nathan shares his transformative journey of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of leadership, guidance, and protection in raising children. He reflects on his past struggles, the turning point in his marriage, and the steps he took to become a better father and husband. Nathan discusses the significance of mentorship, establishing family routines, and leading by example, while also addressing the challenges of modern parenting, including technology and its impact on children. He concludes with insights on preparing his children for independence and the legacy he hopes to leave behind.

00:00 The Journey of Fatherhood

02:55 Turning Point: A Call to Change

05:54 Seeking Guidance and Mentorship

09:09 The Importance of Self-Leadership

12:01 Establishing Family Routines

15:00 Leading by Example

17:48 The Role of Protection in Fatherhood

20:59 Navigating Modern Challenges

24:03 Preparing Children for Independence

27:06 The Legacy of Leadership

29:47 Closing Thoughts and Prayer

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