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In this episode we unpacks the emotional mind games, the slow fades, the “I’m not ready” lies, and the passive men who want your energy without giving effort. We’re calling out the difference between chemistry and anxiety, attention and intention, presence and performance.

Because if you’re constantly wondering where you stand — you already have your answer.

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This episode unpacks the harsh reality of why the guy who seemed perfect over text vanished the moment things got real. Eric, Erica, and Ruby break down the psychology behind disappearing acts, exposing how men can build digital intimacy without ever intending to follow through in real life. From love-bombing in the DMs to silence after the first date, they dissect why these so-called connections feel so deep—and why they collapse so fast. If you’ve ever been blindsided by a man who called you “his peace” one week and disappeared the next, this one’s for you. Real talk, real stories, and the clarity you didn’t get from him.

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This episode exposes the digital mirage of modern romance, where texting chemistry often leads to real-life disappointment. Eric, Erica, and Ruby dive into why online flirts so often fizzle offline, breaking down the psychology behind the digital dopamine rush that keeps us hooked on the idea of connection—while ignoring the lack of substance. They unpack how false intimacy thrives behind screens, why some men peak in the DMs and disappear in person, and how to stop confusing emotional exposure with emotional availability. No sugarcoating, no excuses—just raw, unfiltered truth and the tools you need to start vetting for real connection.