In this conversation, Mike Maeshiro shares his journey of coming out as a gay man after years of living within the constraints of evangelical Christianity. He discusses the challenges of reconciling his identity with the expectations of his upbringing, the emotional toll of hiding his true self, and the liberation he found in authenticity. The conversation delves into the shadow of evangelicalism, exploring its impact on personal identity, family dynamics, and the pervasive shame experienced by LGBTQ+ individuals. Mike emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for healing and self-acceptance, and the role of chosen family in navigating rejection from biological families. He reflects on the fulfillment he finds in supporting others on their journeys to reclaim their identities and live authentically.

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Tune in for a raw, inspiring, and life-affirming conversation that will challenge you to rethink what it means to live authentically.

Chapters

00:00 Journey of Authenticity: Coming Out and Self-Discovery

04:10 The Shadow of Evangelicalism: Understanding Its Impact

07:04 Finding Safety: The Transformation After Coming Out

10:03 The Cost of Authenticity: What Is Sacrificed?

13:18 Healing from Shame: The Path to Self-Acceptance

16:02 Deconstructing Beliefs: Challenging Dogma and Finding Truth

19:16 Empowerment Through Anger: The Journey to Justice

26:48 The Foundation of Beliefs

29:15 Navigating Autonomy and Self-Trust

32:16 Family Dynamics and Homophobia

36:18 The Pain of Rejection

40:16 The Role of the First Responder

45:05 Finding Joy in Transformation