Ever leaned on someone who’s “been there” for advice, only to feel frustrated or stuck? In this episode, we’re turning the concept of empathy on its head and exposing why relying on shared struggles might actually work against you in leadership. With insights from top research, I break down why fresh perspectives are often the key to real support and growth.

What You’ll Get from This Episode:

• Understand why shared experiences don’t always lead to good advice
• Learn how to identify when you're stuck in an “echo chamber” of advice
• Explore the power of fresh perspectives over familiar struggles
• Find Out how to seek the right advice that actually moves you forward
• Discover ways to turn empathy into actionable, meaningful support for your team

Episode Highlights:

00:00 Introduction 01:33 The Myth of Empathy Through Shared Struggles 03:29 Why Fresh Perspectives Are More Valuable 05:43 Recognizing When You’re Stuck in an Echo Chamber 07:52 How to Seek Better Advice 10:04 Turning Empathy Into Actionable Support 12:04 Conclusion

Ready to rethink your support network? Tune in to discover how to find advice that fuels your leadership journey.

Sources and links mentioned in the episode:

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-14256-004 https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/job.2799

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In this episode of Beyond Boss, I use a current story about Meta firing employees for misusing meal vouchers to discuss leadership, ethics, and perception.

While this case is making headlines now, the lessons about trust and accountability are timeless. These insights will help you avoid small mistakes that could have a big impact on your career.

What You Will Get from This Episode:

• Why even small ethical lapses can lead to serious career consequences.
• How perception plays a critical role in leadership.
• What leaders can learn from Meta’s response and how to handle similar situations.
• Strategies to build a work environment that promotes accountability and trust.
• How to recover from ethical mistakes without letting them define your career.

Episode Highlights:

• 00:00 – Introduction to Ethical Leadership
• 01:50 – The Power of Perception in Leadership
• 03:46 – Ethical Blind Spots and Their Consequences
• 05:54 – Maintaining Ethical Standards Under Pressure
• 08:07 – Accountability and Owning Mistakes
• 09:56 – Long-Term Career Impact of Ethical Lapses
• 12:18 – Conclusion

Sources and links mentioned in the episode:

Manager Magazin in German:

https://www.manager-magazin.de/unternehmen/meta-feuert-mitarbeiter-wegen-missbrauch-von-essensgeld-zahnpasta-statt-lunch-a-6b85d71c-6cef-41a5-b868-cf5455f0ac61

Financial Times (in English, subscription needed):

https://www.ft.com/content/7d1a2738-2518-4ddb-811b-8abf9a745590

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Setbacks happen to everyone. Maybe it was a missed promotion, a project gone wrong, or just something that didn’t go as planned.

In this episode of Beyond Boss, I talk about what separates those who get stuck from those who use setbacks as stepping stones for bigger wins.

Learn how to transform failure into fuel for your next promotion with actionable strategies that show leadership, resilience, and readiness for growth. No fluff, just straight-up insights to turn a tough moment into your next big move.

What You Will Get from This Episode:

• Learn how to own your setbacks and turn them into opportunities that boost your career.
• Understand why accountability and resilience are essential for career growth and how to showcase these traits effectively.
• Get actionable steps for creating a comeback plan that positions you for future promotions and responsibilities.
• Discover ways to communicate setbacks with maturity and confidence, ensuring your progress is seen and recognized.
• Explore real-world examples from industry leaders who turned failures into career-defining successes.

Episode Highlights:

• [0:00] Introduction – Why setbacks are not the end, but a chance to level up.
• [01:09] Owning the Setback – The importance of taking responsibility and how this maturity marks you as leadership-ready.
• [02:43] Avoiding Common Pitfalls – The “loser” reactions to setbacks (excuses, victim mentality, disappearing) and why they can derail your career.
• [04:41] Communicating the Setback – Tactics for addressing setbacks with confidence, from timing to body language.
• [06:09] Building Your Comeback Plan – Crafting a strategy that’s about growth, not just fixing past mistakes.
• [08:42] Making Your Comeback Visible – Why you need to ensure your comeback doesn’t go unnoticed, and how to keep leaders updated on your progress.

• [10:29] Turning Failure Into Leverage – Using past setbacks as assets that showcase your resilience and make you the right person for the next big challenge.

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