Episode Summary

Have you wanted to accomplish great things in your business but felt you were holding yourself back. More than likely, there was an inner voice silencing your greatness.

Also known as imposter syndrome, this powerful yet negative voice prevents Black mompreneurs from stepping into their fullest potential.

Femi shares her personal journey with imposter syndrome, explains why it particularly affects Black women entrepreneurs, and provides five actionable strategies to overcome these limiting beliefs and build confidence in business.

Timestamps

[00:00] - Welcome and episode introduction
[00:23] - Introduction to imposter syndrome as the "evil sister" to analysis paralysis
[00:50] - Personal story: Early entrepreneurship experience and self-doubt
[02:23] - How imposter syndrome makes you feel worthless despite external validation
[04:44] - Impact on children and breaking the cycle of negative mindset
[07:04] - Introduction to five strategies to overcome imposter syndrome
[09:26] - Strategy 4: Stop comparing yourself to others
[11:45] - Call to action and episode wrap-up

Key Topics Covered

• What is Imposter Syndrome? The nagging doubt that makes you believe you're not good enough and incapable of reaching your potential
• The Connection Between Motherhood and Entrepreneurship How juggling multiple responsibilities can make imposter syndrome worse
• Systemic Challenges Why imposter syndrome isn't a reflection of abilities but a byproduct of systems not built for Black women to thrive
• Impact on Children How our self-doubt can influence the next generation's mindset

Femi's Personal Story [00:50]

Femi shares her early entrepreneurship experience when someone asked for her services and she immediately questioned:

• Could she really deliver?
• Would they think she charged too much due to lack of experience?
• If they said no, did that mean she wasn't good enough?

A fellow mompreneur gave her life-changing advice: "You've got everything you need to be great. You just got to get that shit done and take notes along the way."

5 Strategies to Overcome Imposter Syndrome [07:04]

1. Name the Negativity (But Don't Own It) [07:04]

• Develop awareness when negative thoughts creep in
• When you hear "you're not ready" or "who do you think you are," pause and say: "That's imposter syndrome talking and I'm not going to let it win"
• Treat it like a negative friend - block it

2. Reframe Your Fear [08:30]

• View fear as an indication you're growing and making positive changes
• Instead of: "I'm not ready" → Say: "I'm growing, I'm learning"
• Instead of: "I'm not good at this" → Say: "I'm still learning, I'm getting the hang of this"

3. Create a "Brag File" [09:26]

• Keep a digital or physical folder of your wins
• Include client praise, testimonials, positive work reviews
• Review when doubt sets in to remind yourself of your capabilities
• These are your "receipts" to counter negative thoughts

4. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others [09:26]

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