This week, we’re switching things up—again. Looser structure, more real talk, and a whole lot of rule-breaking.

Marcel and Dan dive into childhood chaos, from strict upbringings and rebellious streaks to revenge plots that may or may not have involved a car 👀.

Marcel shares how his dad’s rule-breaking shaped his life, while Dan confesses to a klepto phase that got way out of hand.

Also in this episode:

🚨 The time someone pissed in Dan’s Jordans (and how he got even)
🤯 Marcel's lifelong fear of breaking rules—even the small ones
💭 Do good parents raise rebels? Or rule-followers?
📜 Aristotle, balance, and why moderation might actually be the answer
😂 Tiny wieners, personal growth, and other deep sh*t

This one goes everywhere—from dumb teenage decisions to life lessons about choosing your own path. Buckle up.

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Learning to thrive solo & make the most of your time. Being alone doesn’t have to mean being lonely.

Whether you’re single on Valentine’s Day or just looking to enjoy your own company more, we’re diving deep into what it actually means to thrive solo.

We’re talking about:

- The difference between being alone vs. feeling lonely

- How to make solo time feel meaningful instead of isolating

- Why your ability to enjoy yourself directly impacts your relationships

- Practical ways to embrace solitude (solo dates, hobbies, self-reflection)

- Our own experiences learning how to be comfortable alone

- Plus, Marcel & Daniel share a powerful story from a recent breathwork session that unexpectedly hit deep.

If you’ve ever struggled with being by yourself, this episode is for you.💬 What’s your go-to way to enjoy time alone? Drop it in the comments!

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What if the only thing standing between you and the life you want… was your fear of failure? In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the thought experiment that could change everything.

We dive into:

• Why this question forces you to confront what you actually want.
• The biggest excuses that stop people from even trying.
• What happens if you love something but you’re actually bad at it?
• Why failure makes things more fun, not less.
• How to start moving toward the life you want today.

We also take a detour into:

• Daniel getting married (!!) and what commitment really means.
• How to balance doing you while being in a happy relationship.
• Why some people are more afraid of success than failure.

It’s one of those episodes that will stick with you—so buckle up and let’s get into it.

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For years, men have been told to "man up" and hold it in. But why? In this episode, Marcel and Daniel dive into the stigma around men crying, where it comes from, and why it’s time to let it go—literally. From childhood lessons about toughness to the science behind why crying is actually good for you, we’re breaking down what it really means to be strong.

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📝 Challenge of the Week:
If you feel like crying, let it happen. No shame, no holding back—just let yourself feel.

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Why are we so afraid of being average? In this episode, Marcel and Dan dive into the deep-rooted fear of mediocrity—where it comes from, how social media fuels it, and the dangerous game of comparison. We break down the difference between healthy competition vs. toxic comparison, how ambition can turn into burnout, and the biggest question that shook us: “When is it enough?” Along the way, we get real about our own struggles with self-worth, career pressure, and the sneaky ways we let external validation define success. Plus, Marcel admits to a thought he probably shouldn’t say out loud, and Dan shares a gym moment that changed his mindset. If you’ve ever felt like you’re never doing enough, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now & let’s talk: 📩 Drop a comment—what does success mean to you? 🔔 Subscribe & follow for more real talk on modern masculinity, personal growth, and life’s struggles. #Podcast #MensMentalHealth #ComparisonTrap #SelfGrowth #ImTryingDude

We all make mistakes, but how often do we truly talk about them? Do we process them, and if so, how? Are you sure that all the mistakes you have made in your life left you with the right lesson... or did it even teach you one?

Dan & Marcel are diving into all these questions and more in today's episode, to make sure that you learn after you crash & burn.

And while it was a joke: failing can feel incredibly overwhelming, but you are not alone. If you ever feel like you can't bear the burden and have suicidal thoughts, call 988 for help. It will get better!

Hobbies over Side Hustles, filling your cup rather than filling your wallet. Kicking off 2025 with the first episode of season 2 that will take us through the rest of winter with a topic both of us have a lot of experience with: making money with something you love to do. But is that always the best choice? Tune in and figure it out together with us... Much love, Dan & Marcel

Not what you think. Just a low-key episode shooting the sh*t to end the year and "season 1" of I'm Trying Dude. Stoked you guys made it here, and proud of ourselves for actually pulling through with this podcast thing! More to come in 2025 but we're sending you off to enjoy your holidays and we'll see you next year. Or you'll see us, at least lolMuch love,D + M