Summary

In this episode, Liv and Meli discuss the concept of the ego and its role in our lives. They explore the idea that the ego is not inherently bad, but rather a necessary part of being human. They emphasize the importance of understanding and integrating the ego, rather than trying to eradicate it. They also discuss the need for external validation and how it relates to the ego. Overall, they encourage listeners to have a healthy relationship with their ego and recognize its role in shaping their identity and experiences. The conversation explores the importance of recognizing and integrating the ego rather than trying to eradicate it. It emphasizes the need to give ourselves permission to have needs and ask for help. Making a mess and taking risks is encouraged as a way to break patterns and learn. The key takeaway is that it's okay to be imperfect and make mistakes, as long as we have the courage to clean up and learn from them.

Keywords

ego, human experience, survival mechanism, external validation, integration, needs, connection, love, ego, integration, needs, asking for help, making a mess, courage, imperfection, learning

Takeaways

• The ego is a survival mechanism that helps us navigate the human world.
• Trying to eradicate the ego is impossible and would mean eradicating our humanity.
• The ego is not inherently bad, but it can lead us astray when we become too attached to its demands.
• It's important to have a healthy relationship with the ego and recognize its role in shaping our identity and experiences.
• External validation is a basic human need, and it's okay to seek it.
• Understanding and integrating the ego is key to living a balanced and fulfilling life. Recognize and integrate the ego instead of trying to eradicate it
• Give yourself permission to have needs and ask for help
• Making a mess and taking risks is essential for growth and breaking patterns
• Embrace imperfection and have the courage to learn and clean up

Sound Bites

• "A more adaptive way of considering the ego is to look at it as a child."
• "We find the middle point where we can say, okay, if I look at my ego as a child, that doesn't quite understand how to approach life holistically yet because they haven't had enough experience."
• "Meditation is this beautiful place for the soul and the ego to meet and have a conversation."
• "I could start to hear the seven-year-old girl that really just wanted her mom to tell her that she's so proud of her."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Weird Mood

06:02 Viewing the Ego as a Child

07:55 Finding the Middle Point with the Ego

11:15 The Fallacy of Eradicating the Ego

15:31 Making an Ally of the Ego

18:54 The Dance Between Ego and External Validation

23:24 The Need for External Validation

27:28 Ego and Needs: Synonymous

32:08 Navigating Ego-Driven Needs

40:30 The Dance of Ego and Soul: Meeting Your Needs

42:47 Permission to Have Needs and Ask for Help

44:32 Breaking Patterns: Doing Something Different

48:17 The Beauty of Making a Mess and Being Incompetent

53:17 Self-Acceptance and Self-Compassion

55:57 Courage to Explore and Embrace All Aspects of Yourself

57:08 Outro

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