In this episode, Violeta, founder of MoneyChisme, talks about her surrogacy journey. Violeta shares her struggles with infertility due to endometriosis, the emotional complexities of considering different family-building options, and the significant financial planning required. She offers insights into how her expertise in personal finance, especially within the Latinx community, helped her navigate the expensive process of IVF and surrogacy. They also discuss practical advice about utilizing grants, credit cards, and real estate investments to fund fertility treatments, and the importance of having a supportive community. This episode aims to provide strength, hope, and practical tips for anyone facing similar challenges.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest

01:11 Violeta's Surrogacy Journey Begins

03:31 Discovering Infertility and Financial Planning

06:21 Deciding on Surrogacy and Financial Strategies

10:56 Navigating the Surrogacy Process

21:02 Support Systems and Mental Health

27:03 Community and Support Groups

29:22 Navigating the Loneliness of Surrogacy

30:06 Personal Growth Through the Surrogacy Journey

30:41 Living in the Moment

31:12 Support Systems and Therapy

36:45 Financial Strategies for Surrogacy

41:24 Unexpected Costs and Final Thoughts

44:22 Connecting and Resources

46:44 Fin!

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In this episode, we talk about the emotional toll of infertility and revisit the key questions from the previous episode on finding clarity through infertility. The episode highlights the importance of deep self-reflection on what one truly desires, whether it's experiencing pregnancy, having a family, or defining personal dreams.

And we do that through using the "Mindset Reset Framework" which focuses on finding your ways to rest, recover, and reconnect with yourself and your partner.

It is also noted how vital it is to your recovery to remove the guesswork and actually do the research into the alternate options to building your family and EXPLORE your feelings around each of those. Part of the recover phase is to figure out where you truly stand with each option and Rachel shares key questions to help do that.

00:00 Introduction and Recap

00:57 Mindset Reset Framework

01:43 Rediscovering Dreams and Societal Expectations

05:01 Recovery and Physical Therapy Analogy

08:09 Exploring Fertility Options

12:56 Building a Supportive Community

24:07 Navigating Emotional Triggers and Resetting

CLICK HERE for the questions mentioned in this episode to help guide you in exploring your feelings around other options to motherhood you've considered.

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In this episode, we dive into the common mental hurdles faced by those navigating infertility and the desire for certainty in their fertility journey. With a focus on rediscovering personal and partnership goals, we explore essential questions to help you align your life vision, values, and family-building aspirations. Whether considering surrogacy, adoption, or any other option, this discussion emphasizes the importance of personal clarity and aligning with your partner for a fulfilling motherhood experience. Tune in to gain insights and learn how coaching can support your journey towards making empowered, confident decisions.

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:01 The Struggle with Uncertainty

01:26 Reflecting on Your True Desires

02:26 Reassessing and Communicating with Your Partner

05:29 Commitment and Decision Making

08:23 Personal Experience with Adoption

11:19 Empowerment Through Coaching

14:47 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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