Some silences don’t mean peace — they mean aftermath.

In this season finale of Letters to Ghosts and God, I sit with the echoes left behind after love walks out… especially when it’s your fault they had to leave. From blocked numbers and unsent texts to the ghosts of who I was and who I hurt — this is a letter to the quiet that followed.

But this episode is more than closure.
It’s the turning point.

Because the next chapter isn’t about them — it’s about the ghosts within.

New letters. New ghosts. Same God.
You in?

Not all ghosts live in graveyards. Some live in our memories — in the songs we skip, the routes we avoid, and the words we never got to say.

This episode is for the ones we still carry… and the ones who might still carry us.
The ones we lost not to death, but to distance, fear, or silence.
And the God who never ghosts us — even when we disappear from ourselves.

Because sometimes the loudest part of healing
is the echo of what was never said.

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What if the person you hurt was the one who loved you the most?

In this episode of Letters to Ghosts and God, we explore the quiet grief of realizing we couldn’t love someone the way they deserved — and the even harder truth that we don’t get to fix the pain we caused.

This one’s for the ones we pushed away…
Not because we didn’t care, but because we didn’t know how to stay.

I talk about:

• The guilt of growing up too late

• The lie that “more time” would’ve saved it

• Surrendering what we broke to the only One who can restore it

Letting go doesn’t mean you didn’t love them.
It means you’re finally trusting God to do what you couldn’t.

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