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Lisa Sugarman | Losing a father twice, Suicide, Trevor Project, Community
- 2024/08/03
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Summary
Lisa Sugarman shares her personal experience of losing her father to suicide and the impact it had on her life. She also discusses the stigma surrounding suicide and the importance of open communication about mental health. Lisa emphasizes the need for support and understanding for those who are struggling with mental illness and suicidal thoughts. In this conversation, C.K. Simms and Lisa Sugarman discuss the importance of talking about suicide and the power of radical acceptance. They emphasize the need to allow ourselves to feel and to reframe our perspectives on emotions. Lisa shares her personal journey and how she got involved with the Trevor Project, a crisis hotline for LGBTQ+ youth. They also discuss the value of communal healing and the impact of listening to someone in distress. Lisa provides resources for mental health support and encourages reaching out for help.
Takeaways
Losing someone to suicide can be a traumatic and complex experience, with long-lasting effects on the survivors.
Mental illness does not discriminate and can affect anyone, regardless of their outward appearance or success.
Open communication about mental health is crucial in breaking the stigma surrounding suicide and providing support to those who are struggling.
It is important to remember that feelings of hopelessness and despair are not permanent, and there is always the possibility of finding joy and healing.
Sharing personal stories and experiences can help create understanding and empathy, and encourage others to seek help and support. It is important to talk about suicide and create a safe space for open conversations.
Radical acceptance is a powerful tool for healing and finding peace.
Allowing ourselves to feel and reframing our perspectives on emotions can lead to greater mental well-being.
The Trevor Project provides vital support for LGBTQ+ youth in crisis.
Communal healing and support can have a profound impact on individuals dealing with grief and loss.
Seeking therapy and utilizing mental health resources can be transformative.
Listening to someone in distress and providing support can reduce the risk of suicide.
Bookmark emergency response numbers and encourage others to do the same for immediate help in a mental health crisis.
Sound Bites
"I found out totally by accident that my dad had not died from a heart attack. My dad had actually taken his own life. And it shattered me to a thousand pieces."
"There is this incredible calm that comes over you when you finally make that decision to follow through, because you know that, okay, I'm in the home stretch, the pain is almost over."
"The way you lighten a burden is you share a burden."
"Just stop swimming. The anti-physis of finding Dory."
"When you're happy, you do not spend your entire day trying to figure out why you're happy."
"You cannot be in a state of gratitude and be upset."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
03:45 Discovering the Truth About Her Father's Death
07:48 The Impact of the Revelation
09:45 The Decision to Share the Truth
17:16 Breaking the Stigma and Sharing the Burden
23:39 Understanding the Complexity of Suicide
26:45 Finding Hope and Healing
29:24 The Power of Radical Acceptance and Allowing Ourselves to Feel
39:38 The Importance of Listening and Support for LGBTQ+ Youth
49:38 The Impact of Communal Healing and Support
53:22 Resources for Mental Health Support
56:28 Reframing Perspectives and Finding Gratitude
59:27 New Outro.mp4