• Navigating Unsolicited Advice: When to Speak and When to Listen | EP 19
    2024/10/02

    Ever notice how the advice you didn't ask for always seems to come at the worst time? Welcome to this episode of Listen Up Younger Self, where host Heather Solomon explores the five types of unsolicited advice givers, sharing relatable examples and offering insights on when to speak up and when to simply listen. Learn how to navigate well-intentioned advice that often misses the mark and discover the importance of mutual respect and timing in relationships.

    If you've ever found yourself tangled in the frustrations of unsolicited advice or wished for a bit of wisdom from your future self, this episode is for you. Tune in for a mix of sass, laughs, and invaluable tips on maintaining healthy communication with those you care about most.

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    27 分
  • The Battle of Stubbornness: Navigating Marriage and Parenting | EP 18
    2024/09/25

    Welcome back to another episode of Listen Up Younger Self. This week, host Heather Solomon delves into the challenges of stubbornness in marriage and parenting. Reflecting on personal experiences, Heather explores how the need to be right can create conflict and affect relationships with spouses and children.

    Join Heather as she discusses the definition of stubbornness, its roots, and its impact on family dynamics. Learn practical tips for recognizing and overcoming your own stubborn tendencies, as well as strategies for fostering better communication and compromise in your marriage.

    If you’ve ever struggled with being stubborn or dealt with a stubborn partner, this episode offers valuable insights and relatable anecdotes. Heather emphasizes the importance of choosing happiness over being right and highlights how to create a loving and cooperative environment at home.

    Tune in as Heather encourages listeners to reflect on their behavior and strive for healthier relationships. Don't miss this engaging and thought-provoking episode!

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    32 分
  • Reignite Your Connection: The Power of Couple Getaways | EP 17
    2024/09/18

    Welcome back to another episode of Listen Up Younger Self. I am your host, Heather Solomon, and today we dive into the importance of making time for each other in a relationship. Fresh from a rejuvenating trip to Maine with my husband, I want to share why these little getaways are crucial for reconnecting and keeping your relationship dynamic.

    In this episode, I discuss the significance of stepping away from everyday stressors and focusing solely on each other. Whether it's a weekend escape or a one-night staycation, taking the time to nurture your relationship can do wonders. I offer practical tips for budget-friendly getaways, creative ways to spark excitement, and even how to manage childcare while you’re away.

    If you feel like two ships passing in the night, this episode is for you. Learn how dedicating just a few nights a year to each other can transform your relationship, reignite your intimacy, and create lasting memories. It's time to make each other a priority and keep your marriage thriving. Your future self is counting on you.

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    26 分
  • The Unspoken Truth: How Your Body Language Shapes Your Marriage | EP 16
    2024/09/11

    Imagine you're at a party and a stranger observes you from across the room. What are they going to think about you based on your body language alone? Our non-verbal cues speak louder than words, and they play a crucial role in our relationships. In this episode, Heather Solomon dives deep into how body language impacts our marriages and interactions at home.

    Welcome to Listen Up Younger Self. I'm your host, Heather Solomon, here to dish out real talk about navigating the roller coasters of marriage, relationships, and parenting. If you’ve ever wished for hindsight wisdom, this episode is for you. Discover how small changes in your body language can lead to a more connected and loving relationship with your spouse.

    Learn about the importance of eye contact, touch, posture, and facial expressions, and how they affect your emotional connection and overall relationship health. Heather shares personal anecdotes and practical tips on becoming more self-aware and using positive body language to de-escalate tensions and reinforce closeness.

    Join us as we explore the power of non-verbal communication and how it can transform your marriage. Remember, your body speaks before you do, and the power to change how you're perceived lies within you. Tune in, and let's make your future self proud.

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    30 分
  • You Don't Have an Expiration Date: Embracing Life at Any Age | EP 15
    2024/09/04

    Welcome to "Listen Up Younger Self." Todays episode with Host Heather Solomon, asks you to look within and see if you have ever reflected on missed opportunities and unfulfilled dreams. Do you think it's too late to chase them? In this episode, Heather shares her journey of overcoming limiting beliefs, embracing new challenges at any age, and the importance of choosing happiness over being right.

    If you've ever felt like time has passed you by, this episode will inspire you to reclaim your dreams and live your life to the fullest. Heather's candid insights and motivational anecdotes will encourage you to start anew, no matter your age. So, buckle up for some sass, laughs, and wisdom as we explore how to put your self-righteous ego to bed and embrace a future filled with endless possibilities.

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    25 分
  • The Ego's Dilemma: Choosing Happiness Over Being Right | EP 14
    2024/08/28

    Welcome to "Listen Up Younger Self," hosted by Heather Solomon. In this episode, Heather dives deep into a topic that resonates with everyone: the need to be right. Whether it's in relationships, marriage, or everyday interactions, the battle for being right often overshadows the importance of being heard. Heather shares personal anecdotes and insightful advice on how to manage ego, practice humility, and foster better communication.

    Discover why arguments often escalate, and learn practical strategies to defuse conflicts by understanding the underlying issues. Heather encourages listeners to focus on empathy, self-awareness, and the value of listening over the need to win an argument. This episode is a guide to building stronger, more respectful relationships by setting aside the ego and embracing vulnerability.

    If you find yourself or someone you know constantly entangled in the need to be right, this episode offers the wisdom and tools to choose happiness and harmony instead. Tune in for a mix of sass, humor, and heartfelt advice that will help you navigate the roller coasters of life with grace.

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    25 分
  • When Kids Fly the Nest: Embracing the Next Chapter | EP 13
    2024/08/21

    Welcome to Listen Up Younger Self! In this heartfelt episode, Heather Solomon dives deep into the emotional roller coaster that parents face when their children leave home for college, the military, or other paths. As parents, we anticipate these milestones, but when they arrive, the sense of loss can be overwhelming.

    Heather shares her personal experiences and offers wisdom on how to navigate the transition from a bustling household to an empty nest. She emphasizes the importance of acknowledging your grief, reconnecting with your spouse, and rediscovering your own identity outside of being a parent.

    Join Heather as she provides support and encouragement for parents facing this challenging time, reminding them that while it may feel like the end of an era, it is also the beginning of a new and exciting chapter.

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    26 分
  • Complaints vs. Criticisms: Transforming Your Communication in Marriage | EP12
    2024/08/14

    Welcome to Listen Up Younger Self! I'm your host, Heather Solomon, here to share some real talk about the roller coasters of marriage and relationships. In this episode, we dive deep into the power of words and their impact on our connections with loved ones.

    Words can build you up or tear you down, and understanding the difference between a complaint and a criticism is crucial for a healthy relationship. Complaints focus on specific behaviors and aim for improvement, while criticisms attack a person's character and breed resentment.

    We'll explore how constant criticism can erode self-esteem, reduce communication, and create emotional distance. I'll share personal anecdotes and practical tips to help you identify and transform your communication patterns.

    Join me as we learn to balance our interactions with positive affirmations, use "I" statements, and focus on constructive communication. It's time to put your self-righteous ego to bed and choose happiness over being right. Your future self is counting on you!

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    33 分