Want a marriage that thrives, not just survives? Join Brian Mayer from Love How Deep as he dives into 7 science-backed strategies to strengthen your relationship! Drawing from the renowned research of Dr. John Gottman, this episode reveals the secrets to building a "Sound Relationship House." Learn how to:

• Build Love Maps: Truly know and understand your partner on a deep level.
• Share Fondness & Admiration: Express appreciation and affection in ways that resonate.
• Turn Towards: Respond positively to your partner's bids for connection.
• Manage Conflict: Navigate disagreements constructively and avoid the "Four Horsemen" that can destroy your relationship.
• Support Each Other's Goals: Foster open communication about individual dreams and aspirations.
• Create Shared Meaning: Align on core values and life philosophies.
• Cultivate Trust & Commitment: The essential foundation for a lasting partnership.

Brian also shares practical tips and insights on improving communication, handling conflict, and reigniting the spark in your marriage. Whether you're just starting out or have been married for years, this episode is packed with valuable advice to help you build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

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Episode Summary:

When was the last time you and your spouse had a truly meaningful conversation? In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy to get stuck in surface-level exchanges. On this episode of Love How Deep, Brian and Heather Mayer share 10 key questions designed to spark deep, meaningful conversations and revitalize your marriage. These questions will help you reconnect, rediscover each other, and strengthen your bond.

In this episode, you'll discover:

Brian and Heather model how to ask and answer these questions, sharing personal anecdotes and creating a vulnerable and relatable atmosphere. The 10 questions explored are:

1. What is a favorite memory you cherish of us?
2. If we could relive one day together, which would it be?
3. What's a dream you have for our future together?
4. What's something you wish I knew about you right now?
5. What's a small thing I do that makes you feel loved?
6. If you could change one thing about how we communicate, what would it be?
7. What's a way we can make more time for each other?
8. What's something new you'd like to try together?
9. How do you feel God is working in our marriage right now?
10. What is one thing you're grateful for about me today?

Key Takeaways:

• Meaningful conversation is crucial for a thriving marriage.
• Asking intentional questions can lead to deeper connection and intimacy.
• Sharing memories, dreams, and vulnerabilities strengthens your bond.
• Regularly checking in with each other helps maintain a strong and healthy relationship.
• Even small changes, like setting aside dedicated time together, can make a big difference.

Actionable Steps:

• Schedule a date night (or "date time"): Set aside dedicated time to connect with your spouse without distractions.
• Choose a few questions: Don't feel pressured to ask all 10 at once. Start with a few that resonate with you and your spouse.
• Listen actively and respond with empathy: Focus on truly understanding your spouse's perspective.
• Be vulnerable and share openly: Create a safe space for honest and authentic communication.
• Follow up: Continue the conversation beyond the initial discussion.

Resources:

• Free Resource: Download our free printable with all 10 questions to use in your own marriage: [Link to Free Resource - If available]

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Welcome to the Love How Deep Podcast with Brian and Heather Mayer

"Love conquers all," "Happy wife, happy life," "Opposites attract"—we've all heard these marriage cliches. But are they true nuggets of wisdom, or harmful myths that set unrealistic expectations? In this episode of Love How Deep, Brian and Heather Mayer dive into some common marriage cliches, separating fact from fiction and offering practical, biblical advice for building a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• "Love means never having to say you're sorry": We debunk this myth and discuss the importance of apologies and forgiveness in a healthy marriage.
• "Happy wife, happy life": We explore the dangers of a one-sided approach to marriage and emphasize the importance of mutual respect and consideration.
• "Only opposites attract": We examine the role of similarities and differences in attraction and long-term compatibility.
• "Marriage is a 50/50 partnership": We challenge this common notion and explain why giving 100% is crucial, even when it's not reciprocated.
• "You complete me": We discuss the importance of individual wholeness and how God, not our spouse, is the ultimate source of fulfillment.
• "Never go to bed angry": We offer a balanced perspective on conflict resolution and the importance of addressing issues constructively.
• "The honeymoon phase doesn't last": We explore how to maintain romance and passion throughout the different seasons of marriage.
• "Love conquers all": We clarify the true meaning of love as an action and its power to overcome challenges when combined with effort and commitment.
• "Marriage is a ball and chain": We challenge this negative view and highlight the joys and benefits of a healthy, fulfilling marriage.
• "Happy couples never fight": We debunk this myth and explain that conflict is normal and can even strengthen a relationship when handled constructively.

Key Scripture:

• James 5:16
• Ephesians 5:25
• Amos 3:3
• Philippians 2:3-4
• Colossians 2:10
• Ephesians 4:26
• Song of Solomon 2:16
• 1 Corinthians 13:7
• Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
• Proverbs 15:1

Actionable Steps:

• Reflect on your own beliefs: Consider which marriage cliches you've internalized and how they might be affecting your relationship.
• Communicate openly: Discuss these myths with your spouse and share your perspectives.
• Focus on action: Remember that love is a verb. Show your love through actions of service, kindness, and understanding.
• Seek godly counsel: If you're facing significant challenges in your marriage, seek guidance from a trusted pastor, counselor, or mentor.

Resources:

• (Optional) Link to any related blog posts, articles, or resources on your website.

Special Offer:

Forgiveness Online Course: Only $19!

Are you and your spouse struggling with past hurts, betrayals, or unresolved conflict? Our Forgiveness Online Course provides practical tools, biblical insights, and proven strategies to help you navigate the journey of forgiveness and healing. This course will help you:

• Understand the power of forgiveness
• Learn practical steps to forgive and be forgiven
• Break free from resentment and bitterness
• Rebuild trust and intimacy in your relationship

For a limited time, get our Forgiveness Online Course for only $19! Visit www.lovehowdeep.com/forgiveness and use code fg19 at checkout.

Connect with Us:

We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts on this episode and connect with us on social media:

• Instagram: @lovehowdeepmarriage
• Facebook: www.facebook.com/lovehowdeep
• Website: www.lovehowdeep.com

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Thank you for listening!