Does flirting make you nervous? Not sure how to make the first move? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey break down invisible flirting techniques that can spark chemistry without things feeling forced or awkward.

Whether you’re too shy to make a move, afraid of rejection, or just unsure about how to flirt with someone already in your life, this episode will give you the tools to take the first step forward.

Topics Covered:

• Why flirting feels awkward or unnatural for so many people.
  
  

• The subtle signs that actually signal romantic interest.
  
  

• How to flirt with someone you already know.

• Touch as a form of flirting—when it works and when it backfires.
  
  

• The kinds of DMs that actually open the door for connection.
  
  

• How to flirt through contrast, play, and shared jokes.
  
  

• The difference between playful teasing and emotional defensiveness.
  
  

• What to do if they don’t respond to your flirting attempt.
  
  

• How to show desire without fear or desperation.
  
  

• Flirting beyond your 20s: why it still works at any age.

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Are you stuck obsessing over someone who’s wrong for you? In this week’s epsiode, I dive into the concept of limerence—the unhealthy fixation on someone who doesn’t return your feelings—and how it can keep you chasing as your confidence falls lower and lower.

I’ll show you how to recognize the signs of limerence, why it thrives on hope and uncertainty, and what you can do to break free and get your power back. If you’ve ever felt trapped in this emotional loop, this is your way out!

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When we first date someone, we can’t keep our hands off them. All we want to do is take them home and spend all night in bed together. But what about when the infatuation stage is over? Can you still keep up the chase even though you’re both in a stable and comfortable relationship?

In this week’s episode of Love Life, I explain the psychology behind why so many couples get lazy and lose attraction over time, and show how you can avoid that by taking on a few key behaviors to boost the DESIRE in your relationship so that you and your partner always feel irresistibly attracted to each another.

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In today’s episode, Matthew is joined by bestselling author Sahil Bloom, whose book The Five Types of Wealth challenges everything we think we know about success. Together they dive into the tension between chasing money and cultivating a deeply fulfilling life—especially in the age of comparison and social media.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still feel behind or empty, this conversation is a must-listen.

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• The 5 types of wealth: time, health, relationships, purpose, and money
  
  

• Why money is only valuable as a tool—not a destination
  
  

• The myth of “falling” in love vs. growing in love
  
  

• Why you feel behind in life (and how to reframe it)
  
  

• Navigating loneliness and starting over at any age
  
  

• The power of environment to shape your reality
  
  

• When to let go of old friendships and toxic safety habits
  
  

• How to shift from burnout to balance without losing your ambition
  
  

• Why anything above zero compounds
  
  

• Small habits that build deep relationships
  
  

• How to trust again after betrayal or rejection
  
  

• Register for the 30-Day Confidence Challenge (Free): MHChallenge.com
  
  

• Try Matthew AI for personalized dating and relationship advice: AskMH.com
  
  

• Get Sahil Bloom’s book The Five Types of Wealth

If you’ve ever been ghosted, you know how brutal it feels. It’s like the floor suddenly dropped out from under you. But here’s the truth: Ghosting isn’t about you—it’s usually about the other person’s immaturity or inability to have a hard conversation.

In this episode, I’ll explain why people ghost in modern dating, and show you how to stop getting stuck on people who flake and disappear, so you focus on people who truly value you. Life is too short to waste on people who don’t show up.

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In this week's episode of Love Life, I speak with Sarah who had just started dating her "dream guy" before things took a turn for the worst when she left for a week. With his attention lost, we discuss the subtle ways she can regain it.

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In this episode, Matthew sits down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip (@drmorgancutlip) to explore the real work of modern relationships. Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this is a must-listen for anyone who wants to learn how to communicate their needs, set boundaries, and grow closer to their partner without losing themselves in the process.

Topics Covered:

• What actually changes when you become parents, and how to prepare for it.
  
  

• Why resentment builds when your needs go unspoken.
  
  

• Dr. Cutlip’s “Ultimate Compliment Formula” for deeper emotional connection.
  
  

• How to love someone in the way they need to be loved (even if it doesn’t come naturally).
  
  

• What the “mental load” is and why it’s a hidden relationship-killer.
  
  

• How to talk about imbalance in a relationship without triggering defensiveness.
  
  

• The difference between compromise and losing yourself in a relationship.
  
  

• How to bring up your needs without guilt.
  
  

• What makes someone “relationship ready” in dating.
  
  

• How individualism is quietly undermining commitment culture.
  
  

Resources Mentioned:

• Dr. Morgan Cutlip’s book: A Better Share – Buy your copy here
  
  

• Join Matthew’s 30-Day Confidence Challenge – MHChallenge.com
  
  

• Try Matthew AI (ask any relationship question) – AskMH.com
  
  

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In my 30s, I realized some truths about relationships that took me years to really learn. I used to believe in a lot of romantic myths. But in this week’s new episode, I share the hard-earned truth that certainty in love isn’t something you find on day one—it’s something you have to decide to build and invest in.

You’ll also learn the difference between “settling for” and “settling on” someone, and why the latter is the key to creating a love that lasts.

If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by the fear of choosing the wrong person, or overwhelmed by your search for “the one,” this is the mindset shift you need.

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