Join Pat Morley as we examine four belief systems—secular, moral, religious, and Christian—and explore why so many of them fail us. We’ll also look at how Solomon—who had everything—ended up saying, “I hated life.”

This message will not only help you evaluate your own system, but also equip you to walk with someone you care about who’s starting to realize their system isn’t working either. A friend, a son, a brother, a co-worker—when they hit that wall, you’ll be ready.

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Some men are restless because life hasn’t worked out like they hoped—dreams delayed, plans derailed, purpose unclear. Others are restless because it did work out—but it didn’t satisfy. Either way, they’re asking the same quiet question: Why do I still feel this way?

If you're mentoring, discipling, or leading men, you've already met both types. One man is discouraged by what he’s missed; another is disillusioned by what he gained. One says, “I failed.” The other says, “I succeeded—but it didn’t mean what I thought it would.”

Join Pat Morley as we discuss what the Bible has to say about—and to—men who feel disquieted, and practical suggestions for how you can help them work through their restlessness.

You already know this: if you could have made that change on your own, it would have happened by now. On the other hand, we’ve all watched men’s lives radically transformed. We’ve seen it with our own eyes.

Not much will change for the better apart from Jesus—but we also have a part to play.

Watch this week's study and learn some practical steps for change that actually work—and how the change you long for might be easier than you think!

None of us ever plans to fail. So how do we get off track? What makes us stumble? And why do some of us even fall away?

One of the biggest reasons is that we don’t have to answer to anyone for our lives. And let’s be honest, don’t we naturally kind of like it that way?

But most of us also understand that we need to be in accountable relationships—although few actually do it.

Join Pat Morley as we explore why accountability is the missing link in so many men’s lives, how to build it into your own life, and what practical tools can help you start—or restart—with confidence.

Most of us would be embarrassed if our families, friends, or colleagues knew what went on inside our heads. But here’s the good news: You’re not crazy. A secret thought life is normal.

The question is: What kind of secret life are you leading—holy or profane?

In this week's study, we explore the battle for our private thoughts, how God provides the help we need to win that battle, and a couple of practical ideas to sync your thoughts with God’s thoughts.

What made men we look up to like Peter, Paul, David, Moses, Gideon, Samson, Jonah, and Job so different? After the smoke cleared, God could trust them in both big and little things. Were they perfect? Thank God for us, no. But in the end, second only to their faith, it was integrity that set them apart.

Join Pat Morley as we pull the mask off this problem, consider what’s at stake, and think through what to do about it. You’ll leave encouraged and equipped to live with greater clarity and conviction.

What is making you suffer? Do you think God knows what you’re going through? If He knows, does He care? If He knows and cares, can He do anything about it? And if He can, why doesn’t He?

Join Pat Morley as we wrestle with these hard questions.

Explore what we gain from suffering that we can gain no other way, and consider how to respond when the pain just seems too much to bear.

Men want to be in charge—to call the shots. And in many ways, God has given us the freedom to lead, build, and take responsibility. But freedom isn’t the same thing as autonomy.

Still, we chase it.

We try to control our circumstances.

We “strive" for financial independence.

We just want to be left alone to do our own thing.

But Jesus offers something completely different: radical dependence on Him.

Join Pat Morley as we explore how insane it really is to think we’re in control—or to even want to be. If you're tired of carrying everything yourself, this is for you.