Ep 21: You’re not lazy. You show up. You love your family. But something’s broken—and you feel it. Maybe you feel like no matter what you do, it’s never enough. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

In this sobering and empowering episode, we sit down with Tanner Wendell, a former tech leader who walked through the fire of divorce, fatherhood, therapy, and personal reinvention—and came out with a mission: to help men become not just providers, but powerful, present leaders at home.

As the founder of Family OS, Tanner has worked with hundreds of high-performing men to shift their approaches to marriage, sex, parenting, and emotional leadership. What he shares in this episode isn’t fluff—it’s the hard truths that most people are afraid to say out loud.

Whether you’re newly married, in a rough patch, or just trying to be a better partner and parent—this is the wake-up call (and roadmap) you didn’t know you needed.

Why listen?

If you’re questioning what it means to show up as a partner, healing parts of yourself, or trying to build something real in your relationship, Tanner shares:

• The real reason emotional leadership starts with managing your own energy
• The myth of the “perfect parent” and why stewardship matters more than control
• How to create a Family Vision and Constitution that unites your household
• Why healing childhood wounds is key to showing up as a better partner
• The one shift every man can make that changes how his wife responds to him

🎧 Listen now—and take the first real step toward changing the story at home.

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