In this powerful conversation, Dae Hayes is joined by special guest Elan Page, a mom who is navigating the world of homeschooling with grace, grit, and God’s guidance. This episode is for the mom wondering, “Can I homeschool my child and still chase my dreams?” or “How do I prioritize self-care while being present in my parenting?”

Elan gets real about the financial and emotional realities of homeschooling, and how to make education a collaborative decision between parents. You'll hear about the importance of community, honoring each child’s God-given gifts, and the reminder that motherhood doesn’t mean the end of your individuality—it’s often the beginning of discovering it.

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💡 Key Takeaways:

• Homeschooling is a calling and a choice, and it works best when both parents are in partnership.

• Your identity matters—exploring your passions is not selfish, it’s sacred.

• Every child is an assignment from God, with their own unique learning path.

• Self-care is spiritual—you can’t pour from an empty vessel.

• Community matters. You don’t have to homeschool (or mother) alone.

In this heartfelt episode of Mind Your Own Motherhood, Dae Hayes shares a deeply personal reflection inspired by the worship song "Canvas and Clay"—a powerful reminder that nothing in our motherhood journey is wasted. Whether you're navigating sleepless nights, identity shifts, or mental exhaustion, this conversation reminds you that God is still shaping you.

Through the imagery of pottery, Dae explores the beauty of being formed on the Potter’s wheel, even when the process feels messy or incomplete. Just like clay, we are crushed, reformed, and refined. But through it all, God’s hands never leave us.

💛 You’ll be reminded that:

• God uses every season—even the hard ones—for His glory and your good.

• Your identity as a mom is not the end of your story, it’s part of your becoming.

• Surrendering control makes space for God’s creative work in you.

• Spiritual consistency is cultivated in the crushing, not the comfort.

Whether you’re deep in the trenches or just trying to catch your breath, this episode offers biblical encouragement for weary hearts and hope for moms who feel like unfinished work.

What to Expect:

In this conversation, Host Jarkeshia McGahee, a resilient widow, mother, and woman of faith discusses the intersection of mental health and faith. JAM emphasizes the importance of checking in on oneself and others. She shares personal experiences of navigating grief, loss, and the unpredictability of life, while highlighting how God’s purpose prevails despite our plans. The discussion encourages vulnerability, community support, and the significance of surrendering to God’s plan for our lives.

CHOP is your go-to mental health first aid kit for navigating life’s transitions — from parenting to pain, from loss to living again.

Highlights:

• Life often doesn't go as planned, but God has a purpose for us.

• Grief and loss can be navigated with faith and community support.

• It's important to ask for help and be vulnerable with others.

• Finding your voice is essential for fulfilling your purpose.

• Self-inventory is necessary for personal growth and mental health.

• Sharing your testimony can inspire and help others.

Chapters

02:16 When Life Doesn't Go According to Plan

06:21 God's Plans show His Glory

08:40 Are You Really Prepared to Receive Your Own Plans?

10:08 Trials are Used to Create Testimonies

11:30 Real Feelings in Grief & What to Do With Them

15:39 Reverse CHOP Tips

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