This week, Lilly and Amelia break down Materialists, the buzzy new film from Celine Song, through a therapeutic and cultural lens. From transactional love to the myth of the “perfect partner,” they explore how the movie reflects real dating struggles in your 20s—especially when ambition, wealth, and emotional intimacy collide.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The blurred line between love and transaction
• Emotional intimacy vs. financial stability
• The myth of the ideal partner (and the math behind it)
• What materialism says about modern dating culture
• How attachment styles and trauma histories influence who we’re drawn to
• Tools for reflecting on your own dating patterns

Listener Reflection Prompts:

• Have you ever dated someone for comfort or security?
• What do you value most in a partner—emotional connection, financial stability, adventure, or something else?
• What has your 20s taught you about the real cost of love?

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Connect with the hosts:

Lilly Wehman: Millennium | LinkedIn
Amelia Abernathy: Millennium | Linkedin

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