“If things haven’t been buttoned up, wow, that really distracts from the grieving process.”

Our hosts, Natalie and Dan Slagle, address the elephant in the room for many families: how to talk to aging parents about their finances. When you're talking about $124 trillion changing hands over the next couple of decades, this stops being someone else's problem and becomes everyone's reality.

Dan gets vulnerable about his experience after his mom passed away unexpectedly, sharing everything from finding her handwritten financial notebook in the attic to the surreal moment of teaching his dad how to use an ATM. He reminds us that we might not know as much about our parents' financial lives as we think.

They’re not saying be greedy or pushy. Rather, it’s about making sure your parents' wishes actually get carried out and sparing everyone the administrative nightmare that comes with poor planning. Dan's story proves that having these tough talks early means you can focus on what really matters when loss hits: healing and remembering, not hunting down account passwords.

Natalie admits she took a more direct approach with her own parents, basically telling them, "Handle this or it becomes my problem." It might not have been the most tactful way to put it, but it worked. The lesson there is to find your family's communication style and lean into it.

Start the conversation now, before you're forced to figure it out in crisis mode.

Key Topics:

● The $124 Trillion Wealth Transfer (04:08)

● Breaking Communication Barriers (06:35)

● Dan's Personal Loss Experience (10:42)

● Essential Planning Steps (13:38)

● Family Meeting Strategies (24:37)

Resources:

· Helping a Parent Navigate Finances After Loss (blog post)

Natalie Slagle, CFP® and Dan Slagle, CFP® are the founding partners and lead financial planners at Fyooz Financial Planning — an independent firm dedicated to helping high-earning couples in their 30s and 40s confidently navigate the complexities of managing money together.

At Fyooz, they specialize in turning financial stress into strategy, guiding couples through everything from cash flow and investing to aligning money with shared goals.

Disclaimer: For updated disclosures, please visit fyoozfinancial.com.

“Do we want to set our money aside for our child’s future education? I don’t think the answer should be an automatic yes.”

Our hosts, Natalie and Dan Slagle, discuss the question many young parents are asking: How much should you save for your child’s college, and when should you start?

Drawing from client stories and their own experience, they break down why this decision isn’t one-size-fits-all, how to calculate future costs, and how tools like 529 plans (and even family Ugift links) can help make the goal more manageable.

For the Slagles—and many of their own clients—it all starts with talking honestly about priorities with your spouse. Saving for a child’s education isn’t a given; it’s a decision couples should make intentionally, based on values, not guilt.

They unpack how much college might cost in 18 years (spoiler: close to $300K!), and how the 529 plan helps families make the most of time and compounding. Beyond tax benefits, they explore a go-to hack for many parents today: the ability to share a contribution link with family and friends for birthdays or holidays.

Starting early—even small—can lead to powerful results. To Natalie, the joy that comes from successfully building your child’s future is more satisfying than any number in your retirement account!

Key Topics:

• The Emotional Cost of Graduation (01:18)
• How Much Will College Cost? (11:59)
• 529 Plan Benefits & Setup (18:40)
• New Roth IRA Transfer Rule (24:17)
• Using the 529 Ugift Link (26:38)

Natalie Slagle, CFP® and Dan Slagle, CFP® are the founding partners and lead financial planners at Fyooz Financial Planning — an independent firm dedicated to helping high-earning couples in their 30s and 40s confidently navigate the complexities of managing money together.

At Fyooz, they specialize in turning financial stress into strategy, guiding couples through everything from cash flow and investing to aligning money with shared goals.

Disclaimer: For updated disclosures, please visit fyoozfinancial.com.

“I have anxieties around the same exact situation as you, but you have a different feeling from it.”

Our hosts, Natalie and Dan Slagle, know that even in a happy, communicative marriage, the topic of money can be a bit of a minefield. But what happens when one partner is way more anxious about money than the other? That’s the question Dan and Natalie are looking to unpack.

To start with, they each take the “spendthrift-tightwad” test—a scale developed by researchers to measure how freely (or not) you spend. Dan scores a 12, making him a cusp neutral “unconflicted consumer.” Natalie lands squarely in “tightwad” territory between 8 and 9. The results don’t surprise either of them, but they do open the door to a deeper discussion.

Natalie shares that her need to track every dollar stems from a tendency toward control, especially when it comes to long-term security. Dan, meanwhile, is more focused on balance—enjoying the present while still saving for the future. This mismatch in money mindset often leads to friction, but also opportunities for growth.

It’s not about changing each other—it’s about understanding the “why” behind each partner’s money habits. With the right tools and ongoing conversations, Natalie and Dan believe that financial tension can become a bridge, not a barrier.

Key Topics:

• Spendthrift vs Tightwad Mindsets (06:53)
• Natalie and Dan’s Spendthrift-Tightwad Test Results (11:46)
• Causes for Financial Anxiety (16:59)
• Steps to Reduce Financial Anxiety Within Marriage (19:51)
• Tools for Better Financial Communication (23:39)

Resources:

• The Tightwad-Spendthrift Scale

Natalie Slagle, CFP® and Dan Slagle, CFP® are the founding partners and lead financial planners at Fyooz Financial Planning — an independent firm dedicated to helping high-earning couples in their 30s and 40s confidently navigate the complexities of managing money together.

At Fyooz, they specialize in turning financial stress into strategy, guiding couples through everything from cash flow and investing to aligning money with shared goals.

Disclaimer: For updated disclosures, please visit fyoozfinancial.com.