Are you tired of chasing clarity from a man who keeps you confused?

In this raw and honest episode of No More Breadcrumbs — the Christian podcast for women healing from toxic love and reclaiming their identity — we’re talking about why emotionally unavailable men feel so magnetic… and why God’s love is nothing like that.

You’ll learn:

• What breadcrumb love actually is (and why you keep accepting it)

• How trauma wires you to equate chaos with chemistry

• Why striving for love is a symptom of broken self-worth

• What divine love looks and feels like — and how to start receiving it

If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I feel not good enough in love?” — this episode is going to feel like truth and freedom all at once.

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You know what to do — but your heart keeps getting stuck in the same pattern.

Because emotionally unavailable love feels familiar — not because it’s good, but because it's known. That magnetic pull? You've been trained to chase what's unpredictable.

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, we dive into:

• Why your nervous system craves what feels like home – even if he can’t give you real intimacy
• How believing you're not enough rewires love to look like effort, not rest
• Why your body sometimes chooses pain over peace — trauma mislabels danger as "connection"
• What Jesus actually says about your worth — that you're chosen, whole, and loved
• How to rewire your self-concept and open your heart to safe, real love

You’re not broken. You’re not unfixable. You’ve just been playing by a distorted playbook — and it’s time to rewrite it. 👇 Ready to break the cycle once and for all? 🔗 Take the Love Identity Quiz – find out why you keep attracting what you don’t want, and how to shift that pattern fast 👉 [Click Here]

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You’ve done the healing work. You’ve journaled. You’ve prayed. But when it comes to love… you still feel like you’re not enough.

If you’ve ever found yourself Googling things like:

• “Why do I always feel not good enough in love?”
• “How do I stop feeling not good enough for my boyfriend?”
• “Why do I feel unworthy in relationships?”

…then this episode was made for you.

In this powerful teaching, trauma therapist and Christ-led coach Kim Velez walks you through the real reason you still feel unworthy — even after all the inner work — and how to finally anchor your identity in what God already said about you.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn how to: ✅ Break free from rejection-based identity ✅ Stop needing to be picked to feel worthy ✅ Start seeing yourself the way God sees you in love ✅ Shift from not-enough to secure, chosen, and wholeYou’re not broken.

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