Welcome to the latest episode of Off the Data Provided, hosted by Dr. Marcus C. Shepard, where we delve into the intricate dynamics of dating, relationships, and the influence of social media. Join us as we dissect a thought-provoking Wall Street Journal article, ''Don't Touch, Don't Go Dutch and Other Tips for Dating Success” (https://www.wsj.com/lifestyle/relationships/dont-touch-dont-go-dutch-and-other-tips-for-dating-success-7dd85e81), offering guidance on modern dating practices through the insights of a professional matchmaker. We'll explore concepts like Disney dating, the rule of three, physical intimacy boundaries, and the importance of intentional communication in building committed romantic relationships.

This episode also dives deep into the phases of romantic relationship growth—individuality, invitational, explorational, and intensifying communication—as Dr. Shepard articulates how to navigate these stages effectively using practical examples and personal insights. Discover how relational dialectics like autonomy vs. connection, and novelty vs. predictability can impact your relationship dynamics.

Finally, Dr. Shepard addresses listeners' queries on social media interactions and offers advice on initiating connections online. If you would like to submit your question for advice, feel free to email Dr. Shepard at OffTheDataProvided@gmail.com.

In this episode of Off the Data Provided, Dr. Marcus C. Shepard delves into the notion of a "relationship recession" and the evolving concept of love and partnership. Through an engaging discussion, he examines the insights from a Financial Times article (https://www.ft.com/content/43e2b4f6-5ab7-4c47-b9fd-d611c36dad74), Sabrina Strings's book "The End of Love: Racism, Sexism, and The Death of Romance," and C. Winter Han's book "Racial Erotics: Gay Men of Color, Sexual Racism, and the Politics of Desire."

Dr. Shepard challenges traditional romantic ideals, highlighting the impact of social constructs on relationships, and emphasizes the importance of redefining romance in an increasingly diverse world. Join the conversation as he explores key terms like the romantic ideal, sexual racism, and situationships, offering a fresh perspective on the complexities of modern love.

Listeners are invited to reflect on their own experiences and consider paths toward more meaningful and inclusive connections, as Dr. Shepard encourages a departure from conventional romance to a more personalized understanding of love and partnership.

Also, don't forget the "Ask Dr. Shepard" segment, tackling real-life communication challenges sent in by listeners. If you would like to submit your question for advice, feel free to email Dr. Shepard at OffTheDataProvided@gmail.com.

In this episode of Off the Data Provided, Dr. Marcus C. Shepard dives into a captivating exploration of friendship dynamics as highlighted by Clare Ansberry's Wall Street Journal article, 'It Takes at Least 200 Hours to Make a Close Friendship and More to Maintain It'. Discover the underlying theories, including the Social Brain Hypothesis and the Communication Bond Belong Theory, that affect how we form and maintain meaningful connections.

Dr. Shepard discusses the importance of striving behavior in fostering closeness and the pivotal role of quality communication in defining friendships. Through personal anecdotes and expert studies, listeners are guided on the journey from social snacking and small talk to building deeper, lasting bonds through striving behavior.

Whether it's navigating friendships formed online or understanding the challenges posed by limited social time, this episode provides valuable insights and practical advice for those seeking to enrich their interpersonal relationships. Tune in to uncover the secrets of forming and maintaining meaningful friendships over time.

Also, don't forget the "Ask Dr. Shepard" segment, tackling real-life communication challenges sent in by listeners. If you would like to submit your question for advice, feel free to email Dr. Shepard at OffTheDataProvided@gmail.com.