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  • Off The Books - What do you no longer care about in a relationship? Also, what's the misconception about love and relationships & much more!

    Off The Books - What do you no longer care about in a relationship? Also, what's the misconception about love and relationships & much more!
    2025/01/31
    AJ (@ajandhisbackpack) and Lakia (@iamlgrca) are here to shake the table with some sizzling relationship real talk! First up, they’re busting the biggest love myths—because let’s be honest, is "happily ever after" really a thing or just a rom-com fantasy? Then, they spill on the qualities they swore were dealbreakers back in the day but now couldn't care less about. And finally, they uncover the most slept-on key to a thriving relationship—hint: it’s not what you think, but it’s a game-changer. Expect hot takes, hilarious debates, and the kind of chemistry that only AJ and Lakia can serve up. Tune in because this episode? It’s about to get real!
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    30 分
  • "Opinions On The Line"

    "Opinions On The Line"
    2025/01/18
    AJ (@ajandhisbackpack) and Byrd (@Thettthizzle) are coming to you live from Estella’s in Boston, where the food is hot, the drinks are cold, and the vibe is as spicy as today’s topics. First, they dive into some unconventional New Year’s resolutions people might actually enjoy sticking with—think “learning one dad joke a week” or “mastering the art of the perfect nap.” Next up, they tackle the ever-complicated question: How do you know when to take a relationship to the next level or call it quits? And so much more!! Tune-in
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    1 時間
  • Off The Books - How do you drop knowledge without stepping on toes? Also, when do you hit pause and just vibe out and much more!!

    Off The Books - How do you drop knowledge without stepping on toes? Also, when do you hit pause and just vibe out and much more!!
    2024/12/17
    AJ (@ajandhisbackpack) and Byrd (@Thettthizzle) are here serving up free game. This episode, they’re diving into the art of mentoring without making it feel like a roast session. How do you drop knowledge without stepping on toes? Then, it gets real as they tackle the delicate dance of communicating when someone’s drowning in advice. When is it time to hit pause and just vibe? And finally, the big question: Are there moments when listening trumps leading? AJ and Byrd break it all down with humor, insight, and just enough side-eye to keep it spicy. So, tune in, take notes, and join the conversation.
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    29 分
  • Off The Books - Self love, reality, & and pride, how do you choose? Also, there is no bond for P diddy & much more!!

    Off The Books - Self love, reality, & and pride, how do you choose? Also, there is no bond for P diddy & much more!!
    2024/09/26
    AJ (@ajandhisbackpack) and Jamal (@jamalbottomlineburke) are back at it, live from ATL, and things are about to get spicy! First on the table: How do you juggle the fine line between pride, self-love, and keeping it real? They break it down with humor, raw honesty, and maybe a few side-eyes. Then, it’s straight into the headlines—P Diddy getting locked up, but wait—no bond? AJ and Jamal have some thoughts on that one, and trust me, they're not holding back. Finally, they dive into the complexities of competing with someone when you're attracted to the same person. These two have a lot to say, and you won’t want to miss a second. Buckle up and tune in for the wild ride!
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    27 分
  • Off The Books - Can a man be the "prize" in dating? How important is financial transparency in dating? thoughts on going 50/50 & much more!!

    Off The Books - Can a man be the "prize" in dating? How important is financial transparency in dating? thoughts on going 50/50 & much more!!
    2024/07/08
    AJ @ajandhisbackpack and Rose @irreplaceable_Rodriguez are back to stir the pot with some spicy relationship debates. This episode dives into the murky waters of dating dynamics with topics that are sure to spark some serious discussion. First up, they tackle the controversial role of financial transparency in the early stages of dating. Next, they weigh in on the age-old question: Is it respectable and reasonable for a man to require a 50/50 split in a relationship? Finally, the duo delves into whether men can be "the prize" in the dating phase. Tune in!!
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    29 分
  • Off The Books - How do you feel about sharing your location? How do you handle criticism? Also, how do you manage toxicness? & much more!!

    Off The Books - How do you feel about sharing your location? How do you handle criticism? Also, how do you manage toxicness? & much more!!
    2024/06/14
    AJ (@ajandhisbackpack) and Jay (@thutmosethe3rd_) are here to shake things up! This episode is a whirlwind of spicy insights and engaging chatter. They dive deep into managing toxic relationships—how do you balance keeping someone in your life while dodging the drama? They also tackle the art of self-disclosure: what's the sweet spot for sharing personal tidbits with new acquaintances? And when criticism comes from someone you value, how do you handle it without losing your cool? Tune in for a lively discussion that's equal parts witty and wise. Enjoy the vibes!
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    29 分
  • Off The Books - How do you feel about having options when dating? The realization that you got to settle down, and MUCH MORE!!

    Off The Books - How do you feel about having options when dating? The realization that you got to settle down, and MUCH MORE!!
    2024/06/05
    AJ (@ajandhisbackpack) and Guy (@gahel97_) are here to stir the pot! In this lively episode, the duo dives headfirst into the whirlwind of dating multiple people simultaneously. They dissect the mental, financial, and physical tolls of juggling romances like pros. When's the right time to hang up your player hat and settle down? AJ and Guy have got you covered with candid insights and personal anecdotes. But wait, there's more! They spill the tea on the good, the bad, and the downright ugly sides of having options in the dating scene. Tune in!!
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    29 分
  • Off The Books - Why is it crucial to stay patient when dating? Why do people prolong staying in a toxic relationship? and much more!!

    Off The Books - Why is it crucial to stay patient when dating? Why do people prolong staying in a toxic relationship? and much more!!
    2024/05/27
    AJ (@ajandhisbackpack) and Jay (@thutmosethe3rd_) are here to shake things up! In this lively episode, the duo dives into the art (or lack thereof) of approaching women—are there foolproof methods, or is it all a game of chance? They also tackle the age-old dilemma of why people stick around in relationships that don’t feel 100% right. And if that’s not enough, they’ll explore how to decide if someone is truly deserving of your all. Tune in for a witty, no-holds-barred chat that promises laughs, insights, and plenty of vibes.
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    29 分