What does the best version of you look like? How does she feel? How does she carry herself? Becoming the woman of your dreams isn’t about chasing perfection—it’s about stepping into the life you truly want and becoming the most confident, fulfilled version of yourself. In this episode, we’re breaking down how to build yourself up, prioritize self-care, cultivate confidence, and create a life that feels aligned with who you really are. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure of how to level up, this is your sign to take action.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

We all have a past—things we’ve done, experiences we’ve had, and moments we’re not necessarily proud of. But when you start dating someone, how much of that past should you share? And more importantly, when should you share it? In this episode, we’re breaking down the do’s and don’ts of revealing personal information in relationships. From knowing what’s appropriate to share early on to understanding when full transparency is necessary, we’ll help you navigate this tricky conversation without oversharing or keeping unnecessary secrets.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Women today are more independent and capable than ever, and that includes choosing to have children on their own. Whether it’s through IVF, sperm donation, or adoption, more women are deciding not to wait for the “perfect” partner to start a family. But how do men feel about this? In this episode, we’re breaking down what guys really think about dating a woman who had kids on her own, how it impacts relationships, and why for some men, it’s actually easier than dating a single mom with an ex. If you’re considering having kids on your own—or just curious about how it plays into dating—we’ve got you covered.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating an elite man—whether he’s a CEO, an entrepreneur, or a high-powered professional—comes with its own set of rules. These men operate in a fast-paced, high-stakes world, and their dating lives often reflect that. They have high standards, and busy schedules, and expect a partner who is just as impressive as they are. and In this episode, we’re breaking down everything you need to know about dating an elite man—how to hold your own, how to keep him engaged, and most importantly, how to stay true to yourself while navigating this unique dating dynamic. If you’re stepping into this world, now is the time to be on your A-game.

Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Summer is right around the corner, and if you’re single, this is your sign to shake things up. If what you’ve been doing hasn’t worked, it’s time to step outside your comfort zone and try something different. Whether that means traveling, meeting new people, or simply making small changes to your routine, now is the time to plan ahead so you can make the most of the season. In this episode, we’re talking about how to prepare for summer—how to plan trips that put you in the right places with like-minded people, how to freshen up your look, and how to be intentional about making the most of the season. If you’re ready to stop waiting for things to happen and start making moves.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Ghosting isn’t new, it’s just really bad manners with a new name. One day you're talking, maybe even going on a date, and then suddenly… nothing. No explanation, no goodbye—just radio silence. It’s frustrating, confusing, and let’s be real, downright rude. In this episode, we’re talking about why ghosting is never okay, and how to handle it if it happens to you. Plus, we’re flipping the script—because if you’re guilty of ghosting, it’s time to start handling things with honesty and respect.

Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

The sun is out, the weather is warming up, and there’s no reason to stay home binge-watching Netflix. Spring is the season of new beginnings—so why not take advantage of it? This is the perfect time to get outside, try new things, and put yourself in places where you can meet new people (including a potential partner). In this episode, we’re talking about how to embrace the energy of spring—where to go, what to do, and how to refresh your mindset, your wardrobe, and your dating life. If you’re ready to shake off winter and step into a fresh, exciting season, this one’s for you.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Communication is everything in a relationship. It’s how you build trust, stay connected, and navigate life together. But what if the guy you’re seeing is bad at communicating? Does it mean the relationship is doomed, or is there a way to work through it? In this episode, we’re diving into how to handle a partner who struggles with communication. Is he just a bad texter, or does he shut down in person too? Is this something you can live with, or is it a dealbreaker?

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography