In this episode of the podcast, hosts Nick Oblish and Linda Payne explore the multifaceted nature of conflict and its role in both personal and professional settings. Nick, with his extensive background in HR and change management, reveals his fascination with conflict, arguing that it is a fundamental aspect of change. On the other hand, Linda shares her aversion to conflict despite her career in law, sparking an engaging dialogue about different approaches to managing conflicting situations.

This episode delves into conflict management models, particularly the Thomas Kilman Conflict Management Model, which categorizes conflict handling into five modes: competing, collaborating, avoiding, accommodating, and compromising. Nick and Linda reflect on their personal experiences in conflict situations, both in professional environments and personal life, offering listeners unique insights into the nuances of each conflict management style. The discussion also highlights the importance of self-awareness and communication in navigating change and conflict effectively.

• Conflict is an inevitable part of personal development and organizational change, serving as a catalyst for growth and resilience.

• The Thomas Kilman conflict management model offers a framework to understand personal default modes in conflict situations, enhancing emotional intelligence.

• Self-awareness and honest communication are crucial tools for managing conflict and change.

• Embracing conflict can lead to personal growth, while avoidance can result in unresolved tension and issues.

• Collaboration is often the most beneficial approach to conflict management but requires significant effort and energy.

LEARN ALL there is to know about the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Model here: https://kilmanndiagnostics.com/about/

And the Conflict Model graphic we talked through HERE

CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

EMAIL:

nick@bucketsofchange.com

lpayne@lpdivorce.com

OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

Linda Payne

Web: www.lpdivorce.com

Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

Nick Goblirsch:

Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.

In thius episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, co-hosts Nick and Linda dive into a relatable topic for many—coping with illness and its disruption to professional and personal life. Despite both recovering from sickness, they bring their usual enthusiasm to the conversation, offering insights on staying productive and managing self-care when under the weather. The episode unfurls through humorous anecdotes, reflections on societal expectations, and strategies for overcoming the downtime caused by illnesses.

Nick and Linda begin by recounting their recent struggles with germs, emphasizing how unexpected illness can throw a wrench in daily plans. As both co-hosts navigate the lingering effects of head colds, they humorously discuss antihistamines, work culture pressures, and the irony of modern medicine. Linda details her frequent bouts with sickness, contrasting it with Nick's rare encounters, highlighting the different ways people experience and handle being unwell. The episode takes a deeper turn as they tackle the cultural stigmas around working through sickness, with Linda passionately criticizing the unrealistic expectations placed on professionals.

• Balancing Work and Health: The importance of recognizing when to take a break and prioritize health over work.

• Impact of Modern Medicine: Despite advancements, common illnesses still pose significant disruptions to daily life.

• Societal Expectations: A reflective critique on the culture of applauding employees for working through illness.

• Personal Anecdotes: Humorous and insightful personal stories that underline the common experiences of dealing with sickness.

• Nature of Illness: Understanding how illness makes us value our health and take less for granted.

CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

EMAIL:

nick@bucketsofchange.com

lpayne@lpdivorce.com

OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

Linda Payne

Web: www.lpdivorce.com

Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

Nick Goblirsch:

Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.

In this enlightening episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, hosts Nick Goblirsch and Linda Payne dive into the intricate topic of how time influences our personal and professional reinvention. Episode 27 kicks off with Nick reminiscing about the recent transition from summer to the start of a new school year, focusing on how these predictable yet impactful changes shape our routines and mindsets. Linda shares her insights on how her family adapts to the school year's start and how she instills a sense of opportunity and renewal in her children during these periods.

The conversation takes a deep dive into significant moments of reinvention, both from Nick's and Linda's perspectives. Nick candidly discusses his journey through entrepreneurial painting and recent realizations about re-entering the HR space. Linda recounts her career pivot from corporate America to law school and then to litigation, describing the profound impact these changes had on her personal and professional life. The hosts also explore the importance of maintaining a strong sense of self-worth and the power that past successes and experiences can instill in us as we navigate through periods of change.

• Embrace Predictable Change: The transition periods like the start of a new school year or a new calendar year are natural opportunities for reinvention and self-assessment.

• Significant Career Shifts: Both hosts discuss their pivotal career changes, emphasizing the importance of aligning professional roles with personal values and aspirations.

• Revisiting Past Roles: Nick explores the idea of returning to HR, likening it to revisiting an old relationship with newfound maturity and perspective.

• Empowerment through Feedback: How feedback from peers and mentors can significantly impact your career trajectory and help you realize your untapped potential.

• Balancing Core Strengths and New Ventures: The importance of recognizing and leveraging past experiences and skills while stepping into new professional territories.

CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

EMAIL:

nick@bucketsofchange.com

lpayne@lpdivorce.com

OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

Linda Payne

Web: www.lpdivorce.com

Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

Nick Goblirsch:

Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.