Have you ever felt that despite your professional triumphs, there's still a void gnawing at your happiness? Charlie McKeever, founder of Happy Man Coaching, knows that feeling all too well. In today's episode, Charlie takes us through his transitory journey from the lucrative tech industry to men's coaching, prompted by an insatiable desire for personal fulfillment and happiness. As he unravels his tale of marital struggles and self-discovery, you'll come to realize how labels can limit your identity and the profound impact of choosing the right people in life.

Ever wondered why men and women react differently to distress? Charlie's insights into this will definitely leave you pondering. Drawing from his experiences with his wide-ranging clientele and the TikTok generation, Charlie shares how he tailors his coaching approach to suit the unique circumstances of each individual. Listen to him as he emphasizes the importance of respect for men and comforting love for women in a relationship. This episode promises to help you see relationships from an entirely fresh perspective.

Lastly, we hear about Charlie's adventures in the coaching community, including the formation of a men's group in Austin. This group, centered around the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy", has grown to include hundreds of men seeking connection and understanding. Through this journey, Charlie sheds light on the joy of helping others discover things they didn't know about themselves. If you're seeking insights on personal fulfillment, happiness, and relationships, this episode is your treasure trove. Get ready to be inspired by Charlie's unconventional yet deeply gratifying journey.

Life is a journey, and sometimes we need to evict some unwanted guests from our mind to make room for the positives. Ever wondered why some people, even long after they've vacated our lives, continue to occupy precious space in our thoughts? We'll shed light on this intriguing concept, drawing wisdom from Carl Young and personal experiences, and arm you with strategies to liberate your mind and savor the joys of being present.

Switching gears, we venture into the delicate realm of co-parenting and the art of letting go of resentment, likening it to holding onto a hot coal that only burns us. We've all had relationships that didn't last as long as we'd hoped, but every interaction has a profound impact on our journey. We'll guide you through understanding when it's time to let go and how to gracefully embrace the life lessons from relationships that didn't go the distance.

In our bustling lives, finding peace can often seem like an uphill battle. But fret not, we've got you covered! We emphasize the value of daily rituals and self-care, helping you carve out a serene space free from distractions. We also share the concept of 'gray rocking' - a powerful strategy to keep negativity at bay and create a haven for your mental wellbeing. Remember, the best response to negativity could be no response at all. So, are you ready to embark on this journey to evict negativity, embrace positivity, and truly master the art of being present? Step right in, and let's begin!

Imagine hitting the road on a journey with no map or GPS, that's how it can feel navigating menopause and the accompanying hormonal shifts. Join Melanie as she shares her direct experiences with menopause, grief from losing loved ones, and the notable impact of these transitions on her relationships. She's walked this path and comes armed with research, tips, and a heartfelt recount of her journey, offering a roadmap for those traversing the same terrain. 

Our conversation then transitions into the all-too-real challenges that many women encounter during perimenopause and menopause. Melanie unfolds the story of her body's changes, tackling symptoms from weight gain and hot flashes to sleep disturbances and high cholesterol. But it's not all gloom; we celebrate the body and self-care, fostering positivity through reframing our thoughts. We talk about the importance of being loving and accepting of our changing bodies, a vital component in the journey of menopause.

Wrapping up the discussion, we delve into how hormonal changes can stir up the waters in relationships. We're talking authentic communication, the challenges it presents, and unfortunately, the role these hormonal shifts sometimes play in the dissolution of relationships. Melanie also opens up about her personal experience with hormone replacement therapy and how it's made a significant impact on her wellness routine. Whether you're in the throes of menopause, on the cusp, or know someone who is, this insightful discussion offers comfort, guidance, and undoubtedly, a sense of camaraderie.

Ever find yourself at odds over your child's relentless quest for a social media presence? Trust us, we've been there. As my daughter turned 14 and eagerly anticipated her high school years, her demand for a Snapchat account became a hot topic in our home. Join Matt and I as we traverse the digital landscape, sharing personal anecdotes and exploring the complex relationship between children, smartphones, and social media. We differentiate between the device itself and the apps it houses and discuss setting boundaries around their usage.

That's not all. We're also sharing strategies about creating guidelines and expectations for your child's digital presence. We've found contracts can be effective, and requesting passwords can provide a level of transparency beneficial for both parents and children. We also cover internet safety, exploring how to engage your child in a meaningful conversation about their digital sphere. We believe in being mindful of what matters to our kids, taking steps to understand their world, and meeting them there.

Finally, we consider the darker side of the web, the potential dangers of online gaming and social media exploitation. We believe it's essential to equip our children with the necessary awareness and strategies. In a world increasingly driven by algorithms and targeted advertising, we discuss the merits of understanding these technologies before introducing them to our kids.  Join us for this riveting conversation, as we navigate parenting in the digital age together.

Do you ever feel like you are showing your partner how much you love and care about them but it’s not as received as you want it to be? Listen in on this episode as Matt and Melanie discuss the importance of understanding your partner’s love language so you can “speak” to them in a way they will understand. The couple shares their thoughts about the concepts in Dr. Gary Chapman’s book “The five love languages”. 

Learn more after listening and take the online quiz to learn your love language here https://5lovelanguages.com

Intentional time together is crucial to help maintain and reinvigorate your connection with your significant other. In this episode, Matt and Melanie talk about the importance of travel and adventure together. They share the first time they went away together and how it helped to elevate their relationship. Don’t miss the funny story about the family vacation where Melanie’s son makes a comment that reminds the couple they aren’t as quiet as they think they are. If you’re feeling caught up in the mundane routine of life and you’re looking to reconnect with your lover, listen to this episode and get inspired to make your travel plans or even plan a staycation together.

Join Melanie and Matt for their second interview where the couple chats with Melanie’s dear friend Mark Spafford. Mark shares his experience of raising and co-parenting his two boys. The value of getting them involved in team sports and off their devices is discussed. The trio also talks about the struggle of getting kids to clean their rooms and some revelations are made.

Mark dives deep into how he’s worked to recover from the heartbreak of two divorces and the best advice he received from a friend that helped him the most.

Music has been a part of Mark’s life since he was an early teenager, and he shares how Jimi Hendrix inspired him to learn guitar. Playing guitar every day is his therapy. Jamming out, playing gigs, writing, and recording music is how he gets through the journey of life.

Check out Mark and his band The Unknowns at:

https://unknowns3.bandcamp.com

@unknowns.blues on Instagram

In a follow-up to episode 5, Matt & Melanie sit down with Heather, a dear friend of Melanie’s who is currently online dating. Listen to Heather share her online dating experience, how she approaches it and what she’s discovered. Learn about Heather’s flag system that helps her stay true to her intentions as she shifts through a sea of profiles. This is the couple’s first interview, and you’ll want to stay til the end to hear Heather’s advice if you’re out there online dating.