Your attitude shapes how you see the world—and how the world sees you. In this episode, Stan takes a deep dive into 17 clear signs that reveal when your attitude may be out of alignment. Based on insights from Sarah Kristenson's article on HappierHuman.com, we explore how a poor attitude affects every area of life: your relationships, leadership, joy, and spiritual growth.

From carrying grudges and constant comparison to being easily annoyed and always expecting the worst, these warning signs are powerful indicators that it might be time for a mindset check. Stan also shares a Christ-centered perspective on attitude, grounded in Philippians 2:5 and the radical humility of Jesus. This episode isn’t about shame—it’s an invitation to self-awareness and spiritual transformation.

17 Signs You Have a Bad Attitude

17 Signs You Have a Bad Attitude & How to Fix It - Happier Human

1. It’s Your Way or the Highway
2. You Always Compare Yourself to Others
3. You Look Down on Others
4. Everyone Annoys You
5. You Are Always in a Hurry
6. Your Expectations Are Too High
7. You See the World as Black or White
8. You Misinterpret Everything Others Say or Do
9. You Fixate on Conflict
10. You Always Expect the Worst
11. You Carry Grudges You Believe You're Unlikable
12. You Can’t Be Happy for Others
13. You Can’t Let Go
14. People Call You Out on Your Bad Attitude
15. Everyone Is Competition or the Enemy
16. You Demand Respect But Don’t Show It

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When you hear the word success, what comes to mind? Is it wealth, recognition, status, or achievement? In this episode, we explore our often-unquestioned assumptions about success—and challenge them with a fresh, deeper perspective.

Whether it’s the pressure parents feel for their children to “make it,” or the cultural obsession with being “most likely to succeed,” the pursuit of success is everywhere. But is it truly fulfilling? Does it align with your values, or is it just a chasing after the wind?

Drawing from an article by Elizabeth Perry of BetterUp, we walk through 10 time-tested habits of highly successful people—from getting organized to practicing gratitude. We’ll also hear the moving words of Dr. Paul Kalanithi, a neurosurgeon who, when facing terminal cancer, discovered that success is often found not in achievement but in meaning.

In this episode:

• Why the traditional American view of success might be misleading
• 10 practical habits that lead to real, sustainable success
• How organizing your life, prioritizing wisely, and taking care of your health impact your purpose
• The power of community, accepting help, and cultivating gratitude
• A deeper, faith-informed lens on what matters most in the end

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I really succeeding at what matters?”—this episode is for you.

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In this episode, Stan unpacks one of the most fascinating and sometimes misunderstood teachings in Scripture: the Millennium — the 1,000-year reign of Jesus Christ on earth. Drawing from Revelation 20 and various Old and New Testament passages, Stan explores the biblical foundation, different theological views, and the profound implications of Christ’s literal reign on earth.

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