This week on Pour Minds, we got the homies from Crash Dummies on the couch—and it got real. From arguing about whether men and women can really be “just friends,” to who’s actually the prize in a relationship, this one got heated.
Lex and Drea were not letting up, and Pat and Mike brought that wild Midwest energy. We talked dating rules, emotional maturity, and the difference between a vibe and a red flag.
By the end of the episode, somehow we’re all going to a Bucks game and bottles will be involved. Milwaukee, we might be on the way.

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This week on Pour Minds, it’s a solo couch takeover with your girls Lex and Drea—and we’re just being honest. Lex kicks things off with a very bold claim: Fetty Wap is the greatest balladeer of our generation. Yes, she said that with her chest. From there, the chaos unfolds. We debate if Future’s “Honest” counts as a slow jam (Lex thinks it belongs at a wedding), and why the Macarena might be the original TikTok dance.

We also get into modern-day prom madness, erotic hypnosis, and how sex gets deeper when the mind gets involved. Drea explains why she’s never been truly d-matized, while Lex shares how breathwork unlocked a whole new level of pleasure.

Plus, we introduce a new commandment: Thou shalt not wear see-through thongs to dinner. We’re just being honest.

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This week on Pour Minds, it’s a couple’s couch takeover with Devale and Khadeen Ellis—real-life partners, actors, authors, and co-hosts of the "Ellis Ever After" Podcast. We talk about what it really takes to build a relationship that lasts. Khadeen shares how she made the first move at a scholarship banquet (gown and all), and Devale breaks down why a woman buying the first round didn’t scare him—it impressed him. They open up about getting married young, going through broke seasons together, and what it means to really choose your partner for the long haul.

We also get into doing “wifey things” before the ring, knowing the difference between red flags and real work, and why “pick-me” might not be the insult people think it is. Plus, Lex leaves us with a new prayer: “Don Julio, be blessed.”

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