Raising a child with a rare and complex disease is a full-time job… or more.

Constant advocacy.

Almost every interaction regarding the child requires additional effort to bring people or the system up to speed. And this gets piled on top of the normal activity and chaos of life…work, school, the other kid, loss of a family member.

There is help available, but that is just one more task to manage. Applying, interviewing visiting nurses or personal care aids, scheduling, handling unexpected absences, and managing performance. While the extra help is welcomed, it comes at a cost.

On top of this, add frequent admissions to the hospital. Each hospitalization completely disrupts the family, interferes with work, and creates new challenges.

Time management. Fatigue. Relationship tensions.

This burden gets multiplied when dealing with multiple medical systems. These systems do not communicate well with each other. Big Academic Medical Centers may have more capabilities, but often they are too far away to be feasible for emergency care.

Brittany opens up and talks about these challenges and how she and her family manage them. More importantly, she talks about the personal toll this all takes.

Flexibility is critical when talking about raising a child with a rare disease.

It has been a long time friends.

The Raising Rare Team has been dealing with a number of challenges since Season 5 ended. As a result, we have not been able to reconnect and publish an episode until now. We are so glad that you came back!

In our Season 6 Opener, we talk about some of those challenges including frequent hospital visits, mental health, job changes, and other family members. But we also talk about some of the kiddos’ favorite books and the reasons that we love to share our discussions.

And there is a surprise…

Listen all the way to the end and then post a review that includes a comment about how our surprise makes you feel!

Season 5 has been fantastic. We feel so thankful to our guests for sharing their stories.

Which emotion-character from “Inside Out” are you? Sanath and Brittany reveal the characters they relate to the most. Rare parents experience the full range of emotions, sometimes in the period of a single day, and it can get very tiring.

In the season finale, we talk about the need to step away from the grind of advocacy, social media, and all the other commitments we choose to make. We talk about retreating into our cave to discover the next leg of the journey.

We are taking a bit of break too. We plan to be back in early 2025. Until then, please go back and listen to our other seasons. You will be surprised by how many of our previous guests have become well-known names in the rare community.

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As a new parent, you feel like “oh, my gosh, I must be going crazy” or…

…maybe the doctors don’t even understand what is going on.

New parents do not know what to expect. There is a lot of self-doubt and questioning even in the best of circumstances. Parents of kiddos with rare diseases are faced with an added wave of unexpected symptoms and problems with their children. Naturally, they expect that the healthcare system will help them.

But when a young patient keeps showing up with a variety of unexplained symptoms, that very healthcare system starts to struggle. Physicians and other providers are trained to recognize and diagnosis diseases. They are taught that they are experts upon whom patients and families rely. When they don’t have answers, they too can feel vulnerable.

In some instances, those doctors begin to question the parents and their motives. There is even a diagnosis for this, Munchausen By Proxy (MBP). The problem is that the signs of MBP and just being a good parent of a rare child look very much the same.

Donna Sullivan shares about traumatic experiences of those suspected of imagining their kids’ illnesses. Their relentless advocacy was costing them their credibility.

Sadly, this situation is more common than it should be.

Donna is now working on a film called, “Complicated” that raises awareness and addresses this issue.

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We often hear the stories of patients and caregivers.

Rare Patient Voice is well known for connecting family's stories with the researchers who need to hear them. The founder, Wes Michael, sat down with us to share the results of a caregiver survey they conducted in late 2023. The findings were interesting and affirmed much of what parents raising kiddos with rare diseases already know.

So you may ask, "So what?" The importance of this first such survey is that it begins to quantify the range and depth of the impact of rare diseases on families. These data can now be used to make the case for new policy, for the need to provide for these families, and even to explain to outsiders what they are going through.

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In Part 1, we heard about the bold and courageous approach that Ryan Benton's family took to treat his Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy.

After seeing the success of the stem cell therapy, Blake and Ryan Benton felt very deeply that they needed to inform and educate others about this approach. From the grass roots of a local rock concert grew Coming Together for a Cure (CTFAC).

The mission of CTFAC is to make stem cell therapy the standard of care for Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy a wide variety of rare and debilitating diseases. This is a challenging objective. Investigators need to be recruited, scientific evidence needs to be accumulated, and regulatory requirements need to be met. Because of the history of stem cell research in the US, all of these steps need to be done with utmost care and professionalism.

Learn more at CTFAC.org

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We are excited to share a late-breaking announcement from today’s guest. Coming soon: The feature documentary, The Sunshine Dreamer, shares the inspiring story of Ryan Benton's journey battling Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy and becoming the first person with DMD to be treated with stem cell therapy, starting in 2008. Thanks to the therapy, his life expectancy nearly doubled, allowing him to continue his passion as a musician and inspiring thousands of others fighting to overcome their diseases. The film also showcases stories of families across the globe who Blake and Ryan helped to receive stem cell therapy through their nonprofit Coming Together for a Cure. Additionally, you will hear from celebrities and professional athletes who have become advocates for stem cell therapy based on their personal experiences receiving therapy. They believe this film will motivate people about the immense potential of stem cell therapy to become part of the standard of care for those battling rare diseases and beyond. You can watch the trailer at CTFAC.org.

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Blake Benton’s earliest memories were his brother declining due to Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy.

About 10 years later, his parents and brother made a bold move. They went to Costa Rica to get an experimental stem cell therapy. And it worked. Ryan was able to live until he was 37 years old with little degeneration caused by his DMD. He died in 2023 of complications from kidney stones.

Ryan and Blake started a non-profit named after a benefit concert they held – Coming Together for a Cure (CTFAC). The goal of CTFAC is to advocate for more stem cell research in DMD and other diseases. There are many challenges, especially in the US.

We discussed:

1. How his parents raised the boys and their sister

2. The impact of Ryan’s DMD on Blake’s life and outlook

3. The good fortune for Blake’s parents to have grown up with a stem cell researcher who thought this could make a difference for Ryan.

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We are excited to share a late-breaking announcement from today’s guest. Coming soon: The feature documentary, The Sunshine Dreamer, shares the inspiring story of Ryan Benton's journey battling Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy and becoming the first person with DMD to be treated with stem cell therapy, starting in 2008. Thanks to the therapy, his life expectancy nearly doubled, allowing him to continue his passion as a musician and inspiring thousands of others fighting to overcome their diseases. The film also showcases stories of families across the globe who Blake and Ryan helped to receive stem cell therapy through their nonprofit Coming Together for a Cure. Additionally, you will hear from celebrities and professional athletes who have become advocates for stem cell therapy based on their personal experiences receiving therapy. They believe this film will motivate people about the immense potential of stem cell therapy to become part of the standard of care for those battling rare diseases and beyond. You can watch the trailer at CTFAC.org.

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Type 1 Diabetes (T1D) is not considered a rare disease according to the numbers. The T1D community is quite large and includes people of all ages, races, geography, and conditions.

However, many of our guests use the technology developed for T1D patients. In fact, Brittany’s daughter Everleigh relies on the Dexcom G7 to manage her glucose levels. In this episode we speak with Suzanne Hansen, a mother of twins, one of whom was diagnosed with T1D just a few weeks after her second birthday. Suzanne has become part of Brittany’s inner circle of T1D experts. We talk a lot about the tech, but the real story is the power of connecting with others who get what you are going through.

Suzanne is active in her local T1D Facebook group and shares her story regularly on Instagram to help others who are trying to manage their kiddos glucose levels.

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