In this episode, I sit down with the amazing Tara Welling — a former professional runner who raced for Nike and Skechers — to hear her powerful story of grit, growth, and finding joy again in the sport she loves.

Tara takes us back to her first miles in elementary school, through her rise to the professional circuit, and into the realities most people never see — the burnout, the pressure, and the struggles with body image that came with competing at the highest level. She shares how stepping away from the sport allowed her to rebuild a healthier relationship with running, one rooted in balance, joy, and self-respect.

We also talk about what it’s like to run during pregnancy, the transition into motherhood, and how she’s now pouring her experience into coaching. Through her work with RunDoyen, Tara helps runners of all abilities tap into personalized training, the right mindset, and the power of community support.

This conversation will remind you that running is not just about chasing times — it’s about chasing what lights you up inside. Whether you’re chasing a PR or simply trying to fall in love with running again, Tara’s story will leave you inspired to run your own race.

Tara Welling is a former professional runner for Nike and Skechers, a 2x National Champion in the Half Marathon and 15k, and a 4x U.S. Olympic Trials Qualifier (2012 – 10k & 5k track, 2016 – 10k & 5k track, 2020 – marathon, 2024 – marathon).

Now a coach with RunDoyen and a mom of two, Tara combines her elite-level experience with a personalized, supportive approach to help runners of all levels reach their goals — whether that’s chasing a PR, building consistency, or finding joy in the process.

If you want to connect with her, you can find her at the links below!

tara.erdmann11@gmail.com

https://www.rundoyen.com/

https://www.instagram.com/tara_welling/

00:21 Tara's Early Running Journey

02:41 Choosing Running Over Soccer

05:54 College Running Experience

07:11 Body Image and Nutrition in Running

12:20 Training and Motherhood

19:16 Professional Running Career

22:02 Burnout and Rediscovering Joy in Running

26:23 Training with Sketchers

28:57 Finding Joy in Running

29:44 Running During Pregnancy

33:23 Balancing Motherhood and Running

33:42 Olympic Trials Experience

40:34 Coaching Philosophy and Approach

43:41 Personalized Training Plans

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Today we share our recent hiking adventure in Tahoe — and the very real mental battles that came with it. From the moment we started running uphill at high elevation, the physical strain was obvious, but the mental strain was even louder.

We pull back the curtain on our internal monologues — the negative thoughts that crept in, the moments of self-doubt, and the “why are we doing this?” questions — and how we worked through them in real time. One of the biggest takeaways? How powerful it can be to say those thoughts out loud instead of letting them fester. By sharing our struggles with each other, we were able to shift the energy, laugh about the hard parts, and turn a grueling climb into something we genuinely enjoyed.

We talk about the importance of communication, endurance, and mutual support — and how facing hard things together not only builds resilience, but also strengthens our connection. In the end, the challenge wasn’t just about getting to the top of the mountain. It was about proving that we can push through discomfort and still find joy in the journey.

00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Negative Thoughts

01:45 The Tahoe Hike Story Begins

03:51 Planning the Mountain Run

05:11 Starting the Challenging Hike

13:14 Facing the Uphill Battle

21:17 Struggles on the Trail

22:32 Negative Thoughts and Self-Doubt

25:43 Communication Breakthrough

29:58 Enjoying the Journey Together

37:36 Reflecting on the Experience

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In this heartfelt episode, I’m joined by the incredible Sheetal Story — a grief counselor, psychic medium, and expert in human design and astrology — for a powerful conversation on how grief, spirituality, and running intersect in the most meaningful ways.

We dive into how emotions live in the body, and how movement, especially running, can help us process and release what we’re carrying — physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Sheetal shares her own personal journey with loss, healing, and transformation, and offers practical tools and spiritual insights to help us navigate the many layers of grief.

Together, we explore the role of intention, energy, community, and professional support in healing. Whether you’re grieving a loved one, a version of yourself, or simply moving through a hard season, this conversation is an invitation to stay open, grounded, and connected — to your body, your spirit, and the road ahead.

Sheetal Story is a Psychic Medium, Spiritual Grief Support Counselor, and Professional Astrologer with a Master’s in Coaching and a Business Degree from the University of Alberta. She empowers women—from entrepreneurs and professionals to stay-at-home moms—to break through blocks, trust their intuition, and uplevel to the next stage of their lives. Specializing in navigating grief and life transitions, Sheetal combines spiritual insight with grounded expertise to help her clients transform challenges into opportunities for growth, alignment, and joy-filled success.

If you want to connect with her, you can find her at the links below!

storys@shaw.ca
www.sheetalstory.com
http://instagram.com/sheetalstory
https://www.facebook.com/SheetalStoryMedium/
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00:48 Sheetal's Journey and Spiritual Gifts

03:20 Understanding Psychic Mediumship

04:41 Navigating Grief and Spiritual Counseling

07:34 Connecting Spirituality and Religion

12:29 The Physical Manifestation of Emotions

18:10 Healing Through Movement and Intention

29:18 Choosing the Right Therapist

29:38 The Importance of Professional Therapy

31:10 Understanding Grief Beyond Death

33:01 Grief in Life Transitions

36:10 Embracing Body Changes

39:46 Connecting with Your Body

43:18 The Holistic Approach to Healing

51:18 The Power of Community Support

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In this solo episode of the Real Life Runners podcast, Coach Kevin gets real about the role of discomfort in growth—on the run and in life. Sharing takeaways from a tough birthday run and the powerful ideas in The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter, Kevin unpacks how stepping outside our comfort zones can lead to real transformation.

He talks about why chasing big goals matters, how to avoid falling into the “arrival fallacy,” and the difference between pain that builds you up and stress that wears you down. You’ll also hear thoughts on recovery, resilience, and the underrated power of community support.

This episode isn’t just about pushing harder—it’s about choosing challenges that mean something. Kevin closes with a personal call to action: reflect on where you might be holding back, and consider what discomfort you might need to lean into to grow stronger—not just as a runner, but as a person.

00:00 Introduction: Embracing Discomfort

03:05 Pushing Boundaries: Is It Worth It?

05:18 The Arrival Fallacy

08:35 Training and Growth

14:42 Mental Strength and Support Networks

19:19 The Comfort Crisis

22:09 Practical Tips for Embracing Discomfort

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Pushing Through Life’s Challenges: How Running Builds Your Resilience

In this episode of The Real Life Runners Podcast, I’m getting real about feeling overwhelmed — from home repairs to family chaos to just life piling up. Honestly? My first instinct is often to shut down. But that’s not where growth happens.

Today, I’m sharing how running teaches us to keep moving forward, even when life feels heavy. The same skills we use on the run—taking one small step, focusing on the next breath, shifting “I have to” into “I get to”—can help us navigate life’s messier moments too.

I’ll walk you through how I’m leaning into these strategies myself right now, and how you can use them to stay grounded, find your strength, and keep showing up… both on the run and in life.

00:00 Introduction: When Life Feels Overwhelming

01:10 A Messy House and a Heavy Heart

02:34 Pushing Through the Tough Times

05:06 The Power of Gratitude and Reframing

05:55 Running as a Metaphor for Life

08:46 Zooming In and Zooming Out

12:58 Taking the Next Right Step

18:51 Embracing the Journey

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As women runners over 40, we often face a wave of confusing (and sometimes extreme) advice about menopause and fitness — especially on social media. In this episode, we cut through the noise and dive into what really matters when it comes to training during perimenopause and beyond.

We break down the most common menopause myths circulating in the running community and explore the physiological shifts happening in midlife. From hormone changes to training adaptations, we highlight what women truly need to feel strong, empowered, and capable — not just now, but for the long run.

In this episode, we cover:

• The problem with social media extremes & one-size-fits-all advice
• Hormonal changes and their real impact on training and recovery
• Why strength training is non-negotiable in midlife
• The truth about weight gain, metabolism, and cortisol
• How to balance intensity, recovery, and mindset for lifelong performance
• The trend of “cycle syncing” vs. what’s actually helpful for aging runners
• Why personalized training matters more now than ever

Whether you're running through hot flashes or just looking to stay consistent through the transitions of midlife, this episode will leave you informed, empowered, and supported.

02:01 Menopause Myths and Social Media

06:23 Understanding Hormonal Changes

08:07 Training Adaptations for Menopausal Women

12:06 Menopause Myths in Training

14:20 Cycle Specific Training

18:31 Progressive Overload and Recovery

22:42 Training Intensity Debate

27:14 Understanding Exercise Intensity for Aging Bodies

27:47 Weight Gain and Menopause: Myths and Realities

29:08 The Role of Cortisol in Weight Management

34:03 Strength Training: Essential for Midlife

35:11 Balancing Strength and Cardio for Runners

41:03 The Importance of Recovery and Nutrition

45:41 Mindset Shifts for Sustainable Health

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In today’s episode, I’m joined by the incredible Holly Bertone — a former FBI Chief of Staff turned certified holistic health coach — who now helps midlife women break free from emotional eating and step into their power.

Holly shares her deeply personal journey, from leading high-stakes intelligence operations to uncovering the root causes of her own struggles with food. With a unique blend of counterintelligence tactics and brain science, she teaches how to identify emotional triggers, interrupt destructive patterns, and rewire your brain for long-term freedom — all without relying on willpower or restrictive diets.

Together, we dive into the lies we’ve been told by the diet industry, why food feels so emotionally loaded (hello, childhood conditioning and clean plate club!), and how to create lasting change through awareness, forgiveness, and self-compassion.

Holly also walks us through her signature 3-step process — See It, Stop It, Shift It — and shares a powerful tool to help you reclaim your relationship with food.

Whether emotional eating has been a quiet companion or a daily struggle, this episode will help you feel seen, understood, and empowered with tools that truly work.

🎁 PLUS: Don’t miss Holly’s free Emotional Eating Tactical Blueprint — available exclusively to our listeners!

00:13 – Meet Holly: From FBI to holistic health coach
02:00 – Her personal journey and struggles with food
12:57 – Exposing the lies of the diet industry
18:48 – Why we turn to food for comfort
23:56 – Food, emotions, and celebrations
26:18 – The Clean Plate Club and early conditioning
27:08 – Holly’s 3-step process: See It, Stop It, Shift It
36:48 – The power of rewriting your food story
42:23 – How to get Holly’s Emotional Eating Blueprint

Ready to feel more in control and at peace with food? Let’s crack the code together.

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Let’s set the record straight: pain and injury are not just things runners have to live with. In this episode of the Real Life Runners podcast, we’re taking on one of the most damaging myths in the running world — the belief that hurting is normal, expected, or even necessary if you want to improve.

Spoiler alert: it’s not.

Yes, injuries are common — but that doesn’t make them inevitable. And accepting them as “part of the process” only keeps runners stuck in a frustrating cycle of pain, inconsistency, and burnout. We’re here to break that cycle.

We’ll share real-life stories from our own journey and from runners we’ve coached — and we’ll unpack some of the most common injury drivers, including muscle imbalances, overtraining, poor recovery habits, underfueling, and chronic stress.

More importantly, we’ll give you practical tools to run strong and stay healthy:
✅ Why strength training is non-negotiable
✅ How to personalize your plan to fit your life and body
✅ What proper recovery really looks like
✅ Why underfueling is sabotaging your progress (and how to fix it)
✅ How to stop outsourcing your intuition to your watch
✅ And the mindset shift that will help you run for the long haul, not just the next race

Running shouldn’t hurt. And it’s time we stop normalizing it. Whether you’re just starting out or you’ve been running for decades, this episode will challenge how you think about pain, progress, and what’s actually possible for you.

00:43 The Trigger: Challenging Common Narratives

02:02 Understanding Pain vs. Discomfort

04:31 The Harmful Impact of Some Medical Advice

05:32 Rant: Misguided Medical Opinions

08:56 Reframing Pain and Injury in Running

10:38 The Elite Athlete Dilemma

19:22 Consistency Over Intensity

22:45 5 Common Causes of Running Injuries

39:41 5 Ways To Avoid Injuries

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