In this candid and powerful episode, we sit down with Josh Fisher (@jfisher62 and @marriageishappening) to explore the raw realities of marriage, parenthood, and the unexpected challenges that come with trying to build an equitable partnership. Josh opens up about his journey with his wife Jamie—known to many as @LotsOfJamie on TikTok—and the hard truths they discovered about inequality in their relationship.

From navigating the patriarchal norms embedded in marriage to confronting the real cost of prioritizing work over family, Josh shares his personal awakening and how it reshaped his approach to being a husband and father.

Connect with Josh:

https://www.instagram.com/marriageishappening/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@JaimeandJosh


Highlights from this Episode:

💔 The Moment It All Fell Apart: Josh talks about the shocking conversation that changed everything and how hearing, "If we got divorced, I'd be relieved," became the wake-up call he never expected.
👶 The Unexpected Joys of Parenthood: Josh reflects on the chaotic early years of becoming parents during a recession, a cross-country move, and living in a basement. Find out why, despite the struggles, he’d do it all over again.
💡 From Lip Service to Real Change: Discover how Josh transformed from a "Type A perfectionist" who wanted to "fix it all" to a partner who shows up in the messy middle of life, embracing vulnerability and imperfect action.
🛑 Why Men Struggle with Equality in Relationships: Josh dives into the societal norms that kept him blind to inequality and why many men are stuck in outdated roles without even realizing it.
📝 Advice for New Dads and Husbands: Josh shares the one piece of advice he’d give to any father or husband trying to navigate the complexities of modern relationships.

Why You Should Listen:

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the expectations of marriage and parenthood, or questioned how to create a more equitable partnership, this episode is for you. Josh’s story is a raw and honest look at the struggles we all face behind closed doors, and the small shifts that can lead to big changes. Whether you’re a parent, partner, or just curious about what it takes to make a relationship work in today’s world, you won’t want to miss this conversation.

Tune in now for a refreshing take on marriage and parenthood that you didn’t know you needed.

Keywords
inequity, patriarchy, marriage, parenting, community, communication, accountability, empathy, shared responsibilities

Website: https://www.doyouwantthetruthpod.com

Connect with Paige:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/sheisapaigeturner/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sheisapaigeturner

Connect with Sam:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/samanthastrom

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samanthastorms