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  • Explaining Women's Sexual Response

    Explaining Women's Sexual Response
    2024/09/10

    We discuss how a wife's sexual response differs from her husband's, and how she can explain her female sexuality to him.

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    From the Bible

    You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body
    and knit me together in my mother’s womb.
    Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!
    Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it.
    Psalm 139:13–14 (NLT)

    Resources

    • Understanding Your Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • Understanding Her Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • 2019 Webinar Series - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (includes two above + foreplay)
    • 2019-2020 Webinar Bundle - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (all of our current webinars)
    • Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex
    • Man vs. Woman: The Differences - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • “The Female Sexual Response: A Different Model,” Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, Rosemary Basson
    • Rosemary Basson's circular response cycle diagram
    • Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com)
    • Webinars - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com)
    • High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots - Hot, Holy & Humorous

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

    Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
    Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
    Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    28 分
  • Creative Timing (Quickie)

    Creative Timing (Quickie)
    2024/09/04

    This week's quickie is from J Parker about using creative timing to maintain or increase your sexual frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 分
  • Making the Most of Your Five Senses

    Making the Most of Your Five Senses
    2024/08/28
    Let's talk about the five senses—touch, sight, hearing, smell, and taste—and how to make the most of them to increase your sexual interest and enhance your lovemaking experience. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian sex toy & marital aid store. From the Bible For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Psalm 139:13–14 My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely. Song of Songs 2:14 Resources Episode 179: Light Hearts & LingerieIntroduction to Sensate FocusDona Massage Lotion - Married DanceIntimate Organics Energizing Massage Oil - Married DanceFuzu Massage Candle - Married DanceRed Lightbulbs - AmazonEpisode 74: Getting Comfortable with Your BodyEpisode 111: Accepting Your BodyExperience Deeper Intimacy During Sex | The Forgiven Wife (eye contact)Sensual Music Archives • Bonny's Oysterbed7Copulatory Vocalization (aka, Sex Sounds) | The Forgiven WifeScented Aromatherapy Candles - AmazonEpisode 184: The Power of a Shower (Quickie)Bergamot Linen Spray - AmazonLet Me Touch You Scented Massage Oil Gift Set - Married DanceScented Lotion - AmazonUse Scent to Enhance Your Sex Life | The Forgiven WifeEssential Oils for Sex and Intimacy - 5 Things to Know (calmhealthysexy.com)Lip Smacker flavored lip gloss - AmazonFood and Sex | The Forgiven WifeEpisode 34: Food and SexJO H2O Flavored Lubricant - Married Dance Donate to the Ministry by clicking HERE. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    29 分
  • Making Sexual Changes (Quickie)

    Making Sexual Changes (Quickie)
    2024/08/20

    This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about what to remember when making sexual changes. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 分
  • What Is Sexual Betrayal and How Can You Address It?

    What Is Sexual Betrayal and How Can You Address It?
    2024/08/16
    What is sexual betrayal? Have you experienced it? Today, we address the sensitive topic of sexual betrayal with honesty and compassion, relying quite a bit on our in-house expert, Bonny Burns. Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap for sponsoring this episode. Visit sharethesoap.com for quality bath and skin care products! And for August, take advantage of their special just for our listeners. Buy a Neroli Hydrosol Sprayer and get a FREE Anticipation Aromatherapy Roll-On. Put both items in your cart and use coupon code FCWNEROLI. From the Bible "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:28 “For I hate divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” Malachi 2:16 (NASB) I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries. Jeremiah 3:8a John’s disciples came and took his body and buried it. Then they went and told Jesus. When Jesus heard what had happened, he withdrew by boat privately to a solitary place. Matthew 14:12-13a Resources Strong Wives - Bonny's ministryHope for Wives podcast: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal Betrayal Trauma (healthline.com)The Sarah SocietyHope RedefinedA Partner's Dilemma (apsats.org)Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Episode 189: Myth-busting What You’ve Heard about Sex, with Gaye Christmus! - Sex Chat for Christian WivesEmotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature by Peter ScazzeroThe Search For Significance: Seeing Your True Worth Through God's Eyes by Robert McGee Bonny's Heading to Australia & New Zealand! 9/6–9/7 - https://www.crossview.com.au/ 9/14, 9/19 - https://www.prbc.org.au/ 9/17 - https://www.newheartbaptist.com/ 9/20–9/21 - https://genesisgc.com.au/ Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    40 分
  • The Power of Words (Quickie)

    The Power of Words (Quickie)
    2024/08/06

    This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the power of words to foster friendship and overflow into your bedroom. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    3 分
  • Myth-busting What You’ve Heard about Sex, with Gaye Christmus!

    Myth-busting What You’ve Heard about Sex, with Gaye Christmus!
    2024/07/31
    The gang's all together again! Gaye Christmus joins us to talk about myths about sex, where they come from, and what truths wives need to embrace instead. Sponsor Married Dance – a Christian sex toy store From the Bible I slept but my heart was awake. Listen! My beloved is knocking: “Open to me, my sister, my darling, my dove, my flawless one. My head is drenched with dew, my hair with the dampness of the night.” I have taken off my robe— must I put it on again? I have washed my feet— must I soil them again? Song of Songs 5:2–3 My beloved thrust his hand through the latch-opening; my heart began to pound for him. I arose to open for my beloved, and my hands dripped with myrrh, my fingers with flowing myrrh, on the handles of the bolt. I opened for my beloved, but my beloved had left; he was gone. My heart sank at his departure. I looked for him but did not find him. I called him but he did not answer. Song of Songs 5:4–6 For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. Psalm 103:11-12 Then He said, “Go out, and stand on the mountain before the Lord.” And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice. 1 Kings 19:11-12 (NKJV) Resources CalmHealthySexy - Gaye's siteHealthy Life Toolbox - Gaye's other site!Where Purity Culture Got It Wrong, Let's Get It Right - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 118: Sex Is for You TooHow to Read a Marriage Book - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby WadeEpisode 185: Women’s Freedom from Porn, with Juli Slattery & Joy SkarkaEpisode 182: Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie)Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About SexEmbrace a Sexual Growth Mindset - Hot, Holy & HumorousOur Webinars! Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    32 分
  • Practice! (Quickie)

    Practice! (Quickie)
    2024/07/23

    This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor and is specifically for wives who have been sexually reluctant and are ready to work on improving their sexual engagement with their husbands.

    Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 分