Welcome to Episode 429 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Ariel Anderssen, who shares her incredible journey from growing up in a strict religious community to becoming a BDSM model and advocate. We explore the origins of kink, whether it’s something we’re born with or develop over time, along with the role of trust, communication, and appreciation in BDSM relationships.

Ariel opens up about her early fascination with power dynamics, how she discovered the BDSM community, and how modeling helped her embrace her sexuality. We also discuss the impact of growing up in a restrictive religious environment, the misconceptions surrounding BDSM, and why trust and mutual respect are at the core of these dynamics.

Ariel Anderssen is a BDSM model and author with a lifetime's interest in submission and masochism. She released her first book, playing to lose, in 2023, where she charts her journey from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a shame-free, widely recognised BDSM performer. She's currently writing her second book.

In this episode, you will hear:

· How Early Fantasies Can Shape Adult Sexuality

· Nature vs. Nurture: Are We Born Kinky?

· Ariel’s Transition from a Religious Upbringing to the BDSM Scene

· The Role of Trust and Communication in BDSM Dynamics

· How Nude Modeling Helped Ariel Heal Her Relationship with Her Body

· Breaking Free from Shame and Embracing Kink

· Misconceptions About BDSM in Popular Media

· Tips for Dominants to Create a More Fulfilling Experience for Their Partners

· The Importance of Aftercare and Emotional Connection in BDSM

· Where to Find Resources for Exploring Kink Safely

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Welcome to Episode 428 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandria Saunders, who speaks to me about the transformative practice of Yoni massage within Tantra. We explore how this sacred technique can deepen intimacy, heal past trauma, and help individuals reconnect with their bodies in a more profound and holistic way.

In this episode, Dr. Alexandria shares how her journey into Tantra began through yoga and how she seamlessly integrates spiritual and sexual wellness into her work. We discuss the misconceptions surrounding Tantra, emphasizing that it’s more than just sexual positions - it's a philosophy that celebrates the body and pleasure as pathways to deeper awareness.

Dr. Alexandria Saunders is a sexologist, tantra coach, and pleasure activist dedicated to cultivating spaces of safety. With a doctorate in sexology and countless clinical and spiritual trainings and certifications, Alexandria allows her wisdom to guide her toward offering the medicine of her heart, which is to help others heal trauma and reintegrate their sexuality so they can wholly embody pleasure. As a medicine woman, Alexandria walks with people as they discover the depths of bliss hidden behind their scars. Healing trauma, reintegrating sexuality, and embodying pleasure are all guideposts of her work.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Yoni Massage And Its Role In Tantra

· The Connection Between Sexuality, Spirituality, And Healing

· How Trauma And Cultural Conditioning Affect Our Relationship With Pleasure

· Practical Steps To Incorporate Yoni Massage Into Solo And Partnered Practices

· The Importance Of Presence, Breathwork, And Energy Awareness

· How To Navigate Vulnerability And Emotional Releases During The Practice

· Addressing Body Shame And Cultivating Self-Acceptance

· Why Removing Goal-Oriented Thinking Enhances The Experience

· Tips For Givers On Maintaining Presence And Intuition In Touch

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Welcome to Episode 427 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Catherine Auman, a marriage and family therapist with extensive expertise in Tantra. We look into the fascinating world of Tantra and its role in deepening intimacy, exploring how couples can move beyond routine interactions to cultivate more sensual and spiritual connections.

In this episode, Catherine shares her personal journey into Tantra, how she integrates it into couples therapy, and why it’s a transformative tool for fostering intimacy. We discuss the importance of embodiment, the challenge of transitioning from daily responsibilities into a sensual mindset, and practical beginner-friendly meditation techniques.

Catherine Auman, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) is a spiritual psychotherapist and the Director of The Transpersonal Center in Los Angeles, California. She has advanced training in traditional psychology as well as the wisdom traditions. Catherine lived for a year at the Osho ashram in India – a full-time immersion in tantra and meditation – and she has studied and practiced tantra, love, sex, intimacy, and seduction with numerous teachers.

In this episode, you will hear:

● Catherine’s Journey into Tantra and Marriage & Family Therapy

● Understanding Tantra as a Path to Deepened Intimacy

● The Role of Embodiment in Sensual Awareness

● How Modern Culture Disconnects Us from Our Bodies

● Simple Tantric Practices to Bring Consciousness into the Body

● The Importance of Tuning Into Sensations Rather Than Focusing on Orgasm

● Yab-Yum: A Powerful Position for Heart-Centered Connection

● The Concept of Holding Space Without Performance Anxiety

● How Rituals Can Transform Intimate Experiences

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