This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daughter using "boundaries" to cut off relationship, a seventeen-year-old disrupting family game night, or a holiday skipped because of political differences, the heart of this episode is about restoring connection without compromising your values. With wisdom, laughter, and plenty of real talk, Danny and Brittney offer practical tools for loving your people without losing yourself.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The difference between boundaries and punishment in relationships.

• How fear drives disconnection—and how love casts it out.

• Why adult children sometimes distance themselves and how to rebuild trust.

• What to do when siblings in the same home become strangers.

• How to build a culture of respect in your home through shared family values.

Key Takeaways:

• Boundaries keep the door open for reconciliation. Punishment shuts it.

• When a child disconnects, start by asking: “Do I have a mess to clean up?”

• Family time is a culture you create, not an obligation you force.

• Your job isn’t to control your adult kids—it’s to become a trusted friend.

• Clarifying your family values (like a “Family Creed”) helps everyone know what’s expected and what matters most.

Join the Conversation:

Have you ever been on the receiving end of a "boundary" that felt more like rejection? Or maybe you're a parent learning to navigate new dynamics with adult children. We'd love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and tell us how you're learning to keep your love on.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

Whether you’re single, parenting adult children, or recovering from relational pain, this episode is packed with wisdom for staying powerful in the face of disconnection. Recorded live at Eden Church in Newcastle, Washington, Danny and Brittney answer real audience questions about singleness, narcissism, motherhood, boundaries, and healing from toxic relationships. They share stories, scriptures, and practical tools for cultivating healthy identity, confronting manipulation with courage, and protecting connection without enabling dysfunction. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to build strong relationships without losing themselves.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why the KYLO 5 is essential—especially when you’re single.

• How to create joy-filled, life-giving relationships that align with your purpose.

• What real boundaries look like when dealing with manipulative or toxic adult children.

• How to differentiate between your role and God's role in your child's life.

• Why Jesus is the ultimate model of healthy boundaries.

Key Takeaways:

• Singleness isn’t waiting—it's preparation: Cultivating self-love, healthy community, and clear boundaries now sets the stage for healthy connection later.

• Love isn’t enabling: Setting boundaries with someone you love—even your child—isn’t cruelty, it’s wisdom.

• You are not your child’s savior: Your job is to love them, not rescue them. Trust Jesus to be who only He can be.

• Boundaries aren’t rejection: They’re protection—for you, and for the relationship.

• Jesus had perfect boundaries: He never violated another person’s will, even in crisis. He honored self-control and invited ownership.

Join the Conversation:

Have you had to set a hard boundary with someone you love? How did you stay connected without being controlled? We’d love to hear your story. Connect with us online or submit a question at www.thekyloshow.com.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions about feedback, conflict, narcissism, and relational disconnect. Through personal stories and real-life coaching moments, they offer wisdom for navigating relationships where feedback feels impossible and disconnection seems inevitable. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a one-sided relationship or struggled to confront dysfunction in love, this episode will equip you to stay powerful, connected, and courageous.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• What to do when someone resists or shuts down your feedback.

• How to stay calm, clear, and connected when emotions run high.

• Why asking “What did you hear me say?” is a game-changer for clarity.

• The difference between repentance and self-justification in broken trust.

• How to approach accusations of narcissism in a culture that overuses the term.

Key Takeaways:

• Don’t confuse judgment for feedback: True feedback is sharing your experience, not labeling or controlling the other person.

• Safe connection takes time: If someone has never experienced feedback as love, they may need consistent safety before they engage.

• Stay powerful, even when others aren’t: You get to choose self-control, honor, and clarity, regardless of how the other person responds.

• Build trust with repetition: Healing relational dynamics takes practice, courage, and time—not a one-time conversation.

• Repentance isn’t promises—it’s change: When trust is broken, words don’t restore it—consistent changed behavior does.

Join the Conversation:

Have you ever struggled to give feedback to someone who wouldn’t receive it? What helped you stay connected and powerful? Let us know by leaving a review or connecting on socials.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell