In this episode, I’m pulling back the veil on one of the most painful — and illuminating — experiences we can have in love: being entangled with a narcissist.

We’re taught narcissists are just selfish and manipulative, but that’s only the surface. The truth? A narcissist is a wounded child hiding behind a mask of power — and empaths, in their deep sensitivity, often mistake that mask for strength.

This episode is a raw, unfiltered exploration of the empath–narcissist dynamic: why we attract it, how we mistake charm for love, and what it really takes to break free.

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In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most misunderstood truths about love: neediness isn’t weakness — it’s misdirected truth.

For most of my life, I thought having needs made me unlovable. So I hid them, twisted them, performed around them. But every time I chased validation, pulled away to get closer, or fished for love in subtle ways... I wasn’t being needy. I was being unseen — mostly by myself.

This episode is a raw exploration of what happens when we stop apologizing for our emotional needs and start owning them without shame. I unpack how unspoken needs become manipulation, how childhood wounds shape adult relationships, and why expressing what you really want is the most courageous thing you can do in love.

If you’ve ever felt too much for wanting closeness — or not enough when you need space — this conversation will show you the path to intimacy that actually heals.

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In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most seductive lies in the spiritual and dating space: the idea that you need to “be more feminine” or “more masculine” to attract real love.

I used to believe it too. I studied the books, practiced the polarity scripts, tried to become the perfect masculine man. But the more I performed, the emptier I felt. Until I realized: the real reason it wasn’t working wasn’t because I wasn’t doing it right. It’s because I wasn’t being me.

This episode is a raw, unfiltered reflection on how sexual polarity has become another spiritual costume. I share the truth I’ve lived into: that love doesn’t come when we master roles — it comes when we drop them.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to become someone else to be loved... this episode will bring you home to yourself.

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In this episode, I go deeper than I ever have. I finally uncovered the root cause behind why we keep attracting the same partners and repeating the same pain, no matter how much trauma work or therapy we do. It's not just about childhood wounds or inner child stories.

It's about the illusion of identity itself. I share how I broke free from the ego, what it means to become pure awareness, and how realizing "I am nobody" changed everything in love, in life, and in how I see the world.

If you’re tired of chasing healing but still attracting chaos, this is the truth you’ve been waiting for.

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00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Why therapy awareness alone doesn’t heal you
03:34 - The energetic pattern behind failed relationships
06:49 - The ego is the character you believe is real
09:32 - Consciousness is the blank screen behind the story
12:19 - You are not real, only awareness is
13:52 - The ego creates your karma
16:00 - Escaping the matrix means realizing you don’t exist
18:37 - Karma dies when you realize there’s no you
21:04 - What it means to become God
22:20 - Silence is louder than thoughts
23:38 - Becoming divine changes how you treat others
25:14 - Psychedelics show the ego is not real
26:56 - Why depression is just a story
28:25 - The ego can’t survive in the present moment
30:02 - Burn karma by staying in the now
33:07 - Even sparring is a mirror of unity
35:34 - Why empathy is telepathy
36:43 - Give grace a chance
38:35 - The ego is the devil, awareness is the light
40:49 - You are God, when you stop adding stories
46:14 - Final thoughts

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In this episode, I break down why I believe the highest form of love requires sobriety.

I explore how alcohol and drugs don’t just numb pain, they block us from healing the trauma that keeps us separate from love.

I share my own journey through addiction, the illusions it fed, and why real love only became possible when I stopped running from myself.

This is a deep, controversial, and honest reflection on what it means to be fully available for love, with nothing to hide behind.

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00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Why the highest love demands sobriety
03:26 - Alcohol as the silent killer of relationships
05:13 - What love really is: unity, not a feeling
07:16 - Mental stories that separate us from love
08:38 - My abandonment trauma & anxious thinking
12:22 - Karma is just recycled thinking
13:52 - How to find peace from the mind
15:13 - Addiction is spiritual avoidance
16:23 - My years of drug-fueled identity
20:48 - What makes a man truly safe in love
24:38 - Suppressed trauma becomes abuse
27:29 - You can’t unify while numbing
30:29 - Why alcohol is a portal for darkness
33:17 - Spiritual possession & blackout behavior
36:22 - Our culture is possessed too
37:40 - The illusion of “harmless” weed
40:03 - If you take Adderall, you're a crackhead
42:06 - Psychedelics won't get you to heaven
46:58 - Why sober couples grow faster
56:36 - Final thoughts

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In this episode, I share what I’ve learned since entering deep partnership with my soulmate. I no longer believe love is just a feeling, it’s a consciousness. A force that unifies.

I explore how conflict, judgment, and the need to be right create separation, and why real love lives in our willingness to understand rather than control.

This is the most honest I’ve ever been about what it means to truly love and be loved. It’s also the first time I’ve had to face how often my own mind gets in the way of the love I say I want.

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00:00 - Intro

01:19 - I found the love I always dreamed of

03:33 - Love is not a feeling, it’s a consciousness

06:04 - Why arguing means separation, not love

08:14 - What is the consciousness of love?

10:10 - Right and wrong are the enemy of unity

11:41 - Feelings are facts: perception vs truth

13:02 - The true test is how fast you repair

15:00 - The golf cart fight in Hawaii

19:15 - Conscious space versus separation

23:48 - Unify before the next argument begins

25:50 - The heart accepts, the mind fixes

30:36 - The mind invents problems out of peace

32:11 - Surrendering the mind’s addiction to control

34:17 - You can’t change your partner

34:40 - Judgment separates, understanding unites

37:18 - What is vampire consciousness?

40:14 - Fearful thoughts are the vampire’s invitation

43:23 - Cast out darkness with devotion to love

48:57 - The heart loves, the mind suffers

50:59 - Final thoughts

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Have you been told to “stop looking for love and it’ll find you”?

In this episode of The New Age Sage, I tear apart one of the most misleading pieces of dating advice out there — and show you the truth about what it really takes to call in the highest form of love.

From clearing out low-frequency habits to detoxing your friend circle and healing unconscious patterns, I break down the spiritual and practical work required to attract a partner who actually matches your vision.

If you’re done waiting around and ready to become the version of yourself your dream partner is already searching for, this episode is your wake-up call.

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00:00 - Intro

03:08 - Becoming the frequency of your highest love

06:07 - You can’t manifest without action

08:19 - Your North Star and the law of frequency

12:42 - Decluttering to attract the right partner

14:20 - How your friends affect your frequency

21:22 - Health and wellness as a love frequency

25:56 - Alcohol, the demonic, and spiritual hijacking

32:21 - Three realizations before meeting your soulmate

33:38 - Going back to an ex resets your healing

37:43 - Sex as an energy exchange and energetic possession

43:32 - Say no to anyone who doesn’t match your dream partner

45:33 - You must become the person you want to attract

49:05 - How real self-worth is built

52:05 - Final thoughts

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Are you calling it love… but deep down, you know you’re settling?

In this episode of The New Age Sage, I break down the unconscious fears, wounds, and conditioning that keep powerful women stuck in relationships that drain their light. From the terror of being alone to the belief that “he’s good enough,” these hidden patterns convince you to stay — even when your soul knows it’s time to go.

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, a situationship, or just questioning your standards… this episode will help you get radically honest with yourself, recognize the truth of your dynamic, and finally choose a love that matches your power.

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00:00 - Intro

01:02 - Why women settle for less than they deserve

03:10 - Cozy complacency versus true love

06:38 - What settling actually means

08:10 - Being with someone who dims your light

10:34 - When one partner grows and the other stays the same

14:42 - The trap of loyalty to the past version of someone

19:01 - Enough is enough: stop justifying mediocre love

22:10 - Why settling is never worth it

23:51 - My grandmother’s brave story of leaving after 55 years

28:15 - Leaving can transform your entire life

30:23 - Settling means saying no to your highest love

32:15 - My partner found me because she refused to settle

33:07 - How to find the courage to leave

35:21 - You are strong enough to be alone

38:48 - Society’s guilt trap around divorce and breakups

41:04 - He gave up on you first

43:23 - In love, you attract what you are

44:08 - Don’t settle for a love you wouldn’t want for your kids

45:19 - Final thoughts

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