In today’s episode, we dive into a rarely discussed truth: even in healthy, peaceful relationships, many men feel a silent pressure.

Not because the relationship is bad. But because it’s good.

When things are calm, loving, and wholesome, the discomfort doesn’t always disappear—instead, it gets louder. Why? Because peace requires presence. Stability demands emotional leadership. A wholesome relationship doesn’t relieve responsibility; it reveals it.

Many men were never taught how to sit with peace. They’re used to reacting to chaos, fixing problems, or staying emotionally distant. So when a woman offers softness, stability, and safety… it can feel unfamiliar—even threatening.

Suddenly, there's no drama to blame. No excuses to hide behind. Just the raw, vulnerable truth: “If this relationship fails, it might be on me.”

That’s the hidden weight.
The emotional responsibility.
The role of spiritual and relational leadership that society expects men to carry—but rarely explains how.

In this episode, we unpack:

• Why healthy relationships can feel harder than toxic ones

• How inner healing affects relational peace

• What it really means for a man to "carry the vision"

• And why peace is not passive—it’s powered by responsibility

This one might sting—but it’s also a roadmap for better love.

Welcome to the deep end—where adulting hits hard and the ocean isn't full of fish… it's full of sharks and freaks. In this raw episode, I unpack the brutal truth about financial survival when you're broke, jobless, and out of clients.

We dive into the rising pressure of bills, the mental weight of expectations, and the real fear of staying stuck. But it’s not all gloom—I also show you a life raft: AI job agents. Learn how to use them to automate job applications, boost your chances, and stay in the game.

If you’re feeling lost in the adulting mess, this episode is your compass.

After nearly a year off the mic, we're back—and what a year it’s been. From CBEX, the crypto scam that left thousands burned, to Shenseea’s no-show concert that had fans fuming, to mass protests that turned into mayhem, 2024 was anything but quiet in Kenya.We talk: The rise and fall of CBEX—was it ever legit? The Shenseea saga—why she never hit the stage in Nairobi The death of the Pope and global ripple effects Protesters breaking into Parliament—what led to this unprecedented moment?Plus, I share what I’ve been up to during the break, what made me hit "record" again, and what you can expect this season. If you thought things were wild, this recap will blow your mind.

The ultimate podcast where no topic is off-limits and the conversations are as real as they get. Hosted by the dynamic Sagebeme, this show features an incredible lineup of 10 guys who aren't afraid to speak their minds.

In each episode, Sagebeme and his diverse crew dive deep into the hottest topics in modern relationships. From the intricate debates over sexual body count to the nerve-wracking art of approaching girls, these guys cover it all with unfiltered honesty and a healthy dose of humor.

Expect electrifying debates, jaw-dropping stories, and practical advice straight from the heart. Whether you're navigating the wild world of dating, curious about social norms, or just craving some raw male perspectives, Bold Moves & Real Talk is your go-to source.

With guest experts, hilarious anecdotes, and plenty of eye-opening insights, we guarantee you'll be hooked from the first listen. So, tune in, grab your favorite drink, and get ready for bold moves and real talk like you've never heard before.

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Well I don't know how we got to talking about going out to drink but well that's what we have on the table enjoy

Well this week we've been talking bout men's grooming but yet again we went a little bit in depth and we just couldn't stop till I told them we don't have the time.

People got really angry because they had so much to say we didn't talk much but we did enough.

Delve into the complexities of navigating a female-empowered community as a man in this thought-provoking podcast episode. Join us as we explore the shifting dynamics, challenges, and opportunities faced by men in today's society. From understanding gender roles to fostering inclusivity and mutual respect, we tackle tough questions and share practical insights for men striving to thrive in an evolving cultural landscape. Whether you're seeking guidance, validation, or simply a deeper understanding, tune in as we unpack strategies for men to embrace empowerment, build meaningful connections, and contribute positively to a diverse and inclusive community

In this crucial episode of Sagebeme Podcast, we address a pressing concern that has been haunting our society — the alarming rise in cases of femicide. The safety of women is not just a women's issue; it's a societal concern that demands urgent attention. We understand that not every woman may be fully aware or engaged in the gravity of this situation, and that's why this episode is dedicated to reaching out to those who might not have tuned in yet. Join us in a heartfelt conversation as we shed light on the unsettling reality of femicide and its impact on our communities. We aim to bridge the gap and connect with those women who may not be fully aware of the risks they face daily. Our message is clear: every woman deserves to feel safe, and we want to empower you to prioritize your own safety. In this episode, we discuss practical tips, share personal stories, and provide resources to help women take proactive steps towards ensuring their safety. It's not about spreading fear but rather fostering awareness and empowering women to make informed decisions about their well-being. We invite you to be a part of this important dialogue. Share this episode with the women in your life, and let's collectively work towards creating a safer world for everyone. Remember, your safety matters, and together, we can make a difference.