You’ve been thinking about it.
You’re hurt.
You’re about to have “the talk” with your wife:

“We never have sex anymore.”
“Why don’t you initiate?”
“I feel unwanted.”

Sound familiar?

This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast explains why those talks often backfire — and how chasing, begging, and emotional pressure actually drive intimacy away.

This isn’t about blaming you. It’s about helping you lead.

In this episode, we walk through The Secure Husband Process — a six-step plan to:

✔ Stop the pressure and emotional chasing
✔ Understand why the need for sex runs deeper than desire
✔ Meet the part of you that feels unworthy and start healing it
✔ Lead yourself with calm, grounded strength
✔ Rebuild connection without shame or guilt
✔ Invite intimacy from a secure place, not desperation

You don’t need to beg for love.
You don’t need to perform for attention.
You need to start leading yourself — spiritually, emotionally, and physically.

When you stop chasing and start healing, the energy in your marriage begins to change.

👇 Watch or listen now. This might be the breakthrough you didn’t know you needed.

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If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

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For informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.

If your wife says she’s done… but hasn’t left yet — this episode is for you.
Maybe she’s checked out. She’s cold, distant, and barely speaks to you.
She says things like:
“I’m tired.”
“I don’t think this is working.”
“I don’t feel anything anymore.”

You know you pushed her away — maybe through distance, control, neglect, or emotional chaos.
And now you want to fix it… but she’s already almost gone.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, you’ll get a clear step-by-step plan for what to do right now — not to beg, blame, or chase… but to start leading yourself with strength, truth, and calm presence.

We walk through The Secure Husband Process — a six-step framework to:

Stop doing what’s making it worse

Take full ownership without falling apart

Find peace and clarity through your spiritual anchor

Heal the pain that caused the damage in the first place

Take daily action to rebuild trust through presence, not pressure

Stay strong and grounded even if she stays cold

This is the emergency plan for men who’ve waited too long.
It’s not about perfect words. It’s about real change.

👇 Listen now if your marriage feels like it’s hanging by a thread — and you’re ready to stop reacting and start rising.

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💬 Join the conversation and subscribe for weekly guidance
📤 Share this with a man who’s ready to lead again

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

#deadbedroom #marriage
#sexlessmarriage
#MarriageHelp
#SaveYourMarriage
#SecureHusband
#MarriageAdvice
#RelationshipHealing
#SelfWorth
#InnerChildHealing
#MensMentalHealth
#SelfLoveJourney
#EmotionalHealing
#OvercomeRejection
#HealthyMasculinity
#MarriageCoaching
#StopPeoplePleasing
#SelfGrowth

For informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.

If your wife hasn’t initiated sex in years, you’re not alone — and you’re not broken.
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we tackle one of the hardest and most painful topics in marriage: feeling unwanted and unseen in the bedroom.

You’ve been patient. You’ve tried to be loving. You’ve done your best.
But nothing has changed. And now you feel rejected, angry, and confused.

This episode will show you what to do next — not by blaming your wife or giving up, but by healing the deeper pain inside you and leading yourself forward.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

Why sexless marriage hurts so much

How this taps into childhood rejection and shame

Why begging, blaming, or shutting down won’t fix it

How to lead yourself emotionally and spiritually

How to express your truth without pressure or demand

How to build a full, powerful life even when sex feels absent

This episode walks through The Secure Husband Process — a six-step framework to stop reacting and start leading, even in the hardest seasons of marriage.

👇 If you’ve felt invisible, unchosen, or emotionally drained — listen now.
Freedom starts here.

📌 Get coaching and resources at SecureHusband.com
🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes
📤 Share this with a man who feels alone in his marriage

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

#deadbedroom #marriage
#sexlessmarriage
#MarriageHelp
#SaveYourMarriage
#SecureHusband
#MarriageAdvice
#RelationshipHealing
#SelfWorth
#InnerChildHealing
#MensMentalHealth
#SelfLoveJourney
#EmotionalHealing
#OvercomeRejection
#HealthyMasculinity
#MarriageCoaching
#StopPeoplePleasing
#SelfGrowth

For informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.