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  • Healing Codependency: Finding Safety Beyond the Drama Triangle with Kitty Chambliss
    2025/02/20

    Key takeaways:

    • The Drama Triangle highlights common toxic roles in relationships—Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer—that often stem from early life experiences and lead to conflict, blame, and resentment.
    • Recognizing when you’re playing one of these roles is the first step in breaking free from unhealthy relationship cycles.
    • Codependency often manifests in the Rescuer role, where individuals overextend themselves to fix others, leading to emotional exhaustion and stunted personal growth.
    • The Observer Triangle offers a transformative approach:
      • Victim → Observer: Fosters self-awareness and mindfulness.
      • Persecutor → Asserter: Promotes healthy boundaries and respectful communication.
      • Rescuer → Nurturer: Provides support without enabling or sacrificing self-care.
    • Establishing clear, respectful boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy relationships and prioritizing self-care.
    • Practical tools like the HALT method (checking if you are Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired) help regulate emotions and shift interactions from drama to empowerment

    Connect with Kitty Chambliss:
    Visit her website
    Follow her on Instagram
    Article by Lynne Forrest: The Three Faces of Victim – An Overview of the Victim Triangle




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    Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram

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    47 分
  • Healing After Heartbreak: How to Date Yourself to Get Over Your Ex with Emmi Fortin
    2025/02/13

    Key Takeaways:

    • Healing begins by restoring your connection to yourself—emotionally, mentally, and physically. Movement, mindfulness, and reflection are key components.
    • Monitoring your inner dialogue can create profound shifts. Transform self-criticism into supportive and kind thoughts to foster growth.
    • While journaling helps process emotions, combining it with action-oriented exercises leads to deeper transformation.
    • Reflect on past relationship patterns rooted in childhood and how they might be influencing your current dating or relationship behaviors.
    • Rebuild self-worth by intentionally spending time alone through solo adventures, small self-care activities, or even larger journeys.
    • Identify core values, essential qualities, and the feelings you want to consistently experience within a healthy relationship.
    • Move from a mindset of helplessness to one of empowerment by understanding how you can actively influence and shape your life.

    Learn more about Emmi Fortin:

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/emmifortin/
    Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/emmifortin/
    Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@emmifortin

    EPISODE LINKS

    Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram

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    53 分
  • Understanding Highly Sensitive People and Harnessing Their Unique Strengths with Michelle Oravitz
    2025/02/06
    Key Takeaways:
    • Learn about the biological and neurological differences that define highly sensitive people, and how this evolutionary trait exists across species.
    • Understand the overlap between high sensitivity, empathy, and introversion, and why highly sensitive individuals are often more likely to become empaths.
    • How your surroundings, including noise, lighting, and energy from others, can either overwhelm or support your highly sensitive nervous system.
    • Why boundaries are essential and how highly sensitive people can set them without guilt.
    • Explore sound therapy, grounding techniques, and acupuncture as tools to regulate your nervous system and unlock your full potential.
    • How to channel your sensitivity into creative pursuits, deep connections, and self-compassion.
    • When empathy turns into exhaustion and what to do about it.


    Connect with Michelle Oravitz:
    Website: MichelleOravitz.com
    Instagram: @thewholesomelotusfertility
    Podcast: The Wholesome Fertility Podcast

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    Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram

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    47 分
  • How to Soothe Your Nervous System the Polyvagal Way with Michael Allison
    2025/01/30

    Key takeaways:

    • Trauma is not about the event itself but the body’s reaction and its inability to recover, which can lock the nervous system into states of dis-ease.
    • Effective leadership stems from fostering trust and safety, whether in parenting, coaching, or workplace settings.
    • Small practices, like scanning your environment for safety cues, can regulate your nervous system and bring a sense of grounding.
    • High achievers thrive when they operate in a safe physiological state, where effort meets ease and challenges become opportunities.
    • Recognizing how your body feels moment-to-moment helps in understanding triggers and developing resilience.


    Connect with Michael on LinkedIn
    Check Michael's website - The Play Zone
    Learn with Polyvagal Institute

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    Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram

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    52 分
  • Music as Medicine: Healing Anxiety, Trauma, and Empowering Yourself Through Sound with DPAK
    2025/01/23

    Key takeaways:

    • Music has a unique ability to mimic the effects of meditation, calming the mind, reducing cortisol, and lowering heart rate.
    • Specific frequencies, like 432 Hz and 528 Hz, have measurable physiological benefits, including stress reduction and emotional regulation.
    • Chanting, practiced across cultures, creates a connection to gratitude, spirituality, and communal healing, even for non-musicians.
    • Surrounding yourself with healing frequencies or personal "feel-good" songs can shift your mood, create a peaceful environment, and promote relaxation.
    • Music can unify communities, transcending cultural and political divides. It is a powerful tool for fostering connection and uplifting collective energy.

    Connect with DPAK on Instagram
    Listen to Together We Rise

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    Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram

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    57 分
  • From Overwhelm to Empowerment: Navigating Mom Guilt and Mental Wellness with Karla Bradley and Chelsea Rizzo
    2025/01/16

    Key Takeaways:

    • Karla and Chelsea share how they met online and created a supportive community for moms, fostering connection and collaboration despite never having met in person.
    • They discuss the importance of giving yourself grace and celebrating small wins, reshaping the narrative around mom guilt to focus on doing your best each day.
    • They explain how time blocking and intentional scheduling help structure their day for maximum productivity while staying fully present with their families.
    • They emphasize the value of independent play for children, highlighting how fostering quiet time nurtures imagination and alleviates the pressure on moms to constantly entertain.
    • They highlight the power of partnership, showing how honest communication and teamwork in both business and parenting can lead to greater success and support.

    Connect with Karla and Chelsea:

    Abundant Management: Website | Instagram

    Abundant Academy Virtual Summit: Join Here

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    Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram

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    50 分
  • Put Insomnia to Bed and Finally Get the Sleep You Need with Joseph Pannell
    2025/01/09

    Key takeaways:

    • Understanding insomnia beyond poor sleep: Insomnia isn’t just about sleeping less—it impacts every aspect of your life, from your mood to your ability to function.
    • Why more time in bed doesn’t equal better sleep: Trying harder to sleep and spending excessive time in bed can disrupt your body clock and make sleep quality worse.
    • The power of sleep drive and body clock: Discover how aligning with your body’s natural sleep drive and rhythms can lead to consistent, restful sleep.
    • Breaking free from obsessive rituals: Sleep supplements, strict routines, and control-based habits often increase anxiety and worsen insomnia.
    • Rebuilding your relationship with rest: Focus on creating an enjoyable, relaxing wind-down routine instead of forcing yourself into rigid sleep practices.
    • Compassionate CBTI approach: A softer, more flexible approach to CBTI can be especially beneficial for highly sensitive individuals and those with neurodivergence.
    • Why good sleep isn’t perfect sleep: Sleep is inherently imperfect—accepting this imperfection can reduce sleep anxiety and improve rest.
    • Addressing shift work and irregular schedules: Learn effective strategies for adjusting your sleep routine if you work night shifts or irregular hours.

    Learn more about Joseph Pannell:

    • YouTube: Insomnia Talks
    • Website: SleepZee

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    Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram

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    54 分
  • New Year, True You: Crafting Resolutions for Yourself and No one else with Stacey Simmons
    2025/01/02
    Key Takeaways:
    • Resolutions should reflect your true self. Before committing to a goal, ask: Is this for me, or for someone else?
    • The Queen’s Path reframes empowerment. Women’s journey isn’t about being a hero but claiming sovereignty over their lives.
    • Motivation is fleeting; discipline sustains. Don’t rely on dopamine highs—focus on purposeful discipline for lasting change.
    • External validation can derail your goals. Be mindful of whose input you seek and ensure it aligns with your values.
    • Highly sensitive people are prone to external influences. Taking time to reflect helps distinguish your own desires from others’.
    • Break down large goals into smaller steps. Starting early and easing into resolutions makes sustaining them more achievable.
    • Sharing isn’t submission. Sharing your goals can invite connection and support without needing external approval.
    • Your journey, your timeline. Whether it’s writing a book or mastering a skill, find what truly brings you fulfillment.

    Connect with Dr. Stacey Simmons
    Visit her website here
    Follow her on Instagram

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    Dr. Amelia Kelley: About | Dr. Kelley's Books | Instagram

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    42 分