The Steven Rockwood Show: A Conversation with Robert Haines

Welcome back to the Steven Rockwood Show! Today, I had the pleasure of speaking with Robert Haines, a life coach from Engineering Your Life. We dove deep into his journey from engineering to coaching, touching on personal growth, vulnerability, and the importance of community. Here’s a recap of our insightful conversation.

A Life of Engineering and Coaching

Robert spent 37 years as an engineer, primarily in mechanical engineering and project management. His love for engineering began in childhood, where he enjoyed building and designing things. However, after years of working in product development and management, Robert discovered his passion for helping people. He decided to retire in January 2024 to pursue life coaching full-time.

Robert: "I realized how much relating to people and helping them really mattered to me."

The Transition from Engineer to Coach

After leaving his engineering career, Robert founded Engineering Your Life, aiming to empower individuals through coaching. He focuses on creativity and innovation, helping clients navigate their personal and professional lives. His deep interest in spirituality also informs his coaching philosophy, as he believes in aligning oneself with a greater purpose.

Robert: "The calling to help people was too strong."

The Power of Vulnerability

Our conversation highlighted the importance of vulnerability in personal growth. Robert shared how he learned to embrace his true self, moving beyond the fear of judgment. He encourages others to do the same, as authenticity fosters genuine connections.

Robert: "Be you at your core. If someone doesn't like you at your core, do you really care about them?"

This message resonated with me, as I believe that being true to oneself creates a supportive community where individuals can thrive together.

Building a Community of Kindness

We also discussed the significance of community in both our professional lives. I shared how I aim to create a “Community of Kindness” on platforms like LinkedIn. By connecting like-minded individuals, we can support one another and foster meaningful relationships.

Robert: "You don't need everybody. You just need the right people."

This sentiment rings true in both our experiences on social media. By being authentic and engaging with others, we attract those who resonate with our values.

Advice for Overcoming Social Media Anxiety

For those hesitant to post on LinkedIn or other platforms, Robert offered this advice:

1. Be Authentic: Share your true self and what matters to you.
2. Focus on Connection: Tag friends or colleagues to encourage engagement.
3. Let Go of Outcomes: Understand that reactions may vary; what's important is sharing your voice.

Robert: "If you touch one person's life, it's worth it."

Conclusion

As we wrapped up our conversation, I felt inspired by Robert's journey and insights. His transition from engineering to life coaching exemplifies the power of following one's passion and being open to change. For anyone looking to connect with Robert or learn more about his work, you can find him on LinkedIn or through his email at robert.haines@engineeringyourlife.net.

Thank you for tuning in to this episode of the Steven Rockwood Show! Join us next week for more!