Thinking about having kids? In this brutally honest episode, new mom Elizabeth Teo shares her unfiltered birth experience and the shocking statistics about postpartum depression that might surprise you. From unexpected emergency C-section to the painful recovery reality, this is the birth story preparation you won't find in parenting books.

What You'll Learn:

• Shocking postpartum depression statistics (rates increased 105% from 2010-2021)
• Real talk about emergency C-section experience and recovery
• Why 50% of partners also develop depression when their partner has postpartum depression
• The truth about contractions that social media doesn't show
• C-section recovery timeline and what to expect
• Why seeing a physiotherapist after birth is crucial
• Honest insights into the decision of whether to have children

Perfect for: Expecting parents, couples considering kids, new moms feeling alone, anyone wanting honest parenting perspectives

Elizabeth gets real about the physical and emotional challenges of new motherhood while sharing the joy and fulfillment that comes with it. This is part one of a deep dive series exploring the realities of having children in today's world.

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Welcome back to the Thoughtful Advocate Podcast! This episode is for anyone building something meaningful - whether it's a business, creative project, or a better version of yourself.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why our brains spend 47% of time "mind wandering" and how it affects builders
• The science behind menstrual cycles and energy levels (and why rest isn't lazy)
• How to navigate "the valley of despair" when building something new
• Why feeling like "nothing's happening" is actually when the most important work occurs
• The neuroscience of rest and how your brain does its best work during downtime
• Real examples from Oprah Winfrey and Elizabeth Gilbert who trusted the process

Key takeaways for builders and creators:

• Your body is your greatest business partner - learn to listen to its signals
• Seeds grow roots underground before sprouting - your "invisible work" matters
• Rest isn't the opposite of productivity; it's where productivity gets recharged
• Focus on who you're becoming, not just what you're achieving

Perfect for entrepreneurs, creators, and anyone in the "messy middle" of building something that matters. Learn to trust the process, embrace rest, and stay present while pursuing your dreams.

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In this powerful and deeply personal episode of The Thoughtful Advocate, host Elizabeth Teo explores the complex experience of being alone both by choice and by circumstance and what science reveals about loneliness, friendship, and connection. Drawing from her own childhood memories of being isolated at home while others enjoyed pool parties and sleepovers, Elizabeth shares how video games and imagination became her lifeline to adventure and connection.

She discusses fascinating research on how loneliness activates the same areas of the brain as physical pain and why chronic loneliness can be as damaging to health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Elizabeth also dives into the difference between harmful isolation and restorative solitude, explaining how chosen alone time can actually boost creativity, self-awareness, and emotional resilience.

Throughout the episode, Elizabeth reflects on the challenges of making friends as an adult, the hidden barriers we build after being hurt, and why meaningful connections take time, energy, and courage to form. You’ll hear insights from experts like Dr. Julianne Holt-Lunstad, Dr. Sherry Turkle, and UCLA studies on the neuroscience of loneliness, as well as practical encouragement on putting yourself out there whether that means saying hello to a neighbor, attending a community event, or trying a friendship app.

If you’ve ever felt alone, longed for deeper connections, or struggled to balance solitude and social life, this episode offers hope, science-backed guidance, and a reminder that you’re never truly alone. Share this with someone who might need it, and subscribe for more thoughtful conversations about healing, connection, and personal growth.

In this raw and vulnerable episode of The Thoughtful Advocate, host Elizabeth Teo shares her deeply personal story of how growing up in an abusive household created trauma-based perfectionism that followed her into adulthood.

Elizabeth opens up about the harsh realities of her Chinese immigrant household where perfection wasn't just expected, it was demanded for survival. From being hit with chopsticks for wrong math answers to witnessing traumatic family violence, she reveals how these experiences shaped her into a hyper-vigilant perfectionist who became valedictorian but still felt empty inside.

This isn't your typical productivity-focused perfectionism discussion. This is about the kind of perfectionism that comes from trauma, when being "perfect" feels like the only way to stay safe.

You'll learn:

• How childhood trauma creates perfectionist survival strategies
• Why Asian kids are statistically more prone to perfectionism
• The connection between perfectionism, shame, and emotional suppression
• How academic success can mask deep emotional wounds
• Practical steps to heal from trauma-based perfectionism
• Why vulnerability and imperfection are actually signs of strength

If you've ever felt like you had to hide parts of yourself to feel accepted or safe, this episode will help you understand that you're not alone, you're not broken, and your perfectionism made sense as a survival strategy.

Perfect for listeners interested in trauma healing, perfectionism recovery, Asian family dynamics, mental health, and personal growth.

In this raw and vulnerable episode, Elizabeth shares her deeply personal journey of cutting contact with her abusive father and the profound impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships. As someone who grew up as a people-pleaser in an immigrant household, she explores the painful but necessary process of choosing your own healing over family expectations.

Elizabeth opens up about the decision to not invite her father to her wedding, the lasting effects of verbal abuse, and how childhood trauma shapes our internal narrative. She discusses the science behind early childhood development and how repeated negative messages become internalized as core beliefs.

This episode dives deep into:

• The courage it takes to go no-contact with toxic family members
• How trauma follows us even after leaving abusive environments
• The difference between physical safety and mental safety
• Learning to set boundaries as an adult when you never had them as a child
• Dealing with family pressure and guilt when enforcing boundaries
• The ripple effects of changing family dynamics
• Choosing peace over people-pleasing

If you've ever felt torn between your own healing and family obligations, struggled with setting boundaries, or are working through childhood trauma, this episode offers hope, validation, and practical insights for your journey.

In this deeply personal episode of The Thoughtful Advocate, host Elizabeth Teo shares the raw and emotional story of the summer she almost didn’t survive. For the first time, she opens up on camera about her struggle with depression, emotional suppression growing up in a Chinese immigrant household, and her experience with suicidal ideation in the summer after high school.

Elizabeth candidly discusses the cultural stigma around mental health in Asian communities, the pressure to be emotionally silent, and the lasting effects of intergenerational trauma. She also highlights her second chance at life, the brave decision her mother made to leave a toxic marriage, and how asking for help began her healing journey.

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains sensitive topics including suicide, depression, and family trauma. If you're not in a space to hear this right now, please take care of yourself and return when you're ready. You’re not alone.

🎧 Topics covered:

• Emotional repression in Asian households

• Surviving suicidal thoughts and depression

• First-generation immigrant family dynamics

• The moment everything came crashing down

• Healing through storytelling, community, and therapy

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In this deeply personal episode, Elizabeth opens up about a part of her life she’s never shared publicly—her experience with emotional and physical abuse as a child. From road trips filled with fear to hurtful words that left lasting scars, she shares what it was like growing up in a household where silence protected shame.

But this isn’t just a story about pain—it's about healing, generational cycles, and reclaiming power.

Elizabeth speaks directly to her inner child—and to yours—reminding us that the cycle ends with us.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, unloved, or unsafe in your own home, this episode is for you.

💛 Trigger Warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional and physical abuse. Please take care while listening.

🎧 Episode Description: Welcome back to The Thoughtful Advocate! I’m your host, Elizabeth Teo, and today we’re diving into how tourism can actually help protect our planet when done right.

In this episode, I’m highlighting a hidden gem on Mexico’s Pacific Coast called Huatulco—a breathtaking destination with nine bays, 36 beaches, and some of the cleanest water in the world. 🌊 What makes it truly special? Huatulco is one of the few destinations globally certified with EarthCheck Platinum—the gold standard in sustainable tourism.

🏝 70% of Huatulco is a protected ecological reserve. ⚡️ The town runs 100% on clean energy. 💧 85% of its water is recycled. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Local businesses thrive—from snorkeling guides to family-owned restaurants and traditional artisans. 🕊 700+ bird species live in Huatulco National Park.

Plus, I share travel tips for visiting consciously, how to support local communities, and why this small town is setting a huge example for the world.

💚 This episode is a love letter to what tourism can be when people, planet, and purpose come together.

📌 Mentioned in This Episode:

• Huatulco, Mexico

• EarthCheck Platinum Certification

• Oaxacan crafts and coffee plantations

• Eco-resorts & reef-safe sunscreen

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