On this episode of Vibin’ & Kinda Thrivin’, I’m joined by YouTuber and host of Toni Bryanne TV Podcast and The Decision Podcast; Toni Bryanne, for a no-filter deep dive into the chaos of modern life. We’re talking everything from the rise (and fall) of ethical journalism in the age of AI to why Gen Alpha can’t read, and how misinformation is warping our collective empathy. We get into the Sydney Sweeney bathwater situation, the oversexualization of women in media, and whether it’s possible to reclaim power through sex work or if the marketing is just getting lazy.

Plus, we’re going in on modern dating, emotional unavailability, choosing peace over partnerships, and why women in their 30s are living their best, most intentional lives. And of course, we wrap with a Spill the Tea that had both of us yelling “drop him off at his mom’s!” If you’ve ever felt like you’re changing faster than the world can keep up, this one’s for you.

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Alessandra is back after a chaotic trip to Arizona—complete with an unexpected bout of hay fever—and she’s catching you up on everything from Pride in Asbury Park to her nieces visiting and a soul-stirring Teddy Swims concert at Radio City. This week’s “Spill the Tea” dives deep with advice on family betrayal, emotionally manipulative partners, messy weddings, weaponized therapy, toxic grandmothers, and friendship shifts after motherhood. Alessandra unpacks the reality of being single in your 30s, why kids today literally can’t read, and how fake allergies took her out. Tune in for brutally honest advice, heartfelt commentary, and the unfiltered chaos you come for.

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In this hilariously honest episode Alessandra catches us up on her whirlwind week of travel across New York, Delaware, Pennsylvania, and Arizona; all while celebrating family milestones and reflecting on the joy (and chaos) of close relationships. She opens up about overcoming burnout, what it’s really like to pivot careers in your 30s, and how ADHD plays a role in managing creative; fast-paced work.

Plus, Alessandra reads your “Spill the Tea” submissions about everything from a friend stealing your baby name… for a dog?! The group vacation that turned into a group therapy session and more.

Alessandra gets real about growing pains in adulthood, being honest in communication without burning bridges, and how it’s totally normal to feel jealous when your friends are thriving;especially in your 30s. If you’ve ever felt behind, misunderstood, or just burnt out by people, this is your Monday reset.

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