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Ever look around and realize your life garden has become overgrown with relationships that no longer serve you? As women navigating midlife, we're already juggling so much—teenagers, aging parents, careers, and our changing bodies—while everyone seems to need something from us. When do we pause to consider which relationships truly deserve our precious energy?

Drawing from my personal journey through divorce a decade ago, I share how that transition became a catalyst for intentionally reassessing every relationship in my life. The metaphor of garden maintenance provides a powerful framework for understanding the different people in our lives. The "flowers" are those who make us feel seen and celebrated, who reach out just to check in, and who bring light without demanding we dim our own. These relationships deserve our nurturing energy because they grow with us, making our lives more beautiful by their presence.

Then there are the "weeds"—those energy vampires and chronic complainers who leave us feeling depleted after every interaction. Sometimes they're family members or friends we've known since childhood, making them particularly difficult to address. I offer practical, drama-free strategies for setting boundaries and limiting exposure to these relationships. Remember, not everyone gets to journey with you into this next season of life—that's your choice, so choose wisely.

The most beautiful part happens after you've done some weeding: suddenly, there's space for new growth, new connections, and deeper joy. Midlife is the perfect season to bloom again with stronger roots and intentional relationships that truly nourish your soul. This episode isn't just about cutting people out—it's about creating the space to cultivate a garden that reflects who you're becoming and supports the life you want to live.

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