Two different realities that can share similar yet extremely different feelings. Similar but different, hope and healing - surviving and thriving towards restoration.

The realization of what happens upon the discovery of his secret life and the partner betrayal trauma and the reality of it

As we roll into the new year, coming off the "bye" week and re-evaluating our own recoveries, lets not forget or minimizing the impacts of sexual addiction on the spouse. The Partner is living thru their own "personal quake" and the tremors are felt over and over. Get healing from this devastating trauma, learn empathy for her, show up in those times she needs you to, whether its a week, a month, a year or 15 years later. Be there it is trauma, it is devastating. But it does NOT have to define you or your relationship any longer!

Go to tableminsitry.com for more information as well as details on our Bridge to Intimacy Conference March 28-29 2025!

Join Tom as he discusses the "bye" week and how to look at ways to "self scout" our own recovery. Maybe taking a walk thru your step 6 again, evaluating your defects of character, maybe some new ones that cropped up, maybe identifying the one that has been hindering your progress the most. Not looking at how to defend but take the offense and take this opportunity to look at ways to do things differently and to improve yourself, your marriage, your relationships and your intimacy with God.

Email or text Michele or Tom for any questions you would like answered on future episodes. Also go to tableministry.com for more information on the Bridge to Intimacy Conference in March 2025.

Welcome to the Table. Have a seat sit back and lets talk about freedom from sexual sin and partner betrayal trauma. Its impact on the church, what our model at FBC may look like and future discussions and guests. We will have open Q&A live feeds starting in January and love to have folks chime in with questions, comments and even success stories about their journey!

Come to the Table Ministry hosted Pure Desire's Traci Wright and Dr. Jake Porter from Daring Ventures at its 3rd Annual Princess Warrior Retreat at Sandy Cove Resort in Northeast MD. What a healing weekend it was.

Listen to Session 2 from Dr. Jake Porter on "The Journey to Healing After Betrayal - Returning to You" | Part 1: A Worlds Creation.

Visit tableminsitry.com for information on this years Men's & Women's Retreats as well as our Conference in March 2025!

Join us as Dan Drake returns for another Podcast. Dan will be discussing an exercise for Empathetic Attunement called "Lion Heart Breathing" that he uses in his therapy and specifically during the Disclosure Process. Please join us as Dan walks thru this exercise with us live. You won't want to miss this truly impactful technique of "Holding Her Heart". Dan Drake is the Founder and Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group https://www.banyantherapy.com/ in Los Angeles, California. He is a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Supervisor and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor. Dan is a Christian, a husband, and a father. Buy Dan and Janice's books! (these are paid links) For you the Disclosing Partner (the blue books): Full Disclosure: How To Share The Truth After Sexual Betrayal - https://amzn.to/3IdtTIN Your Disclosure Document: A 10-Step Guide - https://amzn.to/3uykzMw For your Partner (the green books): Full Disclosure: How Disclosure Can Help You Heal (part 1) - https://amzn.to/42RrXz9 Full Disclosure: Preparing For Disclosure On Your Terms (part 2) - https://amzn.to/49Kk2G5 Full Disclosure: Post Disclosure Healing (part 3) - https://amzn.to/3TayQsf Contact Info for Dan: Dan@banyantherapy.com https://www.banyantherapy.com/ Tom & Michele Tom@tableministry.com Michele@tableministry.com https://www.tableministry.com/